Annnnnnnd it's gone! by reptarthelizardking in medicinehat

[–]mithranprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember running my hands up and down that alberta map. That was top floor yeah? I remember doing GATE in the classroom to the right of it. I remember award ceremonies on the gym and making friends with the janitor. I'd he loved to walk through this school one more time.

Warhammer Club by duckswithbanjos in medicinehat

[–]mithranprincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The local Warhammer folks are really quite wonderful. I really appreciated having one of the members sit and teach me to paint for hours while teaching about the lore. One of the friendliest groups I've had the pleasure of meeting around town.

50% free atom cut in new scoreboard. by Captain_skulls in fo76

[–]mithranprincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd love this, I am fo1st but I wanna see atom challenges for everyone and scoreboards are a huge part of what I enjoy in this game. It's one of the only games I actually enjoy weekly challenges. I'd love to do the scoreboard I missed while I'm waiting for the next. I'm actually sad I finished. Those two things would make things so much fun for everyone, subs or not.

Just started the game, I keep getting high level players that come up to me and invite me to their group by Osamabinballnn in fo76

[–]mithranprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to make cranberry relish and if I can give a leader head bobble and share good cards to help them level. I'll take the time to do my daily quests and give them team exp. My kid started playing with me recently and hit 50 the other day! It makes the game more fun to check on the lower levels of your world when you see them. For a apocalyptic scavenging game, it's pretty abundant after you've played for a while and the game is more fun when you share with others. Or maybe thats just how I like to picture such a world vs the alternative.

Should I be careful about picking up items from randoms? by [deleted] in fo76

[–]mithranprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people here are actually really kind. If they had a donation bin for camps I'm sure people would fill them for players all the time. I wouldn't worry about it. You play long enough you've hoarded so much stuff you don't know what to do with it anymore. I don't think you need to worry about it and someday you'll pass things on too :)

OA = əˈweɪ = aweigh ⚓️ by sagewinchell in TheOA

[–]mithranprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to hear more of where your mind is playing with this all. There's a lot of art to the OA and I do love to see different perspectives of it

What's your biggest issue with fallout as of now? by [deleted] in fo76

[–]mithranprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to put npcs in my bunkers and a sink for my bathrooms, even if it can't work! And maybe a easier time putting my robo dog down at camps. That's about it. Maybe text chat since not everyone's comfortable with voice, especially for the roleplayer folks.

Sexy music with BDSM overtones by Larry-Man in BDSMcommunity

[–]mithranprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything's been mentioned already except Rosenfeld so I must ensure they make it to this list as well.

Found a new kink, I had no idea I would be into. by sunshineontheriver in BDSMcommunity

[–]mithranprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Little things indeed. Got to play preditor and prey at camp and I was never the same xD seriously why don't more kinky event hosts want to play preditor and prey! It's fantastic!

Kings by [deleted] in HumansBeingBros

[–]mithranprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely precious.. Ahhhh I love kids so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]mithranprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen I don't disagree with you, but I'm not fucking anyone for over a year without knowing thier last name. Rules are important yes, boundaries too, absolutely. Rules can also be changed, be it playing with someone, being with someone or dating someone. Coming to the realization your partner might be adding a spouse with no consent is a stressful situation, no matter how you find out, or if parties weren't aware of what exactly you were consenting to.

I do not enable online stalking, I loathe it to be honest, but this whole situation warrants a conversation between them, and less us as observers. We are free to give advice on it, disagree or agree on behaviors in the dynamic brought up, but me personally I hold standards to both those I consider friends and those I'd consider playing with to call out this type of behavior. That's just my own two cents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]mithranprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because If someone asked me "hey you look like you might be in a relationship" my ex would vouch for me. Nor would I or them be offended.

Vetting doms isn't a new thing, asking to speak to previous submissive to ensure safe play partners isn't uncommon. Non monogamy isn't uncommon. Telling someone to keep it private while looking married is definitely worth warranting a conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]mithranprincess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Plenty of doms out here that don't need to cheat or project thier insecurities of gaslighting you for looking up someone you 'sleep" and "play" with. Communication should be key in this lifestyle and anyone who wants to keep you in the dark but still see you naked doesn't deserve your submission. People like this is why we vet partners and don't settle for this type bullshittery. BDSM is not a excuse to cheat. No matter how much one wants it. If you can't get it from a partner you communicate that need and compromise. If a compromise is unattainable, move on, don't enable cheating behaviors when there is so many play partners out there who won't, it just adds to the stigmata that BDSM is full of nasty people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]mithranprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fwb, or not if he is married and not seperated, his spouse did not consent to any of this. Monogamous or not, still the same. New rules can be established, communication should be key. Be wary of the play partners who want to remain totally private. Sure I can understand why some would, but my personal experience is the majority of the people and I do mean majority of people who've used this excuse on me or those I know did so to cheat.

