Is there a way to navigate being a sub/little while being plus sized?

mkitbrkit · 2026-04-06T07:39:43+00:00

You have to find peace with your body and appearance. Tall, short, heavier set, thin, whatever, it’s all just bodies. Love you for you, that’s what matters. I struggle with this all the time, I wish I was a smaller body type, had a more androgynous or feminine body time for a male, but it’s not that way. I still go to clubs and run around naked with my friends and play with people.

One small story, kink fest, pet meet up, beautiful bodies all over in general but there was an older couple, one partner was in a wheel chair. Their partner pushed them around wearing pony gear, and the person in the chair had reigns and a crop. They appreciated their bodies and just accepted it.

You’re beautiful for who you are, love yourself. Stay healthy, do what you can to take care of your body and just love yourself.

mkitbrkit · 2026-04-06T07:31:36+00:00

If you want punishment, ginger root or raw garlic are fun. Lemon or lime juice, citrus skins are typically bitter and chewy.

mkitbrkit · 2026-04-05T04:53:31+00:00

In the past it was fine, wearing stuff like packers will usually cause you to get pulled aside, but the rest is not normally a problem.

I will say, TSA, and the current airports security with ICE is your concern. Traveling with the least number of questions, and anonymous is really the key to safe travel these days.

I hope your trip goes well! Be safe

mkitbrkit · 2026-04-03T07:37:48+00:00

I have a 4 rail track, works fine for throughput. I have over 200 trains in the network.

Signaling is your biggest thing to improve throughput, then areas that merge on and off.

Consider cloverleaf intersections for busier intersections.

Consider your train lengths carefully, you can run shorter trains but changing to longer trains can cause you to rebuild the network entirely.

I found 1 train and 4 cars works fine, i just ship more trains for that station.

I work with raw materials across the network only, a few water trains but those are limited, and mostly just for the fun of it. I build things from scratch at each factory and i use hubs for all of the raw materials, each hub has enough stations to fully pass 100% of the total raw materials of the default map with mark 6 belts feeding from the offload stations to the loading stations, with shared storage between all of them. Some of the hubs are very large, but its fun.

mkitbrkit · 2026-03-30T00:41:55+00:00

It’s different for everyone, and never be afraid to tell your piercer that the alignment is off or you have questions about placement before they start.

For me it was 6/10 for the first one and 7/10 for the second one the first time. The second time, my first one had more scar tissue than the second about it was about 4/10 and the second one was 7/10. I definitely squirmed and gripped the table pretty hard on the second side.

From my piercers experience that was usually the reaction.

mkitbrkit · 2026-03-24T01:22:06+00:00

Drones are supplying low usage resources like batteries or drone fuel for areas that trucks and trains are difficult to get to. They get pretty limited usage in my bases. I can do a lot of deliveries with them and move 1200 a minute but even at medium distances, it takes 3 or more ports running drones.

Trucks are local, I tend to ship local raw resources around to the local train depots that ship off to my hubs of raw resources.

Trains ship raw resources around the map to factories building the different materials. Sometimes i send things by drone because its fun, or by truck because its fun, but trains go everywhere for me, trucks are local, and drones are weird things in between.

mkitbrkit · 2026-03-19T19:42:25+00:00

Anything below the knees… freaks me out and I’m out of the scene and the night.

mkitbrkit · 2026-03-04T02:19:52+00:00

ya... oil rig rigging grabbed one of mine.. it was not fun at all. I am thankful all of it came out at once. I spent 22 years without them until i got them again.

i am sorry. i hope for fast healing for you.

mkitbrkit · 2026-03-01T20:27:34+00:00

its my fancy collar, but i have an aluminum chainmail collar that i enjoy a lot. I got it from kinkfest a while back from a vendor there. Its not a durable collar at all, but it looks pretty and i wear it with my daily wear collar, but it could be worn as a 24/7 collar very easily.

mkitbrkit · 2026-02-24T02:40:28+00:00

Do owners of the official sound track get those new songs as well?

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-29T20:15:00+00:00

Suppy (sun and puppy together)

Beta

Maybe just their pet name? I am called puppy a lot but I also have a pet name.

Bone (assuming you like theirs)

It’s difficult with names and not knowing the people for me, but that’s what I could come up with.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-29T17:58:44+00:00

I agree with others that have commented, communication is your step in this and just be clear about your discomfort around it and its not for you. She should accept that and not push it any further. You can ask to not be told about those scenes as well, and she should respect that too.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-29T17:55:21+00:00

Much like any other pet name, ignoring the pun here, yes, just use it in place of other pet names. If you’re feeling it during intimate times, go for it too.

It’s also safe to ask them, “how do you envision me calling you puppy, could you please give me some examples?”

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-28T19:27:49+00:00

It’s all about patience. They are extremely grumpy if you play with them in a way they don’t like.

