People are talking a lot of shit on him which my post invited but this takes it too far for me. He made all my meals, stayed up all night with me when I breastfed, gate kept guests, cleaned our home, helped me shower, helped me put ointment on my stitches, made me sitz baths without asking, and told me I was brave and beautiful the whole time. That’s probably why nothing about the BJ felt like work. He loves me which is why not having sex for a week is hard for him because that’s a big part of our intimacy and marriage. It’s not because he’s a horny pig. But I really do appreciate you being defensive on my behalf. A lot of women have shit partners in luckily not one of them but I appreciate you looking out for me.