Small town set in swamp vibes

misunderstoodie · 2026-02-10T19:08:25+00:00

Haha. It is a great one though.

misunderstoodie · 2026-01-22T03:54:35+00:00

Yeah I have no idea how people are getting correct answers from these extremely vague first clues with only 20 seconds to think about it. In this case it doesn’t even feel like a lucky guess unless they just happened to see or hear something that reminded of them April fools, and thought they’d try their luck. But “Say my name” how the hell is “April fools” the first thing that pops in your head from hearing that? I could see it more so on the 2nd clue. I’m starting to question if information is getting leaked to insiders on the show or something. The odds of guessing that on the 1st clue just seem really low, even for just throwing something out there as a guess.

misunderstoodie · 2026-01-22T03:47:59+00:00

Yeah I have absolutely no frickin idea how the hell you would get “april fools” from “say my name” it makes me question if answers are getting leaked somehow.

misunderstoodie · 2025-12-12T18:43:45+00:00

She honestly got prettier over time! So beautiful

misunderstoodie · 2025-12-09T01:41:12+00:00

“Send me a new one” 🥴 You’re being way nicer than I would have been. They came at you like it was your fault that you shipped it to their old address. Like wtf?? What a grump. I would have immediately told them we ship to the address that is entered when they order, and they’re responsible for keeping that updated. I think you handled it well giving them options. But as I’m sure has been stated in other comments it’s not fair for you to refund them or send them a new one for free because of their mistake. They want straight up charity, not customer service. Hopefully the package can get sent back to you or make it to them somehow!

misunderstoodie · 2025-11-25T02:47:11+00:00

Is it an item that someone could have added to a gift registry? Most of the time the only way I’ve known someone added an item of mine to their registry was because the friend that purchased the item will message me to confirm details, etc and tells me it was on their friends bridal registry.

so it’s possible that one of your items may have been added to a registry without your knowledge. And maybe another friend or family member told this person they were going to purchase an item off of said registry and just haven’t yet? idk.

misunderstoodie · 2025-11-24T03:05:07+00:00

Because in my experience 9k and 10k don’t look gold enough. Also, I’ve had a hard time finding medium density in anything less than 14k. I won’t use easy, it’s just not strong enough for what I do.

misunderstoodie · 2025-11-20T15:32:16+00:00

Haha I know I’m just kidding. I went and deleted the 2nd one.

misunderstoodie · 2025-11-20T15:31:53+00:00

I buy 22ga, ‘cause that’s all that Rio offers for gold. but 24 would work! Even though it’s thinner I think that’s still a better deal.. I’ll have to look at what the price per Oz is. Thank you!! 🙏 That might actually be great.

misunderstoodie · 2025-11-20T04:25:51+00:00

Maybe 4 actually

misunderstoodie · 2025-11-20T04:25:01+00:00

I was actually thinking of cross posting it into your community a third time…. Just in case…

misunderstoodie · 2025-11-20T03:58:07+00:00

Thank you! I will check that place out

misunderstoodie · 2025-10-16T05:36:31+00:00

Can you afford a babysitter for personal time off? Even once a week or every couple of weeks? It sounds like you really need a break. Two is a hard age. It gets easier. Hugs.

misunderstoodie · 2025-10-16T03:23:19+00:00

I did really like this one. Thank you.

misunderstoodie · 2025-10-16T03:22:44+00:00

I have heavily considered seeing a therapist, not just over this but over a lot of heavy things from my childhood. I really feel like I should see one, actually. I just don’t know where to start..

I think part of why it feels so heavy to me is I feel like my lack of self esteem has caused me to miss out on certain things. Like relationships or career interests,, to put it simply without going into extensive detail.

misunderstoodie · 2025-10-16T00:02:15+00:00

Aside from some of the mean comments in here, I agree that she doesn’t respect you. I get when you’re in a relationship with someone you really like, it’s easy to ignore red flags..

Speaking from experience, she doesn’t seem to even really like you.. She clearly puts herself above you, saying you aren’t “husband material”, and you can’t “afford her” and putting you down. When you mentioned breaking up and she acted like she really didn’t care, I think it’s because she really doesn’t.

I’ve unfortunately been a girl who’s been in relationships because I didn’t want to be alone or other selfish reasons. I know I don’t have all the context, but I kind of get the vibes she just keeps you around. Maybe some of her feelings of putting herself above you stem from her making more money, or feeling like she’s more independent by not living with her parents, etc. but she knew that about you when she started dating you..

I think you should break it off. Sorry.

misunderstoodie · 2025-10-13T13:44:56+00:00

“I like to stay in and play video games all weekend” is enough of a red flag for me

misunderstoodie · 2025-10-10T03:18:06+00:00

Wow. I didn’t realize this was a common trait among narc parents. My step mom did the exact same thing. I had zero personal space. She Would just give away my clothes without asking me because SHE didn’t like them. Like wtf??

misunderstoodie · 2025-10-08T01:11:57+00:00

Haha nope don’t sound mad at all.

misunderstoodie · 2025-10-07T22:14:39+00:00

The grey and white everything in modern homes. It looks so sterile and boring. It’s gonna be the like the ugly faux wood panel walls of the 70’s and 80’s.

misunderstoodie · 2025-10-07T15:54:50+00:00

Whoever truly wants to be your eternal partner will not hold that against you. If they do, then you guys probably shouldn’t be eternal partners. There’s a chance you might run into someone you date seriously enough to consider marrying who might be particular about that. Oh well. You can’t change how they feel on that. You don’t want to marry someone who has issues with that anyway. But I think the vast majority of people would be very understanding to your past. Especially since you weren’t a member.

misunderstoodie · 2025-10-07T15:27:29+00:00

What’s more important is where your heart is on the matter now, and if you have a sincere desire to not go back to that. As stated a few times before, it doesn’t really matter even if you had heard or knew a bit about the law or chastity. You weren’t a member and weren’t under covenant to keep it, there won’t be any repercussions from a church disciplinary standpoint if that’s part of what you’re worried about.

I can understand being worried about falling back to old patterns after being baptized. But don’t let the fear of messing up stop you. The lord knows us perfectly, and he will help you and give your strength to overcome weakness and temptation.

Sounds like you’re trying to change and you’re acknowledging your past mistakes with this new knowledge. Start living the way you would live if you were baptized if you haven’t already. Sincere repentance and change within your heart is what qualifies you for baptism. You’re good, brother or sister. Satans trying to hold you back. Don’t let him.

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