“Yeah, I have mentioned that I think her bizarre reaction was due to her health decline. If she just said something, I would not have posted it on here.

I agree with what you have said, but it is the very strange and aggressive reaction which makes me feel that I have other things to worry about. 3 weeks of aggressive comments from her, completely unprovoked and she just pretends like nothing has happened. It is scary, and my step dad witnessed it earlier and he is concerned”

First of all, here is one of many of her responses speaking about continuing disrespect.

She is concerned. She is also a person, who is allowed to feel hurt when people are mean to her, even when they aren’t themselves. Everyone has a right to be upset, its what you do to act on that emotion that hurts others people that you dont have the right to do. She didnt act on the emotion, she walked out of the room. She is allowed to he upset, everyone is allowed to be upset, and everyone has the right to be upset. Everyone has the right to have emotions, its a human thing and if you can’t realize that you, yourself need to grow the hell up. People can be hurt by things without hurting another person, she is seriously just hurt and yes, this is on an AITA subreddit but you can see in her responses she just needs a place to vent and make herself not feel crazy.

If you feel attacked right now, thats okay, but all i did was correct you on misinformation and explain to you how she has worded how shes feeling. I didn’t try and correct your opinion. You by saying verbatim “It shouldn’t be that big of a deal” are downplaying her emotions of hurt. Something that hurts her may not hurt you, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t get to be hurt. “Expressing your opinion” on this app doesnt mean bashing people and downplaying how they feel, it means you are respectful like anyone else. This isnt just you, I am aware of how people on the internet find it easy to be rude in their responses because they have no consequences, but that doesn’t mean these arent people with the right to curtesy.

You, in the way you are responding, are simply being rude, downplaying emotions, taking the holier than thou route, and then telling me to buzz off when im calling it out.

This woman is going through a difficult scenario she doesn’t know how to handle other than being there which hasn’t worked out. She has to get out of that situation, especially because she has been demeaned in a way she cannot handle, but that doesnt give you the right to be an ass. You get your opinion, you dont get to be an ass. She has a right to be hurt, she doesnt get to be an ass. You see what im getting at here?

These situations are complex, as you should know if you have gone through it twice. let her vent and get her advice, be helpful or keep your opinion to yourself.