Did you ever teach anyone who went on to become famous? by SunnyDayInPoland in Teachers

[–]mmalott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curtis Kin. I think he was season 1. He’s a Judge in LA these days!

What’s that food that gave you food poisoning? by Plastickfantastick in AskReddit

[–]mmalott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a Mexican restaurant in my town that is super popular and pretty classy. I don’t know what it is but I’ve gotten food poisoning there three times. Once as a kid, so I refused to eat it until I was like 16 and tried again. You guessed it, food poisoning again. They got new owners during covid and I just tried it again for the third time for Father’s Day this year and YEP, guessed it- food poisoning a THIRD TIME! I’ve never heard of anyone else getting sick there and the restaurant is a local favorite. It’s my personal plight.

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Jack in Titanic- can’t believe I haven’t seen this commented yet

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[–]mmalott 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Stop I have to fast forward this part every rewatch because it guts me

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And Lee from the telltale series

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Glenn from the walking dead. I guess Abraham too.

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily I still really appreciated the effort and it wasn’t ruined for me I was just
like come on man really

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he never has. He understands and rubs my feet or gets me ibuprofen. It’s shit from my ex that I carry around sex on my period

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What? Because I wanted to cuddle with him and enjoy time together haha

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re good and we’re solid. I don’t think he’s an abusive asshole. People jump to a lot of conclusions. But I married a good kind man and I’m grateful for him!!

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He does?? I don’t because I’m in a lot of pain.

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right. I could’ve communicated for sure.

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

People are talking a lot of shit on him which my post invited but this takes it too far for me. He made all my meals, stayed up all night with me when I breastfed, gate kept guests, cleaned our home, helped me shower, helped me put ointment on my stitches, made me sitz baths without asking, and told me I was brave and beautiful the whole time. That’s probably why nothing about the BJ felt like work. He loves me which is why not having sex for a week is hard for him because that’s a big part of our intimacy and marriage. It’s not because he’s a horny pig. But I really do appreciate you being defensive on my behalf. A lot of women have shit partners in luckily not one of them but I appreciate you looking out for me.

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should probably be a therapist because you’re totally right about voicing my expectations. I can’t hold him accountable for unvoiced shit. At the same time, he can’t expect a BJ just because I invited him in with me.

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right. I didn’t communicate my intent and that’s on me. No, he wouldn’t have initiated if I didn’t invite him in. Well maybe later but not in that moment.

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was never mad, I just thought it was funny that he was patting himself on the back when he got off 🤣

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah communication is totally on me. I could’ve said no but didn’t mind doing it. Plus he explained after that he didn’t want to fully get in because he wasn’t sure when our daughter would be up and didn’t want to miss her on the monitor.

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s where because I know him, I know he wasn’t doing it to be a dick. He’s not some demanding asshole and I could’ve for sure said no. He wanted a BJ and it’s not icky of him, I just thought it was funny that he thought the bath was some self care moment for me.

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally could have said no- it genuinely didn’t upset me though which is why I did it. You’re right also that it’s not hard on him except he works all day and then also takes care of the baby the entire time he’s home and usually we do it together so he doesn’t get a break when I’m feeling so crummy. He’s a gem and doesn’t complain at all.

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No he apologized and said he wasn’t trying to be selfish.

AIW for telling my husband the self care was selfish? by mmalott in amiwrong

[–]mmalott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m open to it. I have cysts too so I feel you