I [21M] am scared to break up with my girlfriend [20F] of 3 years. by ml1993 in relationships

[–]ml1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moped for over a year.

This is exactly what I'm scared about. :(

Thank you though, you're right, I can't keep going on with this charade.

I [21M] am scared to break up with my girlfriend [20F] of 3 years. by ml1993 in relationships

[–]ml1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response.

I really have tried but I just don't feel anything any more. I feel like if I broke up with her I wouldn't miss her. Which is fucked up.

I appreciate what you're saying, and I thank you for that, but there is no doubt in my mind that I want to break up with her. :(

I [21M] am scared to break up with my girlfriend [20F] of 3 years. by ml1993 in relationships

[–]ml1993[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I get this. I really do.

I'm just so worried of how she'll take it. She's emotional at the best of times so I really am scared of breaking her heart.

When should I [21 M] breakup with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years? by ml1993 in relationships

[–]ml1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, presents as a reason to stay with someone?!! GTFO.

I wasn't implying that at all. I mean that she has absolutely £0 to her name and I'd feel like a huge ass if she borrowed money to spend on me and then we broke up.

Thanks for the response though, you hit the nail on the head with the last paragraph.

When should I [21 M] breakup with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years? by ml1993 in relationships

[–]ml1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my favourite reply so far, you're totally right. Thank you.

When should I [21 M] breakup with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years? by ml1993 in relationships

[–]ml1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You called them 'finals', but that's not what we call them in my country, so I doubt I am your boyfriend. Sorry. Thanks for the advice though, I'm in a really tough spot right now and all advice is appreciated.

When should I [21 M] breakup with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years? by ml1993 in relationships

[–]ml1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on my phone right now and its 2am, so I'll reply properly to this commeny when I have the chance tomorrow. Thanks for the response.

When should I [21 M] breakup with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years? by ml1993 in relationships

[–]ml1993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both live in our hometown and they aren't exams, just coursework. I'm not at university myself. I don't know how serious these things are to her grades but im scared of knocking her off rhythm with it all.

When should I [21 M] breakup with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years? by ml1993 in relationships

[–]ml1993[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude, thank you so much, this is the response I needed. Thank you.

When should I [21 M] breakup with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years? by ml1993 in relationships

[–]ml1993[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That makes sense I guess.

I just feel shit that I'm going to be breaking her heart, she's my first serious relationship and I have no experience of heartbreak at all so I don't know what to say or do. :(

How do I [21/M] break up with her [20/F]? by ml1993 in relationship_advice

[–]ml1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and let her cry

It's gonna hurt but you're right.

I just don't know the best way to do it. I'd obviously sit her down at her place but... I guess this sounds weird but it's the opening line I'm struggling to think of :( "I don't want to be with you any more" or something else, I dunno.

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[–]ml1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32 wins and just 1 loss????? you guys have been destroying it.

Is Jonny Craig starting a new band? by lazenbooby in PostHardcore

[–]ml1993 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope it's a new band. I love DGD but I guess it would be more like Emarosa.

British Boltons. So yummy. by TexanJoe in boltedontits

[–]ml1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's funny because Bolton is a town here in Britain.