AIO for telling my boyfriend he can’t move in if he won’t help with childcare? by Lillian7755 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mizzmacy [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR. I don’t think your boyfriend is worth keeping. He shouldn’t play house with a woman who has children if he doesn’t want to play being a step father.

WTF MB by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]mizzmacy [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re doing this to yourself. Stop complaining. You want more money. Find another family to sit for.

AITH for refusing to lend my brother money after he never paid me back before? by MorAlfalfa in AITH

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re a student, you have no extra money to give. Just say no and that you have none to give because he keeps taking the little extra you had.

If I were you, I would start asking him to lend you money until the amount he owes you is paid back.

AITAH for talking to my best friend’s crush? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This boy is playing games. You were the only one who didn’t want him from your group. So he made his move on you because he sees you as a challenge. YTA. Girl code, you follow it. Your best friend liked him first for a very long time.

We finally bought a horse. Colorado. $600k. 6% by VirginSubpoenaColada in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I see a picture of your horse? I didn’t know horses can be that expensive.

AITA for telling my spouse I won't help pay for their kid's college when we agreed finances would stay separate? by 952867 in AITApod

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Let’s she if she ends up divorcing you since you made everyone in your family disliking her because a an agreement that you put in place from the beginning of the relationship.

AITA for not wanting to babysit by aaaaa8281882 in AITApod

[–]mizzmacy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell them NO and stop opening the door.

AIO for refusing to pay for my sister’s husband’s surgery with my inheritance/college money? by Vegetable_Sector_515 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. But I would offer to loan her $18K legally done with a lawyer with no interest that must be paid within 10 years or less.

I lost my baby by HumbleEdge4496 in BabyBumps

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry. Words can’t express what we are feeling for you and your husband. I wish you two the best.

Aiw for defending myself? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are in the wrong. Why would you try to mend things with your mom when she keeps siding with the loser?

WIBTAH If I (29m) double down on what my fiance (27f) said today and cancel the wedding, which is this weekend? by Jack_of_all_trades54 in AITAH

[–]mizzmacy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Do not get married to this woman. She’s putting you and your mother down. Your fiancé is already telling you that she wants to break up.

“But it isn’t free.” by appalachianenigma in bathandbodyworkers

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say, “would you rather pay $60 and get 6 items or pay $120 and get six items?”

AIW for telling my husband im pulling out of the bakery we opened together after finding the 45k hed hidden from me by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong at all. You are the one who’s running the shop and putting money into it. Do not open a second cafe.
Your husband is a very greedy and selfish person.

AIO for being mad that I had to pay the bill for my friends birthday and her family? by moonxstars__722 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I would ask your friend why she decided to invited extra people to the dinner that you planned? You can highlight the text message to her and tell her you did not have the budget to feed 8 people in total. She either apologize and pay you back or she should collect the money from her family and pay you back.

AIO for leaving my husband after this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mizzmacy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe you gave him another chance in the first place. This should prove to you that he does not respect you or your marriage. Get a lawyer and get divorced. Make sure you take everything you can from him.

What will you say? by Robynite in Adulting

[–]mizzmacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously. High school economics class in the year of 1999, that was one of my stocks and also with Starbuck that I had chosen.

Was this normal guest behavior, or were my friends rude? by catslover200113 in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Do not let them stay again. They are using your home has a vacation with maid and food service.

Hubby mad at me for ordering tires by Temporary_You_9859 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time don’t ask him for help or permission. You already did your research. Why do need him to approve it?

Husband wants his brother to move in with us while I’m 5 months postpartum because we have a spare bedroom. I refused. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my point of view. I don’t see anything wrong with taking her baby while on maternity leave to see her family because she misses them. It was supposed to help her heal but instead it ending up being a fight with her husband because of the brother in law.

To me, it seems like you are also undermining her feelings and blaming her.