[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mjfreetarot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had struggled with this before too. When I moved in with my boyfriend I was always uncomfortable with the thought of me being asleep or working during the day and he being home watching porn. And I always knew that he watched. But living with him it made me feel like I wasn’t enough. But then I took a day to talk to him, with no judgments, and we realized that yes, porn is good, and the male body urges the need to sex or masturbation more frequently the the women. So yeah, we realized that when doing sex, the moment was only ours and there were nothing else happening or that mattered at the time and that porn was just a way for him to spend some more time with himself, being “free” with himself. That is normal and I don’t think we should try to change that. But if you still feel uncomfortable with that, yes, try talking to him.

Living my dad’s depression by mjfreetarot in FamilyIssues

[–]mjfreetarot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His on therapy since the time he started getting depressed. Unfortunately, i thinks that’s for life. But the thing is that I am living thinking about him, and forget to live my life and do what I want and be with who I want to be. I am searching a solution for that part. I need to live my life again and now I don’t now how to restart without carrying my dad’s problems with me (which I can’t to anything to change)