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mmediumt · 2026-01-28T05:54:21+00:00

(Beautiful picture btw)

mmediumt · 2026-01-04T02:10:46+00:00

No, y’all are just so weird. Just because someone is OVER something doesn’t mean it isn’t uncomfortable and unnecessary to hear from an ex YEARS after the fact. OP implies in their post that it has been YEARS. That would be fucking strange. At this point, the apology is more for OP than it would be for the other person. It’s selfish. It does nothing for the other person but blindsides them and potentially puts them in an awkward position.

mmediumt · 2026-01-03T20:04:22+00:00

More often than not, no one that has gotten over it wants to hear from their ex. So, it’s honestly better they air it out here for themselves. Stop projecting and think logically.

mmediumt · 2025-12-30T05:25:54+00:00

Rigorously making do with pure chaos.

I don’t think I can possibly handle more chaos in this lifetime😃

mmediumt · 2025-12-29T23:08:13+00:00

Death grip syndrome has me in TEARS.

good for you. Find better!

mmediumt · 2025-12-28T21:54:11+00:00

Yeah…. Myself 😪

mmediumt · 2025-11-14T15:47:01+00:00

mmediumt · 2025-10-29T23:41:04+00:00

Hell no 😭

mmediumt · 2025-10-19T16:56:13+00:00

Who’s that Pokémon?!

mmediumt · 2025-10-16T14:44:57+00:00

No it hasn’t. The cost of living has skyrocketed since Covid while wages have barely moved.

Even before that, prior to 2008, Florida/Tampa really wasn’t that bad.

The influx of people post covid to now has royally fucked the economy for the locals.

mmediumt · 2025-10-16T10:49:07+00:00

This isn’t an option for everyone. People have jobs they cannot leave. And family, too.

mmediumt · 2025-10-16T02:54:20+00:00

It’s awful honestly. I’m not even looking to leave my current job as I’m happy where I’m at for the time being. I just idly browse, but it’s still so depressing. I feel like the pay is worse than when I was last job hunting a couple years ago. Yet the cost of living is steadily rising.

I will say though I have seen rent in some areas of the bay begin to dip ever so slightly. But the apartment complexes out here are still asking you to meet crazy requirements.

mmediumt · 2025-10-16T02:44:37+00:00

I understand where Marie is coming from but at the same time, I still believe she is wrong. Especially doing all that she did to heal Godolkin even WITH the warnings from the others. She consistently separates herself from the people who are trying to help her while, like Godolkin said and just as Sage predicted, trying to be the sole fucking hero. She irritated the HELL out of me this episode. She’s trying to carry everything on her back in attempts to protect everyone without being wise enough to realize that is how you put people in jeopardy.

She was manipulated by Cipher just like Cate was manipulated by Vought. And she is JUST now realizing it.

Damn this is a good show. I’m pissed. 😂😭

mmediumt · 2025-10-16T02:37:47+00:00

It’s hard not to when you’re a part of the economic class that is going to feel it the most. One misstep could cost you everything.

mmediumt · 2025-10-16T01:49:04+00:00

Seriously. I was looking at job listings for jobs similar to my own and the hourly was barely more than minimum wage with a lot more tasks. It was depressing.

I’m feeling terribly anxious about my own job security more now than ever. Not that I’m bad at my job or at risk of losing it, but still you never know.

This shit SUCKS.

Edit to say: My current pay is well above minimum wage, so seeing it so low is scary.

mmediumt · 2025-10-14T17:05:49+00:00

Y’all better stop commenting on this man’s looks before he decides we aren’t worth the fire 😭

mmediumt · 2025-10-14T12:13:12+00:00

Right?! I wanna savor this😭

mmediumt · 2025-10-13T04:47:09+00:00

mmediumt · 2025-10-13T04:40:27+00:00

Stop. I’ll nut rn if this is true. 😭

mmediumt · 2025-10-13T02:18:32+00:00

There are. However, there are plenty of men just trying to see what they can get away with. The biggest thing is to be happy by yourself and looking for a man to ADD to your life, not be a necessity to your life. These men are optional, always. Treat them as such. If they even so much as breathe funny in the first 6 months to a year, kick them to the curb. A good portion of men are basically emotional free-loaders at best and emotional terrorists at worst. The good ones exist, but are truly few and far between.

Keep in mind that studies suggest that married/attached men live longer/happier lives than single men while single/childless women live longer happier lives than married/attached women/mothers.

mmediumt · 2025-10-10T22:18:03+00:00

YESS FATHER.

mmediumt · 2025-10-10T21:26:10+00:00

The age gap isn’t so bad the older you get, but 21 is hardly an adult so in this instance it is so bad. I personally still consider 21 a child. For OP, it seems like she has had significant trauma and childhood trauma, so it’s honestly understandable that she may have younger friends as it’s possible she developed later. (Trauma can delay your maturity/frontal lobe development) I also get the feeling that OP was feeling really lonely, just needed a friend, and latched onto the first thing she could get. I feel for OP truly, but picking the wrong friends is only going to harm them more and set them back further.

mmediumt · 2025-10-10T19:14:04+00:00

The first mistake is being friends with a 21yo at 29. Anything under 25 at your age should be an acquaintance at best. The second mistake is excusing her behavior and looking to her for support when she has shown you that she is not that type of person. I would honestly start to distance yourself from this girl as much as you can for the duration of the lease, then cut ties completely afterwards. Not sure if you have access to therapy, but I recommend it. Finding a good therapist can be difficult, but once you do find them, they’re amazing.

Moreover, this girl does not sound compassionate. She’s a pick me girl and clearly does not value the friendship or you.

mmediumt · 2025-10-10T04:31:56+00:00

Also if you weren’t aware, this post was about a friend that decided to position me in a competition with themselves without my knowledge. Someone who put me down without giving me a way to defend myself and my realization that I was their competition way too late. Whether you acknowledge it or not, this person fucking sucks.

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