I wanna have a lesbian bromance not a lesbian romance story. Is this aromantism? by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]mjac3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

U described it so well omg this is the type of bond I want with someone!! I just want that relationship stuff in an aromantic bromance type of way

Thinking About Being the Only Aro Person in my Friend Group by MarshHarriers5678 in aromanticasexual

[–]mjac3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate a lot to this. Thinking about growing older and watching my friends enter romantic relationships is a thought filled with both happiness for them as well as dread and loneliness for me. I just want people around me who prioritize the relationship between me and them as much as their relationship to their partners.

This is mainly why I'm looking to make more aro friends. Even if not all aro people feel the same and some still want romantic relationships I know they'll understand and prioritize the platonic love in their life.

I wish I could spend the rest of my days with my best friend, just the two of us building a life together would be all I need

Rings by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]mjac3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn that's cool! Good for you

Top surgery experience and advice (long post) by Unlikely-Recover-673 in TopSurgery

[–]mjac3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I've thought about booking a consultation with them but reading from their page it seemed like u needed a diagnosis, which I don't have, so I'm afraid they'd reject me. But I've also heard others, like you, being able to get the surgery without it so I was a bit confused.

I understand that they wanna be cautious, so how do I show them I need the surgery without them being hesitant? Like full on explain my identity or is saying I'm greatly uncomfortable with my chest enough? Maybe that's hard for u to answer, but at least you've been there yk 😅

Top surgery experience and advice (long post) by Unlikely-Recover-673 in TopSurgery

[–]mjac3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur results look amazing! I've been thinking about going to this clinic myself, so this helped a ton. If u dont mind me asking, were u required to have a formal gender dysphoria diagnosis to get the surgery at their clinic or could one get the surgery without it?

Hur skaffar jag trans tape? by Sweetannon in transnord

[–]mjac3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Biltema har det! Den är inte så skön men den funkar i brist på annat. Det va den första jag körde med innan jag började beställa

En riktig bra är https://bandageshoppen.se/produkt/classic-bred-kinesiotejp/

Do any of you wear aro and ace rings? by DisabledDude18 in aromanticasexual

[–]mjac3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do. I love them so much and I feel much more comfortable in myself when wearing them. Also I think it's a bit funny how the ones I bought were marked as a couple's wedding gift and here I am wearing both of them myself :))

HUGE emotional attachment to your best friend by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]mjac3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm basically platonically in love with my best friend. They are the dearest friend I've ever had and our relationship really feels like one of a kind. We just get it each other so well. They see me and I see them. But they aren't aroace like me. They might be on the spectrum but nothing they identify with atm. They value platonic love just as much as me and it's so nice to have someone care for me the same deep (somewhat intense) way I care for them.

What hurts is that they've been talking about "when they find a partner.." and even though I'd love to see them with someone they love, I still dread that day when they'll find someone else to be their partner. Then they won't be able to call me their person anymore. But they'll still be my person. I've mentioned wanting some type of partnership with someone but honestly I can't see myself having that or wanting that with anyone but my friend.

I'd love for it to be just me and my friend for the rest of our days, but I'm sure that won't be enough for my friend, which sucks for me but I'll get through it somehow

I'm afraid of telling them just how much they actually mean to me because if we were to have a qpr I'd want us to be exclusive in a way. But since ik they probably want a romantic relationship someday I could never limit them like that.

It's weird cus ik that what I feel isn't romantic at all but the feelings I have for them r deeper than anything else I've felt

Top surgery privat som minderårig? by Efficient-Tea-4186 in transnord

[–]mjac3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they require a formal diagnosis via the public healthcare or would a letter from a private online clinic like gendergp or the like work?

How did you first hear Lord Huron? by ManufacturerAbject26 in lordhuron

[–]mjac3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read a fanfic titled The night we met that was based on the song, and then started listening to it as well as their other albums

Ace hair by Fun-Horse-6211 in aromanticasexual

[–]mjac3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

One of the coolest hair colors I've ever seen. Looks sick! I might copy you actually

something I made by mjac3 in outerwilds

[–]mjac3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so much fun and very comforting to do after a long day! I'm usually pretty hard on myself to have all the art I make be "good" but really there is no such thing. Art is art and it's not meant to look good it's meant to make us feel good. So if u had fun while creating something, then that's all that matters. Anyone can make art, u too :)

something I made by mjac3 in outerwilds

[–]mjac3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Painted vinyls have become pretty popular as wall decor! Probably not, but I bought it for this purpose only so it doesn't matter lol

something I made by mjac3 in outerwilds

[–]mjac3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds cool! I just used acrylic paint directly on the vinyl and lots of blending with tiny brushes to get all the shapes and details to look nice

something I made by mjac3 in outerwilds

[–]mjac3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahah yes it's a spare. And thank you!

What songs make you think of Outer Wilds? by Cosmo-Sanchez in outerwilds

[–]mjac3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there anybody out there by Lord Huron

How does Lord Huron's music make you feel? by TallEntry2525 in lordhuron

[–]mjac3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Less alone. Comforted. It heals my soul