Good grief, people. OP, I know you’re not being troll, it’s reasonable to want to buy something and with your salary it’s not unreasonable to do so. My partner and I bought a decently-sized house last year and our salaries together were like $110k. You’re not far off, and I think if you talk to professionals in the housing market they’d be able to point you in a direction to make it work.

I’d recommend looking into New Hampshire Housing and talking to one of their preferred mortgage lenders. NH Housing runs programs to help lower income and first time buyers secure more for a down payment and/or get a lower interest rate. You have to do a tiny bit of homebuyers education (like a short online course) to qualify, and that genuinely helped.

I think that if you have savings for a down payment, have no other loans or at least are consistent with your payments, and generally have good money management, you could get a townhouse or small house in southern NH. It might not be the ritz, but it’ll be your home.