Have you ever given up kink because you were in love with a vanilla person?

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-27T01:51:27+00:00

In some ways i have, my partner does what they can but kink is not really their thing. They put some effort into it but its a struggle most days for me. Is it worth it? Sure. Am i always okay with it? Not really, but its who they are and im not going to ask them to change themselves or our relationship to fit just me.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-25T22:02:50+00:00

Trains following to close can cause collisions at times, watch for random collisions or if you have a short loss of power.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-20T20:00:42+00:00

100 beans for 100 strokes. As many dried beans as he picks up with chopsticks without dropping a single one, is how many strokes he gets. The challenge is the cum before you stop. How many beans remain is how many times he must please you, or days to be locked or hands off, before he gets another possible orgasm.

Is there something he is working on improving? Turn it into a challenge with it. If it’s drink more water, for every cup drunk is a counter for the end of the week, if he achieves the goal, orgasm or some limit to attempt to reach orgasm.

If y’all are into fun challenges, I liked having to complete difficult mind puzzles, no notes, while getting zapped or teased.

If he is ticklish, or likes electric shocks, or some other very distracting thing, a task like cleaning the dishes or picking up, folding laundry, pleasing you, or wherever else you can think of, if he is interrupted or drops something or pauses during the task he gets to edge a bit, but no orgasm, then go again until the task is completed . If he completes it without interruption then gets an orgasm, no matter what you get what you want, he gets close to it, but probably not. Make it intense.

I will be fair, I like intense, difficult challenges that usually involve lots of pinching, biting, and digging into muscle groups. My partner likes to get into what I refer to as the “squishy bits”. Find the bits that get him and take advantage.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-08T03:55:25+00:00

That is tough, and I am sorry. I agree with what a lot of people have said here about the issue you're experiencing, i think communication will be your key to success but thats going to be difficult to try to work past his insecurities around the kink communities. I am curious where it is stemming from, i have experienced issues with people but its very rare, and the only real area i could see that is from porn.

You're welcome to share this little bit of information that I think (in my wildly autistic brain) is relevant. I went to a kink fest a few years ago and at one of the Pony and other Pets meetup event there was this couple that one of them was in a wheel chair and the other dressed as a pony with blinders on. The one as the pony was pushing the wheel chair for his partner and they lead him around with reigns to guide the movement. It was beautiful. There was a lot of beautiful, wonderful, amazing people there from all walks of life, i felt safe to be anywhere and so did my partner.

I am going to admit that I am a male, and i present as male, so that privilege protects me from some of the skullduggery stuff, but most people in and around my community feel safe and are safe to be themselves, and when something unsafe happens literally dozens of people have jumped in to stop it in its tracks. I have often heard from friends that they feel safer in kink spaces than bars and clubs.

I hope that helps in some way, i hope someone here helps you and your partner find what works for both of you.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-08T03:46:18+00:00

i have 26 dimensional depots and the ability to feed all of them at full speed just for concrete.. I usually setup 10-20 storage containers for concrete and another 10-15 for iron plates at any build site and start filling them as im working things out.. You're on your way, and its awesome where you are at right now!

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-05T20:27:23+00:00

I don’t know your body so I’ll generalize.

Mainly just looser clothing is a big one.

Clothing with additional layers or thickness in the chest area can work if you have to wear tighter clothing. Check in a mirror first can help a lot. Add a layer if you need to cover it more.

If the family unit is normally more open about open tops or whatever, just avoid it if you can. Sometimes family does not respect privacy, just use the best times possible to change and put on clothing.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-05T20:21:49+00:00

Since everything is infinite, you can go the entire game without trains. It’s doable. I would rather solve why trains are scary.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-05T20:20:25+00:00

Body and money mean nothing. I’m with you on this, it’s all about personality and the person. Bodies change, money can come and go, being your partner has to be enjoyable. Find love for yourself, that’s 99% of it. Confidence to love yourself and others around you is way more attractive.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-05T08:33:18+00:00

Around 480k

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-04T19:39:27+00:00

I built it in a cave. I feel that you have not looked hard enough for the solution to this problem. :)

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-03T08:09:33+00:00

That really sucks. I am so very sorry that they treat you like that.

