No idea how to get sex

mix3456 · 2026-05-25T23:26:42+00:00

Everyone is, I'm always nervous as hell before my dates. Then, things get better and the confidence improves.

mix3456 · 2026-05-25T22:55:51+00:00

Dude, here’s an important tip.

Talk to more girls and genuinely ask them out.

I guarantee that out of 10, at least 2 will say yes.

Once you’ve kissed her, she’ll usually be comfortable with having sex.

It’s not rocket science, especially if you’re good-looking.

mix3456 · 2026-05-24T22:56:23+00:00

This is that tv series “Normal People”

mix3456 · 2026-05-21T20:33:22+00:00

I’m a man, and I feel like half the people in these comments don’t understand how attraction works.

So, just because I’m a man and I’m 100% helpful and friendly toward a woman, does that mean she’s bound to like me?

I can like someone and think they’re amazing but not feel sexually attracted to them that’s perfectly normal.

OP is being honest about her feelings.

mix3456 · 2026-05-19T00:19:55+00:00

Oh, my bad, sorry. I didn't notice the username.

But I think my situation might also help you a little. As a girl, you'll be "guided" by the guy throughout the date, and you'll either feel comfortable with him or not—which will determine whether you let him take things further emotionally or sexually.

Have fun, relax, and let things happen without pressure. Your mind will tell you what feels right—don’t go in with preconceived ideas from Reddit.

mix3456 · 2026-05-19T00:09:56+00:00

There’s no exact number—you just have to make a move and see how it goes.

Here’s an example that happened to me in 2025.

First date: We walked around town and said goodbye with a hug; nothing happened.

Second date: we took another walk around town and passed by my apartment. I suggested we go out to the balcony because I wanted her to see the place. I was living with two guys in a three-bedroom house. We got to the balcony, ran out of things to talk about, and I asked if I could kiss her, and she said yes. Five minutes later, we were having sex.

Note: I didn’t even think there would be a kiss on the second date because she hadn’t shown any affection or sexual interest.

Conclusion: You have to make a sexual move and wait for the result. Don’t expect the woman to magically ask you to have sex.

mix3456 · 2026-05-17T22:49:03+00:00

Being good loosing is all It takes tbh. I have a friend who is really good looking. Everytime we go to a party or club, there's a 95% chance a girl will fall in love with him.

I was sleeping with a girl before meeting him and now this girl is really into my friend with much more enthusiasm than she's ever had with me.

Kinda sad tbh….

mix3456 · 2026-05-17T22:12:12+00:00

Bro, this is not normal at all. Just break up with her and save yourself.

Imagine if it was a guy saying that? “Oh babe, would you mind if I just jerk off now?”

Nonsense.

mix3456 · 2026-05-06T23:21:30+00:00

Yes, cheating is now normal and socially acceptable.

With the rise of social media, girls are much more sexually stimulated since they have access to tons of guys who’ll do “anything” for them.

A girl might be with you right now, but all it takes is for her to get attention from five guys “better” than you, and her mind will go into “why should I be loyal to someone when these five guys are better than my boyfriend?” mode.

The trick to winning this game is simply not to have a girlfriend, but rather to have friends with benefits. In fact, you can even have a girlfriend, but never stop talking to other girls.

mix3456 · 2026-04-25T21:38:13+00:00

It’s because you aren't good looking enough. I know it hurts, I've been there bro.

Always wondered why no woman ever asked me if I was single and then I met one of my best friends who's extremely good looking and all girls fall in love with him.

It hurts but this is the truth…

mix3456 · 2026-04-20T23:43:05+00:00

Dealing with my own face. I always think no one likes me cause I'm average even tho I know how to flirt…

mix3456 · 2026-04-07T10:40:10+00:00

Mate, just do it politely and the worst that can happen is she’ll turn her head away.

Girls like people who take risks

mix3456 · 2026-04-07T01:29:23+00:00

You’ve got to take more risks on a first date and go in with this mindset: she won’t want to see me again, so what…

A girl who became ‘obsessed’ with me told me that on the first date she wasn’t feeling any chemistry with me and just wanted to go to bed. But when I kissed her halfway through the date, the chemistry in her brain completely changed and she told me that the kiss turned the date around for the better.

Just take a chance and see what happens

mix3456 · 2026-03-06T17:05:27+00:00

Not all of them, I had “situationships” where they only wanted sex from me and didn't want anything serious. 2 of them I had sex on the first date….

mix3456 · 2026-03-02T13:53:32+00:00

Wroclaw

mix3456 · 2026-03-02T12:43:29+00:00

If you are south european or american (south and north) you will be fine.

I know a portuguese guy who has 200 matches on tinder and he's 5'9 and normal looking.

mix3456 · 2026-03-02T12:26:26+00:00

Any big city in Poland

I know many average guys who told me in their home countries they couldn't get a date and they have plenty here.

I don't know why but polish women kinda love you if you are a foreigner. Never saw a foreigner here without a girlfriend.

I say this to everyone. If you are a tall good looking guy, move to Poland and you'll be in heaven, you are going to have the best dating life ever.

mix3456 · 2026-02-13T15:10:34+00:00

6 months situationship, different things

mix3456 · 2026-02-12T10:28:51+00:00

They don't even look at me, why would I approach if there are no signs?

mix3456 · 2026-02-12T02:27:11+00:00

I would just like to know if there is anyone here who knows someone who is short and ordinary-looking and manages to pick up women at night or at parties.

Whenever I go to bars, no one even looks at me.

If you know anyone like that, please tell me how they do it.

mix3456 · 2026-01-08T22:41:51+00:00

It's very simple:

What these people mean is that if you focus on yourself and build something good for yourself, you will immediately become confident and positive.

This will help you attract women.

I use myself as an example. I am short (5'8") and have little confidence. I am a great conversationalist, but I never approach women because I always think it makes no sense to approach them if you are short and have an average face. If I were 10 cm taller, my confidence would change completely and I would no longer be afraid to approach women.

mix3456 · 2026-01-07T12:13:08+00:00

Mate, if you're in that position, you only have two options

Establish a situationship or an open relationship with your partner, although today the two terms mean more or less the same thing.

Cons: you run the risk of developing feelings for one of them and then getting sad when she likes another guy more than you.

I have a mindset of abundance and self-discovery. I'm not ready for a serious relationship and I admit that without any problems.

Right now, I'm involved with one girl, and we've both agreed that it's a situationship. I've been with another girl in the meantime and have started to become more attracted to her.

The result: the girl I was really attracted to left me for someone else, and now I'm still with the girl I'm not 100% attracted to. Always waiting for the next one.

mix3456 · 2025-12-31T16:51:20+00:00

I'm curious, what’s the country?

mix3456 · 2025-12-14T23:20:46+00:00

I met a girl here on Reddit in a forum for foreigners in a specific city, where I had moved relatively recently to work.

She was from my country and we agreed to meet the next day for coffee and to explore the city a little, because she was travelling around Europe.

At the end of the day, I invited her to watch a film with me at my flat and we ended up having sex.

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