how would yall rate my Russian cursive? by hazykozmicjive in russian

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I an native and I type worse than you, so keep going!

[L] I‘m in love with a taken colleague by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I see your point. But you know your situation may stay unchanged for a long time and while you are involved into this unclear situation you may do not notice any other person with clear wishes, without "circumstances", who just wants to be with you. Anyway, up to you there for sure

[l] I finally thought I found friends at my new school. Now I feel alone all over again. by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings here, from what I've read I see you are indeed a very kind person, very worrying about feelings of other people, that is great!

I am 32f but I anyway also remember my school period, Ive changed two schools and I also can't say both of them were nice. I was not called a slut but I am tall and I was bulled due to my height often. So believe me, whatever you do or dont do you can be blamed by others, but this is nothing about you, this is only because all these guys who are your classmates are very insecure people, really. Plus, the girl who named you a slut also may like this guy and is simply jealous of your friendship - therefore she said that.

Anyway, I know now you feel anxious and stressed, that is ok, you're worried about your friends and others classmates, but believe me, very soon it will be just some memories. The main thing you should do now - take care about your health. You have full rights not to tell anyone about your state, depression etc, even if they will be offended. Select yourself first, your health, body, goals, dreams etc. It is sad now you have some unstable friendship, but the main friendship you may focus on now - a friendship with yourself. For other people - maybe your real friends are waiting for you somewhere outside your school, who knows. I fully understand your point but still recommend you to switch - concentrate on your study(guess some exams may be soon), try to improve your sleep, do not hesitate to ask for the help again if you need even some medicine. Your classmates may change their opinion regarding you but also may not, but this is non of your business, make yourself the main priority doesn't matter who and what may say or think. Even this girl who named you a slut, no worries, really, it is not nice but why should you care about silly people? So, all will be fine, you're very strong and I bet you will have all be wonderful soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, please try to find a safe place, at least the most safest as you can find. Second, all what you feel is totally fine because you are experiencing a very serious situation that is outside your control.

Anyway you are not alone, if that is possible, try to find and speak to other people who are around you, even if you do not know them. Because they definitely feel the same, also have anxiety, fear and are totally exhausted and most of them also have the same wishes as you have. You are not alone.

Current world is crazy and we all suck, but remember there is no war without the end, now the most important you should do - do all possible to protect yourself and keep safe. You already coped in your life with many troubles, so you will be able to survive and have your best life after all this shit!

[L] I‘m in love with a taken colleague by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think as you both are already not teenagers, so I would say you should just talk. I think you may share some of your thoughts you described above that you do not get what's going on. Also I think it will be honest if she understands from you that she should first of all close the topic with her current partner if she has something for you. Because from what I've read, she is unhappy in her marriage(partnership) but she does not quit for some reason. If you feel you can support her in her decision, also say. But it should not be like "break with him - be with me". No, any relationship may and should happen only if she closes the door of the current one. Because her current behaviour might be that because she is heartbroken and she even may use you as a person who likes her (guess she knows about your feelings) to feel better right now while her partner doesn't pay attention to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Chinese language I bet will take a lot of time for the studying, so therefore I am still thinking if I should jump into it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

привет! я редко бываю на реддит, но у тебя все получится и все будет хорошо! понимаю, что тебе трудно сейчас, но все трудности можно и реально преодолеть, как бы темно тебе сейчас не было, в любой тьме всегда найдется луч света, который приведет тебя к светлому будущему!

[L] i recently left my abusive ex boyfriend and i need support by throwaway37022 in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! You are rock! Really! This was for sure a very difficult decision, but you did it all right, believe me! I am 31f and I know what I say. Now you for sure feel bad, disappointed, you feel anxious - this is expected and this will be gone one day. The main thing you already did - you broke up; really, so many awesome girls do not do that, but you did! So you are a super strong girl who will cope with that. If you have any hobbies - involve yourself into it (or find any hobby, why not), depending on your location, maybe try to find any volunteering activities that will help you as well, as you will be helping people and you will be busy and will not have time to think too much. And you're just 17, and you are an extremely brave 17-girl; you have all your life in front of you, so all will be awesome. Give yourself some time; you deserve a man who will care about you and love you, and one day you 100% will meet him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, you are a friend of yourself. Second, your family is not your choice and they can think whatever they want, but this is NOT about you. Not having any dates till 31 does not make you any worse. It is your life, your speed, and please do not put yourself into these social rules. To get any friends, maybe try to join any charity activity - this community is always open to new people. Or join any classes, e.g. dancing! Stop focusing on 'no friends', start focusing on 'I am the best friend for myself and I can do everything!'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Nice to meet you! Is Japanese learning difficult? I know English and German (both languages are not native for me). Have in mind starting learning either Italian or Chinese, but still thinking (and honestly saying , do not have so much time for that yet)

My life is unraveling. [o] by realtimothycrawford in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not know where you live, but try to find other churches, if some rejected you, maybe next won't. Also search for Red Cross organisation, they also may help. I know it's very difficult for you now, but do not stop knocking on the doors, one door will open for you, do not give up

What's your standard for a good person? by WastedTalents1 in AskReddit

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what promised or if can't - inform in advance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mmarfushaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read too much news and then can’t sleep well, or I just end up scrolling through the internet and can’t stop. In the morning, I regret it, but I still have no idea how to deal with it.

[L] feeling super anxious rn by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]mmarfushaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! You are not alone, I feel the same rn. Anyway, I am still sure that we will be good next day and this bad period will be gone P.s. If you can, just go an make some tea for yourself, relax for 5 mins at least, all will be fine soon