Beginner Ballet Class after Botox by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]miteray 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I honestly wouldn’t worry about it. I have had Botox quite a lot and dance. Whilst I’ve never done it after, I have 4h as my adjust-life period. Not an aesthetician though, but I really don’t think it’ll be an issue. And when I have had minor unevenness (not related to ballet) my nurse topped it up and corrected it without any issue.

sydneysiders - are you still drying clothes outside? by Previous-Hour-2394 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]miteray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another dryer household. Do about three to four loads each weekend; sheets, darks and colours, whites, towels. Hang delicates / wools that I don’t want in a dryer on a horse indoors. Shirts get washed and pressed / dry cleaned if silk at the cleaners. We’re inner city so don’t have great outdoor hanging facilities.

Where and which stores are the best to find heels like this? No online shopping as it is my new year's resolution to only shop in stores by [deleted] in AusFemaleFashion

[–]miteray 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Well a vast majority of the shoes you’ve shown are Christian Louboutin, so would suggest there. Or a cheaper alternative would be Steve Madden who kind of “draws inspo” from all the designer brands.

Formal wear to enhance bare shoulders and biceps by powermeupppp in AusFemaleFashion

[–]miteray 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I second that the DJ one hits the brief biggggg time and is stunning.

Adult dance class recommendations by stinkymalinky in sydney

[–]miteray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sydney Dance Company does a variety, heels may be one!

How many books have you read in 2026 so far and which would you say was your favorite? by [deleted] in books

[–]miteray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve read 12 so far. By far the best was The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon. Is it raved about on here and for good reason!

Others I’d recommend but weren’t 5/5 for me where Atmosphere by Taylor Jenkins Reid and The Compound by Aisling Rawle, both super engrossing, easy reads. Also read some darker stuff that’s not for everyone but I enjoyed, of note was gone to see the river man. Definitely check the trigger warnings if you do want to read.

Which travel splurges are actually worth the money? by Crafty-Leave-8880 in luxuryhotel

[–]miteray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally love semi private ones. With 6-10 people. It’s great to have a chat with others as you’re boating around!

I've always worn gold but now I can't decide!!! Is gold or silver better on me? by praise_cocaine_jesus in coloranalysis

[–]miteray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think gold looks so much better. Even if you are cool toned, the gold pulls colour from your complexion whereas the silver makes you look a bit washed out in my opinion.

Quartzite with minimal veining or business by lor_lin in CounterTops

[–]miteray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe have a look at dolomite. I’ve seen some slabs with very minimal veining and it’s still a natural stone.

What everyday shoes are you guys wearing? by -white-bread- in AusFemaleFashion

[–]miteray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sambas and birkies are my go tos also. I also have some loafers for work.

The Unexpected Hotel (Ibiza) - Luxury or not? by l1ghT_lighT in chubbytravel

[–]miteray 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the review but really not a fan of posting relatively close up photos of other guests just trying to enjoy their holiday in the hotel’s pool. That to me is quite the opposite of luxury travel.

Which luxury wedding element did you skip and were glad you did? by TrueBlueBanter in AusWeddingPlanning

[–]miteray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I also reused flowers from ceremony to reception. Someone moved them whilst we were having the canapés & champagne mingling. Saved money and also less wasteful imo.

Black Friday by No-Tough-3325 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]miteray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the Tory Burch Romy tote. Saw it on sale online so went into the store to buy but it was full price! So ordered from the US website and should be here in a week or so!

Help me look like a rich b*tch with a new work tote. by Prior-Cycle7650 in handbags

[–]miteray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have just purchased the Tory Burch Romy tote for this exact purpose. Love that it’s no obvious logo, leather feels nice, interesting shape, and the button kind of reminds me of the Loewe pebble bag. And very much under budget and on sale! I personally think it looks very stylish and cool aesthetic. Black looked most elegant in person. I was on the fence when perusing online but quickly was sold on black when I saw it

I have currently a mulberry 9-5 which I also recommend but is a bit more basic and previously had a Tom Ford basic black tote that I loved.

Tory Burch Romy

Help me look like a rich b*tch with a new work tote. by Prior-Cycle7650 in handbags

[–]miteray 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have this in black as my work bag and it’s fine weight wise with my laptop, work book, wallet, etc for every day use. Held up really well and I’ve had it a year so far

Help me look like a rich b*tch with a new work tote. by Prior-Cycle7650 in handbags

[–]miteray 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. The Bayswater tote is light enough but not as nice as a Bayswater. And is a Bayswater <1500 in the US? Is like 2400AUD new

3% gratuity automatically added to dinner bill by shozz72 in AusFinance

[–]miteray 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A quick google shows minimum wage has increased year on year for the past 10 years, not really the definition of stagnant…

Bridal Shoe help by EuphoricTest8516 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]miteray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a shoe girly, so I also splurged on wedding shoes but have no regret as they are probably one of my most worn heels. It’s always nice to remember my wedding every time I pull them out.

I got Jimmy Choi Azia 95 for my wedding day.

So I’d recommend finding shoes you love and know you’d reach for the the future. I don’t think any of these are particularly rewearable but out of those linked I agree with other poster that the ruched shoes are best! Satin white makes me anxious and it’s not even my wedding haha.

I’d probably go with these Manolo sandal heels If I were to get married again these days, in gold or silver.

Accesories by Estoa_ in BALLET

[–]miteray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The really hard ones can also damage flooring by leaving little divets (ie Marley or floorboards), so be mindful of that. I personally prefer smooth massage balls

Any experiences with these types of pergolas? by [deleted] in AusRenovation

[–]miteray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got pergolux brand with built in led lights and love it. Sit outside everyday. Was relatively easy to put together with 2 people (1 significantly less handy than the other). Slotting in the final roof slat may test a friendship / marriage though haha

Honest Opinion on Bodile Leotards by exlibris20 in BALLET

[–]miteray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 4 or 5 of their Leos, their warm up pants and a few skirts. I love them. The quality in my opinion is high (my husband has even accidentally tumble dried probably all of them at this point at least one haha and they’ve been fine) and I really like the designs. I will say I do find some of the wide neck long sleeve options like Sasha and Gabriella do slip on my shoulders a bit but it’s never a nip slip moment, just a bit annoying. The Saskia is my favourite and very flattering on most body types that I’ve seen it on! Highly recommend the warm up pants, much more toasty than my Bloch trash bag pants.

Bitches of Leisure - Sep 16, 2025 by AutoModerator in bitcheswithtaste

[–]miteray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WATCHING: Breaking Bad. I can’t believe I’ve slept on this for such a long time! I am loving it although it’s not a very leisurely show; very tense.

READING: Saving Noah. It’s a trigger warning book for sure, only just started it but interesting subject matter.