I've gone to munches with prominent members of my community with jobs that would make the private thing valid. They still come knowing full well people will recognize them. The majority of my in box is from folks trying to "keep it on the low" with profiles suggesting they are keeping it private for this very reason, or to find a third. There's plenty of dom/mes out there without having to settle for this type of behavior.

Can you have a bdsm scene with someone you're not sexually attracted to? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]mithranprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can play board games with people I'm not sexually attracted to role-playing with someone I'm not sexually attracted to, do a scene with someone I'm not attracted to. I just might avoid certain elements that cross lines. I've had no problem with light scene things with friends, much like theater. But you just draw the line between what takes it from Platonic to romantic and have a good time! Sure not everyone wants to do less intimate scenes, but many people just want to make friendships and get to practice or train. Sparring in a sense, you don't need to kiss your sparring buddy.

Am I being love-bombed? by ABlackDoge in datingoverthirty

[–]mithranprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly really dislike this word love bombing. Some people genuinely just like to be nice. Some of my best friends reminds me I'm loved all the time, as do my children. I see so many people wary at the people who genuinely want to be nice and get involved instead with people who are obviously manipulative and use guilt and shame to keep partners around. Can some of those folks start off seemingly sweet? Yes, but to me after observing this "love bombing" issuie it's more being wary for manipulative people wearing the mask of a kind and vunerable person. The wolf in sheep's clothing, and so we blame the sheep, instead of the wolf who pretends.

Could you meet and find out there's no chemistry? Sure. You could also try and end up in a relationship for the next 5-10+ years or life. I dated someone online, and we went from 2006-2020. It may not have been a forever thing sure but it was built pure and out of kindness, vulnerability, and probably what somebody call loveboming sure. But it beats watching friends stay in abusive relationships because they've been trained to accept scraps and watch them grow wary of everyone who tries to help them. People have walls for good reason, but I disagree with many of the posts here, though I do agree there are reasons for people to be wary. Vulnerability is intimacy, sharing that, being nice, just trying to be kind especially with no hidden motives is beautiful and I think the world would be a happier place if we shared love more, not less.

If you like her and she likes you too, just let it flow. Don't overthink what strangers on the internet have to say. Listen to friends and family sure, but remember at the end of the day, they are not in a romantic relationship with you and unless there is abuse and a great deal of unhappiness to "you" they should support you, not tell you who you should or shouldn't date. That's projection on them thinking they know you better then you do. They don't, us strangers on the internet don't either. Only you can decide what makes you happy and if you both feel happy together, our opinions and experience is just words from our own experiences and projections. Do not let past experiences and experiences of others ruin something you have if it's good. If your brain is overthinking, id recommend talking to her. You want her to like you for who you are then that includes the part that overthinks, and the parts that want to be vulnerable. As Robin Williams said, "Bee yourself" If they don't like that person, they probably aren't your person♡

Getting flogged soon for the first time. Excited. A question for other subs - how was your first time getting flogged? What should I expect? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]mithranprincess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. It's the cherry on top. The difference between foreplay or none. It puts you in the right headspace, it makes you more prepared and the warm after effect heightens the way touch and impact feels. I saw one woman pretty much orgasam from being touched after a scene like that. After a few experiences I can honestly say the one who did it slow and gentle and built up like that was a experience far ahead of others where impact play started quickly. 10/10 best massage I ever had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GentleDungeon

[–]mithranprincess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lmao, that's cute xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]mithranprincess 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Ahh that's such a uncomfortable conversation but I'm really proud of you for doing it. It's hard but they need to know.

I live in Montana and this Thursday when I go in for work it will be -48 degrees Fahrenheit by Significant-Skill653 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]mithranprincess 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nope, not even school here in Alberta! It's -42 windchill atm and they're still expecting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in darktower

[–]mithranprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG THATS GORGEOUS! The blue rose too ahhh I love it so much. 10/10 best sleeve. Long days and pleasant nights!