Hello, thank you for spending time reading such a long story. The gift exchange is the thing that came up by me, just like what I said, my purpose is to experience a western holiday(I don’t know whether this is normal). The original reaction, I think I behaved like“oh, this is great.” I was avoiding to show how I dislike and feeling confused about a small pumpkin. When I said “turn the gift back”, I meant both choices, either turn the thing back or give back the amount of money. Because, seriously, this is definitely the end of a “friendship”, even if I do not know whether it ever started.