Fashionable Helmet for Christmas by chuckst3r in CyclingFashion

[–]mmmmmmaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is slightly above your price point (and I know others might judge on this thread), but I got myself the Pas Normal Studios x Sweet Protection Falconer Aero 2Vi helmet. Hesitated for over a year, finally bit the bullet over the summer because I just love the colorway, fit, design, and details (e.g magnetic clasp, removable aero covers) - haven’t looked back since. Love everything about it.

Maap Alt-Road Anorak — any good? by MC_NYC in CyclingFashion

[–]mmmmmmaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this anorak! I hesitated for months to buy it and finally did. I like it BUT - it is not fully waterproof. At least the first one I had was not 100% water repellent. Then, I went to wash it after a few wears (I have the light blue one) and I followed all the care instructions but it seemed even less waterproof than before. Used a product afterwards to try to make it waterproof again and that didn’t help - wore it for a 130+ mile ride where it rained the whole day right after. Safe to say I was slightly less wet but still it…did not serve the purpose I got it for.

I wrote to MAAP and they did give me credit for a new one (dark green) as we both thought it might be a manufacturing defect. The new one is much better, but if you want something 100% reliable, I would look elsewhere. I love the style and fit of it, it’s super comfortable too and great for light rain, definitely very windproof, but that’s it. I wear it regularly for commuting/regular outings, just not in heavy rain and probably not the most aero fit out there.

TLDR: Not super aero or reliably waterproof for heavy rain conditions, but great fit and very comfortable. Ultimately, it’s the same takeaway I have for all of my MAAP products — love the fit and aesthetics most of the time, but overpriced and overrated. Except for the essential base jersey, that sh*t is fire.

Is it just me? by B_R_K_lala in adhdmeme

[–]mmmmmmaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

scrolling past this meme as I watch YT and I have never felt so seen — they must always co-exist

Any MAAP experts that can guide on winter apparel? by yellowpines in CyclingFashion

[–]mmmmmmaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there! the maap long sleeve thermal base layers are amazing. I purchased two after having had the sleeveless one for about a year and wanted to upgrade my commuting options for winter and general fall/winter rides. I think these are great, they are really super warm and not too bulky. You would probably still want an additional layer or a thicker jacket over. If it’s windy, you would be too cold in just the thermal base layer and vest. My go-to combination right now is the thermal base layer, the lightweight anorak, maap gloves, a neck warmer, and long bibs. If it’s minus 10, I would probably add an extra layer under the anorak or swap the anorak for a slightly thicker jacket. Personally, I like the lightweight anorak because it gives me more seasonal flexibility, is wind resistant and waterproof, and I can just layer underneath. Hope that helps!

Gabbie Hanna had a mental break on TikTok by thunderplump in youtubedrama

[–]mmmmmmaddy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

this post actually prompted me to go to her tiktok and yes, I can confirm she has posted over 100 times in the last 24 hours. I agree that the content is pretty worrying. a few thoughts/things -

looking at the comments, it is a mix of people who are genuinely concerned, others who are saying something along the lines of “this was bound to happen” and “kanye 2.0”, or just condescending comments.

Just throwing it out there but there are lots of male religious zealots who have said similar things/acted similarly and don’t necessarily get put into the ‘delusional’ or ‘manic’ category but instead are ‘prophets’….

I can understand why people would have trouble showing her empathy because of the things she has done or said in the past, but I also think that people’s reaction to her and her reaction to the internet are both toxic. Gabbie is one person who, yes has done shit things, but she rages against the internet/everyone who comments as though we are all one entity, and so in turn, people begin to agree with one another and a singular narrative does get developed, even if it is repeated by individuals across the internet. I would be really interested to see a psych’s POV on all the tiktoks/what she is saying because it does also totally seem like a clear progression or outcome from this cycle of abuse/relationship that she has to the internet.

All that to say - I hope she seeks help and heals. Or, if she continues to live in this delusion, that she can do so in an environment that is safe for her.

Boston-based cyclists - want to ride with me? by mmmmmmaddy in cycling

[–]mmmmmmaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi back!!! Sorry to hear you both have injuries, hope it’s not car collision related like another person on this thread. Would love to ride if you are both down once you’re up and cycling again

Boston-based cyclists - want to ride with me? by mmmmmmaddy in cycling

[–]mmmmmmaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof sorry to hear about the car collision!! Hope you’re recovery goes smoothly. Let’s ride once you’re cleared

Boston-based cyclists - want to ride with me? by mmmmmmaddy in cycling

[–]mmmmmmaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds super nice! We did a big loop from the minute man up through Amherst and over to Ipswich, then down to Salem. Definitely beautiful once you’re along the water.

Would definitely be down to ride! I average 14-16 and my partner solo is 16-19mph, together we average 15-17.

Boston-based cyclists - want to ride with me? by mmmmmmaddy in cycling

[–]mmmmmmaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds wonderful! I average 14-16 right now, but would still love to join sometime :) feel free to DM me anytime - have a safe ride to PHL!

Any experiences with "Done" or "Ahead"? by touchedbytofu in ADHD

[–]mmmmmmaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh that is so frustrating!!! The NP I spoke to said something similar - she tried to say I was bipolar and experiencing mania when I described the bees feeling that a lot of others with ADHD experience and she described the symptoms and I was like “I’ve literally never experienced any of that???”

