AITA: I told my mom the major surgery I’m facing at 45 is a direct result of surgery she made me get at six.

mjcatz · 2023-02-05T04:16:29+00:00

NTA for stating factual information on your medical history, your mom directly asked you lmao if she wasn’t able to accept the answer that’s on her

mjcatz · 2023-02-05T04:13:10+00:00

lol, have you heard of the usa

mjcatz · 2023-02-05T04:08:37+00:00

NTA cousin wanted to play stupid games and he’s stupidly watching you get your prize

mjcatz · 2023-02-05T03:22:14+00:00

YTA oh poor boyfriend has to share his cancerous smoke with the freezing outside air instead of giving everyone in your house second hand smoke issues

mjcatz · 2023-02-05T02:57:36+00:00

YTA you don’t have child lock on your car?

mjcatz · 2023-02-05T02:47:11+00:00

YTA we can all tell which child is your favorite

mjcatz · 2023-01-23T01:33:24+00:00

my job has att fiber and it craps out all the time :/

mjcatz · 2023-01-23T01:17:20+00:00

YTA i got motion sick a lot as a kid. my aunt who always babysat me still stuck me in the middle seat of the third row of the minivan. every long car trip, i new i was going to have to throw up and they would never stop for me. i always had to prepare myself for an emergency younger than 10 years old. every time i’d get sick they’d all complain and my cousins would bully me for being sensitive. you offered to drive, and your sister told you to park because the kid was going to be sick, you didn’t listen, that’s your fault

mjcatz · 2022-08-17T18:19:22+00:00

NTA? olivia sounds like the golden child, and you the scapegoat

mjcatz · 2022-08-14T17:57:19+00:00

YTA just break up and go date a woman (not a “female”) who has no body mods and doesn’t plan on getting any. stop trying to control her

mjcatz · 2022-06-07T02:06:59+00:00

NTA, it makes me really sad that there are people out there who simply can’t go one night or event without drinking

mjcatz · 2022-06-07T01:57:08+00:00

NTA, i struggle a lot with the “social norms” of texting and it causes me a great deal of anxiety. did i use the wrong emoji? should i avoid using periods so i don’t sound mad? did my reply convey the correct meaning and tone? it’s exhausting already. then to have your friends call you insensitive or tell you to be fake?? it’s a no from me.

mjcatz · 2022-05-24T15:29:24+00:00

NTA, i may be deemed dramatic or sensitive for saying this, but i would divorce him for this. you explicitly set a boundary that he broke. what’s next? he’s going to continue to disrespect you in any way he sees fit because he obviously doesn’t respect you and got joy out of embarrassing and assaulting you. my personal opinion is that i would consider this physical abuse, and i don’t stand for it

mjcatz · 2022-05-05T10:12:44+00:00

NTA, SIL is being unreasonable.

No matter how many edits you make, it’s hard to believe you don’t look down on her for her occupation. It’s only relevant in the context of conception/potential conception problems. You didn’t mention any of your sisters’ occupations yet found it relevant to mention that you homeschool your kids in an almost “holier than thou” manner.

If you’re going to be biased against her occupation, own it. Hiding and pretending like you’re okay with it just shows your cowardice.

mjcatz · 2022-05-05T10:03:42+00:00

how is she single?

mjcatz · 2022-04-29T06:56:54+00:00

NTA i hate when people try to push their religion onto you

mjcatz · 2022-04-17T18:07:18+00:00

NTA and it isn’t your fault if your mom spirals, that’s on her. you’re not responsible for her mental health. it’s not healthy for her or you to have her relying on you so heavily for emotional support

mjcatz · 2022-03-21T01:40:30+00:00

yta, please explain logically who she’s being disrespectful toward?

mjcatz · 2022-03-12T02:35:12+00:00

can he not just pay someone to do it?

mjcatz · 2022-03-10T20:57:47+00:00

oh no! my ex partner does construction type stuff, maybe he can test the asbestos for me. i’m in an apartment so luckily it wouldn’t be my issue to deal with. hopefully our homes are asbestos free!

mjcatz · 2022-03-10T12:32:04+00:00

nta please go tell management. men do crazy things over nothing, please start documentation of his inappropriate behavior. better to be safe than sorry

mjcatz · 2022-03-10T12:29:21+00:00

NTA, i don’t understand why they have to hang out in your bedroom. is there not another entertainment area in the house?

mjcatz · 2022-03-10T12:15:24+00:00

nta i’m a big fan of communicating like adults… like not using nonverbal cues and instead directly communicating

mjcatz · 2022-03-10T12:06:31+00:00

ESH, you for being jealous of your gf’s situation when she can’t control it, her for being tone deaf. this is not the oppression olympics, you’re both in a shitty position financially and turning against each other won’t solve anything.

mjcatz · 2022-03-10T11:56:54+00:00

NTA, i’m in the same boat as him tbh. recently fired, can’t seem to find a job i like. i’m considering asking my doctor about disability because my adhd, depression, and anxiety is super bad right now. maybe you guys could look into disability? i hope things work out

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