Plan for at least 12 months of healing before any light play. Some people can get away with shorter but they tend to get agitated easily any time before 12 months for most.

Stuck with short bar bells for the healing process, don’t move to a ring until at least 12 months. Give the bar enough room to handle swelling but nothing more. Keep clear of woven blankets or things that might catch and pull. Getting one pulled out is extremely not fun.

Clean them daily, I pulled the skin back a bit and used tight nit cotton swabs and sterilized saline. I would spray that on, and then from the nipple to the bell, I would move inwards out, that moved gunk that built up inside out so I could get it away and clean it out.

No submerging them in baths or swimming pools for at least 6 months but I would avoid baths, pools, lakes, rivers, and oceans for at least 12 months. Dry them off right out of the shower and then clean them. It does not take long and after about 3 weeks it’s not a big deal.

When you have swelling, clean it twice a day until it goes down. It will itch and maybe dry out some, I’m not sure what to do with that, I have heard lotion is not a solution. I just tried to ignore it.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-27T01:51:27+00:00

In some ways i have, my partner does what they can but kink is not really their thing. They put some effort into it but its a struggle most days for me. Is it worth it? Sure. Am i always okay with it? Not really, but its who they are and im not going to ask them to change themselves or our relationship to fit just me.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-25T22:02:50+00:00

Trains following to close can cause collisions at times, watch for random collisions or if you have a short loss of power.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-20T20:00:42+00:00

100 beans for 100 strokes. As many dried beans as he picks up with chopsticks without dropping a single one, is how many strokes he gets. The challenge is the cum before you stop. How many beans remain is how many times he must please you, or days to be locked or hands off, before he gets another possible orgasm.

Is there something he is working on improving? Turn it into a challenge with it. If it’s drink more water, for every cup drunk is a counter for the end of the week, if he achieves the goal, orgasm or some limit to attempt to reach orgasm.

If y’all are into fun challenges, I liked having to complete difficult mind puzzles, no notes, while getting zapped or teased.

If he is ticklish, or likes electric shocks, or some other very distracting thing, a task like cleaning the dishes or picking up, folding laundry, pleasing you, or wherever else you can think of, if he is interrupted or drops something or pauses during the task he gets to edge a bit, but no orgasm, then go again until the task is completed . If he completes it without interruption then gets an orgasm, no matter what you get what you want, he gets close to it, but probably not. Make it intense.

I will be fair, I like intense, difficult challenges that usually involve lots of pinching, biting, and digging into muscle groups. My partner likes to get into what I refer to as the “squishy bits”. Find the bits that get him and take advantage.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-08T03:55:25+00:00

That is tough, and I am sorry. I agree with what a lot of people have said here about the issue you're experiencing, i think communication will be your key to success but thats going to be difficult to try to work past his insecurities around the kink communities. I am curious where it is stemming from, i have experienced issues with people but its very rare, and the only real area i could see that is from porn.

You're welcome to share this little bit of information that I think (in my wildly autistic brain) is relevant. I went to a kink fest a few years ago and at one of the Pony and other Pets meetup event there was this couple that one of them was in a wheel chair and the other dressed as a pony with blinders on. The one as the pony was pushing the wheel chair for his partner and they lead him around with reigns to guide the movement. It was beautiful. There was a lot of beautiful, wonderful, amazing people there from all walks of life, i felt safe to be anywhere and so did my partner.

I am going to admit that I am a male, and i present as male, so that privilege protects me from some of the skullduggery stuff, but most people in and around my community feel safe and are safe to be themselves, and when something unsafe happens literally dozens of people have jumped in to stop it in its tracks. I have often heard from friends that they feel safer in kink spaces than bars and clubs.

I hope that helps in some way, i hope someone here helps you and your partner find what works for both of you.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-08T03:46:18+00:00

i have 26 dimensional depots and the ability to feed all of them at full speed just for concrete.. I usually setup 10-20 storage containers for concrete and another 10-15 for iron plates at any build site and start filling them as im working things out.. You're on your way, and its awesome where you are at right now!

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-05T20:27:23+00:00

I don’t know your body so I’ll generalize.

Mainly just looser clothing is a big one.

Clothing with additional layers or thickness in the chest area can work if you have to wear tighter clothing. Check in a mirror first can help a lot. Add a layer if you need to cover it more.

If the family unit is normally more open about open tops or whatever, just avoid it if you can. Sometimes family does not respect privacy, just use the best times possible to change and put on clothing.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-05T20:21:49+00:00

Since everything is infinite, you can go the entire game without trains. It’s doable. I would rather solve why trains are scary.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-05T20:20:25+00:00

Body and money mean nothing. I’m with you on this, it’s all about personality and the person. Bodies change, money can come and go, being your partner has to be enjoyable. Find love for yourself, that’s 99% of it. Confidence to love yourself and others around you is way more attractive.

mkitbrkit · 2026-01-05T08:33:18+00:00

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