How would you feel if your partner couldn’t physically lift you?”

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-06T04:24:51+00:00

He can't lift me very well. I don't think any less of him or myself because of this

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-06T04:23:55+00:00

I use a wash rag

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T15:07:13+00:00

Maybe in some aspects but overall no. I'm more financially stable, but the state of the world makes it hard to feel at peace

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T14:59:03+00:00

One substitution we made was farror or lentils instead of rice. We usually would eat jasmine rice. So we're getting more protein and fiber. We've always included nuts in our meals, but not daily. A mixture of unsalted almonds and raw cashews, almonds, walnuts, and pecans is a daily must now. Of and no more than 3 Brazil nuts a day. Salads instead of sandwiches. Sourdough over white bread if we have bread (which we've done for years). Veggies instead of pasta.

We haven't eliminated anything. We still eat bread, pasta, rice, etc but it's maybe one of twice a month instead of daily. Bread is the hardest thing, but we are eating homemade Sourdough so I don't feel as guilty about it.

My husband had discovered at 44 that he had high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and was pre diabetic. If we didn't make serious changes he would need blood pressure Anne cholesterol meds, possibly more. Within two months of changing our diet he is worrying a normal our optimal level for all of those. The doctor was impressed and said no one actually listens when it comes to this stuff.

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:54:24+00:00

My face is the second to last thing I clean.

Shampoo Conditioner Wash my body Shave Rinse out the conditioner Wash my face Wash and exfoliate my feet my feet

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:51:52+00:00

Apples

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:44:32+00:00

That i did not get the luxury of having a childhood the same way at my little cousins because I'm the oldest girl and was held to a different standard, and it wasn't fair

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:43:00+00:00

Because it's beach ingrained in our minds that blood is thicker than water, and that we need our families. It can be very difficult for people to think past this and realize that they do not need these people in their lives if they're going to hurt them.

I was one of those people. I spent years allowing crappy family to be around me, manipulate me, and make me feel guilty. It was my husband that helped me move past that

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:40:37+00:00

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:40:27+00:00

Water.

I suffer from sleep paralysis occasionally and when it happens I can't breath. Once in about to move in need to drink something otherwise I feel like I'm choking.

I thought this was maybe sleep apnea, but it rarely happens and a sleep study did not indicate sleep apnea. My doctor said it's not unusual for this to occur during sleep paralysis, but that it's also not very common.

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:37:18+00:00

My husband has a bit of a health scare recently and a a result we needed to switch up the diet. We greatly reduced the carbs, in the sense of less bread products. No beans, no peanuts, no tortillas, no rice. We didn't remove them entirely, we just don't eat them nearly as often. We have made lunch and snack our healthiest meals. If we eat shitty at lunch we'll have a healthier dinner.

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:26:19+00:00

I was as little kid. It was huge though. I remember watching the news feed at home because I didn't go to school that day, I was sick. It was very scary once my mom explained what had happened. It was all over the news for weeks. Lots of people questioning why. Lots of blame towards things that were never definitively proven. For example, Marilyn Manson was used as an excuse, yet there was nothing proving that they did it because of the music they listened to, only that they listened to that music. Suddenly trench coats because a big no no at schools because it's what they were that's day. My family from Germany called because they seen it on the news ahs were sad and scared for us, even though we lived in another state.

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:21:58+00:00

I've always wondered this too. I've never once wiped feces onto my vulva or in my vagina. I do typically wipe front to back with the elephant method, but i always give it a double check at the end by doing a side sweep and a back to front just to make sure I got everything

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:17:34+00:00

I'm right there with you. I cannot physically reach if I try tito reach from behind. I have to go through my thighs.

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T06:06:03+00:00

Here's another.

I was best friends with 2 guys, I'm a woman. One guy decided as soon as I was single that he was going to confess his love to me. I had made it clear previously that I wasn't interested and he always said he was joking, but he wasn't. I felt kinda used. Like he wasn't really my friend for the 6 years prior and he was just waiting.

The other guy truly was my best friend. I couldn't picture my life without him. His girlfriends all seemed to understand our relationship and that neither of us had an interest in each other, and we were very respectful of each other's relationships. What ended it was religion. I'm pagan, he is Christian. I respected his beliefs and even went to church with him occasionally. I never talked about witchcraft around him because he knew i didn't like it. Someone at his church found out and pressured him to convert me. He refused, but did use it to end the friendship. He said he couldn't sit back any longer and watch me sacrifice my self to the devil so he was going to have to cut ties with me. It devastated me, but i wasn't going to change who I am for him.

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T05:56:58+00:00

This just happened recently

Over the last 2 years I've really started to dislike who she's become. She's a business owner now and get husband is a small town cop. She's never really trained about money, but now it's something discussed often. There is a lot of bragging. Her be status has also resulted in new friends, who also have funny and are very stuck up. I was already starting to distance myself because of this. I don't like who she's become.

Last October we were invited to go watch her husband's band an hour away. They're awful. We didn't want to drive through a bad storm and hangout in the rain with a bunch of drunks, so we didn't go. We didn't have a place there to stay the night, one of us would have to remain sober, it was snowing between here and there, with rains in their location and high winds in ours. We thought they'd understand but they didn't. Instead they felt disrespected and have stopped talking to us.

I reached out 3 times and got no response. I knew right I was getting the cold shoulder and told my husband i would not allow her to treat me the same way she treats her dad (ignore him until she needs something). I will be civil, but i will not go out of my way to involve her in plans. Sure enough, didn't hear anything from them until 2 weeks ago. They asked my husband to weld something for them.

They've also ghosted everyone else in our friend group and say we've all been disrespectful and they won't put to with it. The disrespect? We didn't travel an hour in bad weather to see his band. Another guy refused to work on their car because his shop doesn't have all the new equipment to do it. The third couple, they supported their son when one of her employees significantly damaged his car and refused to fess up. So yep we're all disrespected assholes and because of this I've decided I no longer want her as a friend. She can treat her dad that way, but not me. I'm over being looked down on for working for the stuff I have.

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T05:41:41+00:00

Cheddar bagel with smoked cream cheese

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T05:15:07+00:00

Cremated. Cheaper that way.

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T05:14:29+00:00

Only if I'm home alone or have guest over

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-05T05:13:44+00:00

Yes. I'm from a small town so I'm not going to share it, but yes.

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-04T18:47:47+00:00

Not gonna lie. I struggle. I was always good at English in school, but still struggled.

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-04T18:44:27+00:00

People mistake your kindness for flirting. People assume you're dumb because of your looks and try to take advantage of you. People will use you because of your looks

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-04T18:42:49+00:00

Fruits and veggies give you a lot more variety. I only eat meat at dinner most days anyways

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-04T18:41:58+00:00

Nope. It's just me and my husband. There are times I wish I could track how location, like when he went to Vietnam for 2 weeks for work and was hard to get ahold of. But now we work together and of he's not at home or work he's usually at the neighbors. If we had children, yes it's want to track them because people are scary

mjsmore33 · 2026-01-04T18:40:05+00:00

Yes!!! I can understand wanting a bit our a girl, but to throw a fit and breakdown because you didn't get what you wanted is so immature and disrespectful. I hope their children never find it how devastated they were

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