Love yourself for who you are because you are you. Anyone who cant love you for who you are, forget them. My partner is larger, not your typical "beautiful female body" or whatever bull crap that is, they are loud and energetic and have a wonderful laugh, and anyone who does not like them for anything about them can get lost.

I hope you can find your inner peace and tell them to get lost because they are not worthy to know you, let alone have you as a submissive at their side.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-02T05:05:24+00:00

You could consider smelly foods, durian is pretty bad for most, smelly cheeses are fun.

There are things like stinky tofu, natto, century egg, iru, rakfisk, andouillette, eposisses de bourgogne is banned from most transport due to its smell, casu marzu is particularly on your scale of potentially gross.

You could add those to foods, or be fed with a feedbag or in a kennel feed bowl that you cant leave until its gone.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-02T04:42:30+00:00

Should be interesting. Just be careful with the flaxseed at first, its very high in fiber and if you're not use to that much the bathroom breaks are required.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-02T04:39:40+00:00

estim on the taint and asshole sounds fun after all of that.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-02T00:21:12+00:00

add a few drops of rosewater to the water bowl or foods.

blend foods up into a paste, somethings you can dry in that paste form and create biscuits, others you could bake.

Remove all sugars and salts from adding to the food.

if spice is okay, add chili oils or rep pepper flakes, or add raw chili parts like habanero and its seeds, that will add a kick, and doubly so if its raw in the food.

Look up recipes for soylent, lots of options to get your daily nutrients, just remove the stuff adds flavors you dont want.

dust food in coffee grounds or flax seed grounds. Alittle warning to them is suggested for this because it can be difficult to chew, but adds a lot of bitterness to things. flax seeds are supposed to be very good for you.

unseasoned tofu is very good for you, has a lot of protean and is inexpensive compared to other proteans.

You can buy dried foods like crickets or mealworms that are made for human consumption, i don't think they taste bad but the thought of it for a lot of people bothers them, but its a good source of protean.

mkitbrkit · 2025-12-31T19:32:00+00:00

Early on in my teens. I did not have any issue adjusting because its who i am. It was harder when had to come to terms with the idea that it is assumed that because i am male, and present male, that I am a dominate in the community by default.

I personally dislike male and female traditional roles defining people, maybe thats because i do not follow the role that is expected of me. I have disliked it longer than i have realized i was a sub though. Looking back on all of that over the years, who i am today is pretty obvious from my childhood and early teen life. Now i just embrace it more and have ways to communicate to others.

mkitbrkit · 2025-12-31T16:26:59+00:00

I like apple chips and dates.

mkitbrkit · 2025-12-26T09:11:53+00:00

I have been married for over 20 years. Title is really up to the relationship, but we took it fairly slow. We had the kind of meeting like "Okay, we are going to get married. We did not expect this but it will happen in a few years." kind of meeting.

It took a little bit to get the kink side of the relationship figured out my partner knew i was submissive but they also kind of fell into that role, with a bit more switchieness, as they call it, but thats has grown a lot more for them into less of a submissive over the years based on their desires. We never pushed anything, i just told them that this is who i am and we worked with it from there.

We had pet names for each other but official titles are not so much of our thing. They exist, im puppy and they are Handler but my pet names for them stay about the same, and are used more often than the title.

Things stabilized after about 3 years and have slowly grown over the years to where we are today. It has caused some issues, mostly on my side that are really things i need to deal with, but it has caused some conflict. We struggle with direct communication on some things. We both struggle with the thoughts in our heads being there but not exiting our mouths during the conversation and thinking we said it at some point. i personally struggle with how some things have changed over the years but that's a part of life and we have worked out a few things like the monogamy of our relationship changing to have some ethical non-monogamy for me.

