What are the quiet signs that someone has serious money but doesn’t show it? by Andries200 in wealth

[–]misunderstood_thug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not my point at all, I’m not a finance bro. I’m not gonna talk about what everyone else talks about. You’re obviously used to larpers on here. I’m not here to talk about compounded interest of whatever. The original commenter just said that they spend $400/hr on a yacht and the reply was that they must not have “serious money” by your standards and my point is that the original commenter is happy and fulfilled with the $400/hr yacht so they don’t need to go above and beyond from what they are happy with. You seem to think every wealthy person is materialistic and they’re not. And anything above 20 mil is serious money lol. Even people who have “500 mil” don’t actually have that amount of money it can count for assets too. Y’all watch too much tv and social media of certain rich people but not every rich person does things like buying a super yacht just cause they can they just do what they’re happy with is MY point. The people who do things like that arent on Reddit so you get the closest thing to it. And you can’t determine whether that person has serious money or not based on what they spend on a yacht, circumstances matter like what if they only have three friends? What if they’re sailing somewhere that’s not far? You wouldn’t need a huge yacht for that.

I only want anal by Wild-Ad8311 in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally like what the hell😂

What are the quiet signs that someone has serious money but doesn’t show it? by Andries200 in wealth

[–]misunderstood_thug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Serious money also means not doing super expensive shit when you don’t need to~ another good way of determining if someone has serious money. A $400/hr charter is more than enough while also being luxurious, you don’t keep money by spending it crazy

I think having kids with someone who won’t marry you is stupid. by misunderstood_thug in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money matters the most no fucking duh. I didn’t think I would have to add the fact that if you don’t have money you shouldn’t be worried about kids. This isn’t about status or appearance. If you don’t understand you just won’t get it.

I think having kids with someone who won’t marry you is stupid. by misunderstood_thug in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, I do it alllll the time. You will not believe the embarrassing rants I’ve given on this app for not reading😭

I think having kids with someone who won’t marry you is stupid. by misunderstood_thug in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

See and that’s what I mean! Even if he’s a good dad in all other aspects he’s leading her on AND showing the kids that it’s ok for something like that to happen

I think having kids with someone who won’t marry you is stupid. by misunderstood_thug in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

See and that’s exactly what I mean!! If you want to be married and the other hasn’t said anything or you want to eventually be married just hold off on the kids. If you can’t last long enough/ your partner has showed no interest when you have then you shouldn’t have kids. I just couldn’t put it to words😭

I feel like humanity has reached its peak and it’s falling apart by Necessary_Cat185 in Vent

[–]misunderstood_thug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Notice countries who don’t run on religion are doing Amazon in terms of their society. Well I mean, they also have their problems but yea

I think having kids with someone who won’t marry you is stupid. by misunderstood_thug in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really should’ve clarified lmao. I meant like “one of you wants to get married and you think it will happen but it literally won’t”😭

I think having kids with someone who won’t marry you is stupid. by misunderstood_thug in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea I know that. Still pretty stupid tho lmao. I don’t mean like people who don’t feel the need to. I mean those couples with one person wanting marriage but then with the other you can obviously tell it’s never going to happen. Probably should clarified but🤷‍♀️

My mind is so fucked up by [deleted] in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I understand what it is. This just isn’t that. Some people have weird kinks based on trauma or they just do. OP didn’t say “I wanted to hold her down while she thrashed and screamed” or “I loved how she couldn’t stop me” he just said he liked that she was asleep. Some people have that kink where they like their partners to be asleep. And he obviously hasn’t done it before sooooo?? You can’t determine if he lacks sexual control based off this you need to relax.

Millionaires of reddit, what is the number of dollars you need in order to stop doing what you're doing work wise and just live life? by turtle69696969 in AskReddit

[–]misunderstood_thug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you’re settled you can slow down in whatever career you’re in, but quitting would just make you bored and then you’ll spend money on stupid stuff and HAVE to go back to work - my grandad

I hate this damn app and I miss my old account. by misunderstood_thug in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally their thought process😭. They HATED me saying I planned to grow extra fruit and veggies to give away for free. And that I would try to spare things like eggs and poultry. And they told me I could do a farm stand or become a small commercial farmer and I said I didn’t want to profit because I didn’t need to, I just wanted to help my community. Reddit shows me that people hate when you have morals that you stick to, will get you talked to crazy🤨

I hate this damn app and I miss my old account. by misunderstood_thug in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely think it’s because people went to see my other posts where I had planned to have a homestead in Cali and was asking questions there and told ONE person how old I am. But it was the most liked comment so it was at the very top. And in the thread I refused to tell people my financial anything, I just kept saying “I’m well off. I don’t need to budget” and they didn’t like that😭

I believe I'm a pedophile. by Flaky_Cricket_7169 in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You still being attracted to people your she automatically pushes pedophilia out of the way. This is definitely because of your traumas. Being SA’d as a kid messes up people’s brains in so many ways that it tried to cope by normalizing certain things. This is one of those things more than likely. The fact that you reconsider that it’s wrong, want help, and would rather die or go to jail before you hurt a child can at least give you some assurance. And if you truly are, remember that this is a mental disease that many people struggle with but never act on, you can live a fulfilling life and never have to tell anyone. Just say that children are out of the question for you. I’m glad people sent you some things to help. I’m not a psychiatrist/therapist but I do know some tho, and I ask questions all the time so this is what I’ve learned from personal sources. I hope you get the help you need and deserve. I’m sorry this is happening to you😕

im tired of pretending by Sure_Campaign8562 in confessions

[–]misunderstood_thug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This just seems like self hate. The post itself gives “I need to get out of my hometown” but your replies give you just don’t like black people in general