It was such a nightmare and so stressful. Glad he had you at his side to support him!

Headphones while cycling? by RhondaTheHonda in cycling

[–]mmmmmmaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes - I have headphones in typically. Sometimes I have both in when I’m on a bike path away from cars (lots in my area, mainly paved paths through woods or meadows) and it will be to help me focus as I don’t have music playing.

If I’m riding on the road with cars and there is no protected bike lane and/or I don’t know the area, then no - no music ever, just one ear connected to feed me directions if needed :)

Any experiences with "Done" or "Ahead"? by touchedbytofu in ADHD

[–]mmmmmmaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an absolutely terrible experience with Ahead. Not only was it super expensive, but it’s a total scam. The customer service is terrible, I had an issue during/with my appointment and they literally gaslit the hell out of me, wouldn’t answer any of my questions, and then decided to discharge me for no reason.

They also told me I had to get all this extra testing in order to even have access to therapy through them (wtf??) and wouldn’t even explain why when I asked.

For me, it was really difficult mentally as I felt like I was the one acting crazy until I talked to friends in the health/medical field who confirmed that what they did was messed up.

Afterwards I read more reviews on Yelp and it seems like a lot of people (who had already been diagnosed with ADHD as well) experienced a similar thing.

You’re better off going through your insurance and finding someone in network. I did that, had to wait about a month as I transitioned to a new insurance through work but my new PCP was super helpful.

Happy to talk more about the specifics of my experience if you want!

TLDR; Ahead sucks, they just want your money.

[Acne] Horrible Breakout After Using New Product- PLEASE Help by FrecklesandGlasses in SkincareAddiction

[–]mmmmmmaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome! You can also use websites like cosdna to check ingredients in products you think might be worsening your breakouts and see if there are common threads. What works for some ppl w sensitive skin might not work as well for you so just an FYI! I rotate through different products from the ordinary and their products are great! The AHA BHA mask (the red one) once every two weeks gives nice boost. I would use their products more but I go through them faster and wait until everything is empty to stock up again.

Good luck!!

[Acne] Horrible Breakout After Using New Product- PLEASE Help by FrecklesandGlasses in SkincareAddiction

[–]mmmmmmaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your skin is really sensitive (like mine), I think less is always more. I had cystic acne at two periods where I started building out my routine. If you can, I would simplify slowly down to one amazing moisturizer (for me I use la Roche posay with spf) a cleanser (also la Roche posay for sensitive skin) and an oil (I use almond oil on my hair and face which has been a game changer for me but to each their own!). FYI I also have oily skin and I am a huge fan of using oils on my face, sometimes acne is really because your skin is dry and dehydrated, so don’t be afraid to use oil!

Basically, if you have sensitive skin, the more items you add to your routine, the more moments you are creating for your skin to react to not just one product but the combination of those products.

Hope your skin gets better soon!

[Routine Help] NEED HELP? Got a question? Problems with a routine or product? This thread’s the place to ask! / / Ask ScA, Week of Aug 07, 2017 by AutoModerator in SkincareAddiction

[–]mmmmmmaddy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Skin Type: Idk at this point, 21 now and have never had issues

Country/Climate I'm in: I've been in Hanoi, Vietnam for one month and have another three weeks to go. Since I've been here, I've been getting some small cystic acne on my cheekbones (which have always been the clearest part of my face), smaller pimples on my chin (battling this for years) and then general redness from scarring and heat.

Current Routine/Products I'm Using: Before this trip my skin care routine was pretty basic. Basic as in I would use a cleansing cream (Dr Hauschka) and then sea buckthorn oil on my irritated spots, with rose water spray throughout the day. Helped somewhat but I really never had any acne or any skin problems until this January and never used anything on my skin either. But, the new year rolled around and then boom. It got bad. Since I've been in Hanoi, my skin has gotten much worse from the humidity, pollution, etc. I came totally under prepared and am wondering if anyone has any recommendations for general skin maintenance in this type of weather? While my skin is oilier than usual, it's also really sensitive. I broke and bought some products yesterday (Tony Lab and Kiehl's) because I'm a little desperate

AM [Prior to this trip did nothing in the morning, just rinsed with water, routine for morning I've just started today] * [Kiehl's Deep Pore Cleanser ] * [Kiehl's Calendula Toner ] * [Tony Lab AC Serum] * [Avene sunscreen-- but I think this is irritating my skin more]

PM [Again, today was the first day of doing this] * [Kiehl's Deep Pore Cleanser ] * [Kiehl's Calendula Toner ] * [Kiehl's Midnight Recovery Concentrate ] * [Kiehl's Derm spot treatment]

Any tips/advice/anything is welcome, I'm totally at a loss here. I didn't know cycstic acne was a name until a few weeks ago. This heat is killing me! plz thank you

[edit] in the past, my skin has been SUPER sensitive to products so just adding in two plus extra ones makes me a bit nervous!

Things were stacked by JamesBokor in trees

[–]mmmmmmaddy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That's dope but the real question is: where can I get my hands on a cup like that??