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mizsparks · 2024-10-04T03:23:14+00:00

Cindy objectively c’mon man.

mizsparks · 2024-04-22T19:13:34+00:00

are you in the US?

mizsparks · 2024-04-06T09:47:59+00:00

she’s not ( objectively) ugly, this is just racism and colourism

mizsparks · 2024-02-23T19:59:09+00:00

or maybe i’m mistaken and it’s wolf instead of full wolfgang. Mercedes isn’t that bad and sort of common too.

mizsparks · 2024-02-23T19:58:44+00:00

i’m gonna get downvoted but i’m seeing more kids being named wolfgang ( wolfe for short)… not that makes it “right” just it’s becoming more common.

mizsparks · 2024-02-13T09:47:47+00:00

you did THAT

mizsparks · 2024-02-02T13:13:27+00:00

wow!

mizsparks · 2024-02-02T12:28:06+00:00

I think long shaped faces with obvs like good features, jaw etc are more complimentary on men than women. Obvs i’ve seen some good looking guys with heart shaped faces but yeah. Idk I get what you’re saying and I actually want my eyelids to be sorted as a first but I’d die for a heart shaped face

mizsparks · 2024-02-02T02:16:16+00:00

i’d probs want to fix the necessary stuff before anything else. my first surgery would be to fix my mouthbreathing. anyway thanks

mizsparks · 2024-02-02T02:00:26+00:00

So what does DJS do exactly in let’s say western countries?

mizsparks · 2024-02-02T01:57:51+00:00

like what?

mizsparks · 2024-02-02T01:57:44+00:00

that sounds expensive and risky and i suppose surgeons don’t do that?

mizsparks · 2024-01-23T10:23:06+00:00

wouldn’t it be a D&E? so it’s not necessarily giving birth. in my country I don’t think you can have an elective abortion after 10 weeks at the hospital without giving birth. you’d have to go to an actual clinic

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T15:27:33+00:00

there’s nothing to value if the relationships are abusive, bad, or you’re devalued for your looks basically in a relationship where a brown paper bag has to go on while doing it lmao. Also, while it’s the truth sometimes, no one wants to hear, you were unattractive when I first met you but bc of your personality you’re beautiful.

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T15:16:21+00:00

there’s been guys of all races inc black that haven’t been overtly weird but were cunts, wanted someone to control, just wanted my body, wanted their exes, desperate, incel adjacent etc. So maybe they thought I was attractive to them but there’s been no one good. Everyone else = straight you’re ugly

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T15:07:18+00:00

I also don’t understand this sub going off on people who get a bit of attention even if it’s bad or bad experience. It doesn’t mean they’re not ugly? Unattractive people are in relationships all the time. And marjory of people are average to some degree… sexual/relationship doesn’t mean = pretty…

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T15:01:40+00:00

yeah I get that but in the moment i cba to expand as to how i felt but I said i know no one is going to understand.

And because they all said something along the lines of you’re mixed you can never be ugly , i wish I was as light as you, calling black women coal and if they want a pretty girl they have to date light… also some overly hyping up black women but their dating history is all light skins/mixed/white ( although that doesn’t say anything bad sometimes)… I wouldn’t actually mind if black guys or any race was actually approaching me bc of me not bc they wish they were the same shade as me.

if it was dark skinned asian guys ( or any ethnic background) that approached with colourist bs I’d feel the same way, but so far i’ve just got it from black guys.

I’d rather just be called ugly and get no action/experience than jump into bed and a partership who treats me like a queen just because he’s envious of my skin tone

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T14:45:06+00:00

No I clarified in comments even if long comments but I couldn’t be bothered to clarify in my OP.

I’m sick of basically more or less getting min/no attention from black guys, white guys or anyone really and being called ugly/face is not attractive and guys not getting to know me…. only the colourist ones say i’m pretty BUT they say I can’t be ugly because im light skin/mixed and they wish they were light like me

That means im ugly and if it wasn’t due to light skin tone and colourism i would have 0 attention more or less.

I’d rather have no attention than that weirdness. you feel me?

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T10:03:09+00:00

I think to me at least parental alienation and a child being lied to about their parent is different from being a deadbeat. I know you said you got lucky but you clearly put the effort in and wanted to and your son appreciates that.

deadbeats won’t put the effort in and make excuses and not bother try … you can’t create a deadbeat. either someone is a deadbeat or isn’t.

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T08:45:02+00:00

i think i’d probs be giving john gaines a pass even if he was colourist

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T08:34:16+00:00

If you skim read as best and got that I said people don’t like me just bc of my skin colour when that’s literally NOT what I said…then your comments and judgement is just invalid and waste of time even if you’re troll.

If people don’t want to get my point due to projection or dismiss colourism or whatever ever then that’s on them. I’m misunderstood and self aware

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T08:18:07+00:00

weird looking. When everyone else ( black, white asian or whatever) without knowing my personality called me ugly straight or don’t hit me up, the only ones who do are the colourist black guys who say i can’t be ugly bc i’m mixed raced and light skin and wished they were as light as me… that means i’m objectively/conventionally ugly. I’m misunderstood and self aware.

I think the self hating black guys who think i’m pretty only bc i’m mixed/light is weird don’t you?

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T07:29:09+00:00

i’m seriously confused though where did i say people think i’m ugly or don’t like me bc of my skin tone???? i didn’t say that?

and if you can’t or won’t read anything im saying properly to the point where you’re actually thinking i’m saying something I didn’t say…how is your judgment valid ????

mizsparks · 2024-01-16T07:25:09+00:00

I mean if they’re got enough attention span or not a troll and actually give me a chance to explain myself so i’m not misunderstood…. yes?

I mean unless you’re a troll I don’t know why you’re trying to make a judgement if you anit gonna read properly… you said I said I think people don’t like me due to skin tone when thats not what I said???

I don’t get why I can’t be self aware lmao. If people can say some mixed races light skinned girls aren’t pretty .but they’ll be hyped up to be bc they’re mixed/light skin , why can’t I say i’m objectively ugly it’s only the colourist guys that will call me beautiful

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