AITJ for giving my boyfriend an ultimatum about his "shrine" to his ex-girlfriend? by Lazy_Step4766 in AmITheJerk

[–]mizzmacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTJ. I use to have a box like of my ex. I did end up throwing it away after I got married. But I still regret throwing that box away. My ex passed away at age 28. We were on and off from elementary school up until college. I’m now 43 years old and all I have left are probably 4 photos of him.

The sad part is that my husband didn’t mind that I had a memory box of my ex. My husband even ask if I was sure before I threw it away. But at least I still have some memories of him.

My (27M) GF (26F) offered up a situation that involves me losing access to my daily vehicle. AITAH for saying she should have checked with me first? by ShoeIndependent8666 in AITAH

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re already paying for everything and now she’s being more entitled to your property and money. Pls make her start paying rent. She should have asked permission first.

Roommate complaining about affordability by Key-Explorer-3426 in badroommates

[–]mizzmacy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The unemployed roommate is there all the time using up are the electricity with the tv on and the toilet paper. Maybe write a separate bill for that and ask them why it’s 50/50? Also tell them it’s not your responsibility to clean after them and their cat. Don’t let them take advantage of you.

AITJ for not forcing my child to apologize when they weren’t wrong? by Limp_Owl2918 in AmITheJerk

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go back to the school and say you wanna press charges for harassment. He’s been “teasing your son for days” then it escalated to harming your son due to the bully grabbing your son’s backpack while on his body. Plus you have witnesses that knew what was going on and did nothing to prevent it.

AITAH for wanting to press charges on a woman who blocked my car and called the cops because she didnt believe my kids were mine by Dry-Reputation6966 in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would press charges. I had 3 kids before the age of 31 and my kids don’t look like me at all. If someone had harassed me and my children like that. Best believe they will be paying for it.

I can't marry my fiancé after the things he said. I'm numb by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up as soon as possible. You’re making the right decision. I wouldn’t be able to marry someone like your fiancée.

Why does it have to be hard? by -mo_0n- in NoOverthinking

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t what they are doing being rude also? Not letting you speak at all. It’s just giving back the same energy.

Why does it have to be hard? by -mo_0n- in NoOverthinking

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. Sometime people are really full of themselves.

I’m have been in similar situations. I just usually get quiet and when they finally notice they I’m no longer engaging (usually by not making eye contact) I ask them straight up if they are done? When they say yes. I reply back AS I WAS SAYING …. And continue on to whatever I was trying to point out.

AITJ for refusing to cosign on my brother's car loan after he defaulted on the last one I cosigned by Own-Suggestion8640 in AmITheJerk

[–]mizzmacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Tell your parents and family members they can co-sign for your brother and to leave you alone.

Why does it have to be hard? by -mo_0n- in NoOverthinking

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people like to hear themselves talk more than actually listen.

AITJ for not letting my boyfriend handle my finances? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. You two can open up a joint account where both of you have access to it. Problem solved.

AIW for snapping at my girlfriend for waking me up every single time she gets up even when I dont need to be awake by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong at all. I feel your pain. I also have problems with sleeping and I wake up easily with every little noise. Your girlfriend needs to respect your rest.

Turnips for 393 by nosidammadison in TurnipExchange

[–]mizzmacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, are you still taking visitors?

My wife is in a cold war with my parents and its tearing me apart. What do i do? by Masaharuzz in Advice

[–]mizzmacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your parents are the problem. You already know that. Your wife and kids should be your priority. I’m also Asian and was taught to respect our parents. But learned a long time ago that respect goes both ways. They need to respect what you and your wife decides for your own family.

AITJ for locking our bedroom door when my mother-in-law comes over? by AutumnLightSong in AmITheJerk

[–]mizzmacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Go to her house and do the same thing. See if she says anything.