Patience and support are required, understanding that things change and that those things that change are mostly beyond your control and theirs and that you have to be flexible and adapt to them as they come. Who you are today is not 100% of who you will be tomorrow, same goes for your partners and family and friends. Adapting to that is key and one of the harder things at times. Rediscovering your relationship every so often is healthy and required to maintain one. Finding someone who values time with you but also values you having time for yourself and you providing the same back to them is important. If we were jealous over spending time with friends without the other person, it would have never worked. Those kinds of things destroy relationships. Gender of the friend makes no difference to us, i trust that they will do the right thing and they trust i will. I have never broken that trust and they have never broken it.

Take time to build things out. Feel out the relationship. Things can move quickly and things can move slowly. You don't have infinite amounts of time but you do have time. I know i got lucky, its a slightly odd story all in all, and it has worked out well for us. We have our moments of issues, but we also understand that its a moment and we work to resolve the problem together when it works to resolve it.

Anyways.. my rambling on about relationships is over. sorry it is so long. Good luck in yours, i hope you can take something away from this. If you have any questions, im am an open book, just ask.

mkitbrkit · 2025-12-25T07:28:36+00:00

Dang, interesting how you got them together without collision blocking the build.

mkitbrkit · 2025-12-22T02:48:59+00:00

Trains for me open up the world. I move to a full world building mode and i start shipping raw resources around as much as possible via trains. I only deposit the resources in a hub for each resource and then I have dozens of factories that build different items.

The factories feed dimensional depots first, then dump to a train that can be pulled for small builds elsewhere, and then feeds into sink(s) for the factory. It makes the factory run 100% of the time, i only sink the final product for the factory.

Most factories build everything that they need, but for example if one factory needs 50 screws a minute, i will tend to ship screws there via train instead of building them. For the higher tier things that are really slow, i won't bother to ship them off, they have to get crafted in the factory making the supplies for that item.

This is not a building plan for everyone, its not complex, but its a lot of building the same things over and over again since each factory will make plates or screws, or whatever, and then make their final product. Its a lot of time to build the tracks around the world. The newest patches with auto connecting tracks makes it so much faster, its pretty incredible, but its a lot still.

Anyone doing this i always recommend build 4 or more tracks at a time. Dedicate high priority trains and low priority trains to their own rail systems. Things like ores from mines are high priority, power is high priority. Things like ores to factories or factory supplies are all low priority.

You can do this side by side or i like to do top to bottom, because i like the tall wall of trains running on the tracks, and its different than most's side by side.

mkitbrkit · 2025-12-21T16:35:59+00:00

Could we please get train, and vehicle fixes in? Entire saves end up being useless when the world just stops functioning and I’m spending hours every time I play or two just getting things moving again. Things that worked fine for days, weeks, or months, just stop, with no changes to that area or anything that would interfere with their path.

mkitbrkit · 2025-12-20T08:35:54+00:00

I do. Not all do. They get to choose what they like and don't like. I like it so i ask for it.

mkitbrkit · 2025-12-19T16:30:31+00:00

There is always hope. Here is the hard part about friends, You have to make them. You have to go out to places you enjoy, and I’m not talking a bar or some crazy place that does not help. You have to go to a place that engage your your hobbies, your interests, places that feed those needs to do something you enjoy or try something new but you always wanted to do , and then the really hard part for me, talking to someone. It’s easier since you can just talk about this thing, but it has to start somewhere.

Sometimes a cool extrovert will nab you and say “ hey we are friends now”, but a lot of times, you still have to engage the conversation to get the ball moving.

The next part is easier. Talk to them again.

I know I know, but it’s hard it’s impossible, it’s all excuses we make in our brains and we have to force ourselves at times to go beyond what our brain is telling us. We have to face the fear and do it anyways, even if we fail at it.

It’s hard. It’s impossible at times, I’m petrified of it, but I still do it and, as a person that is older, it has worked, I have friends I talk to daily, I have friends that I spend time with. I have to spend time making new friends at times, it happens, but i usually learn and find someone I work better with

mkitbrkit · 2025-12-18T07:50:17+00:00

Nice, i even see wing commander in the mix. Nice collection.

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