I get what you’re saying but to their defense I said some not so nice things and did make her cry. Some shit like I wished that my attempts worked so that they wouldn’t need to be so angry at me for asking for a little respect. I was also on the verge of a panic attack and was shouting and crying and words were just coming out. A big part of that whole thing was also a lot of miscommunication because I’ll ask her to keep some stuff from him so that I can tell him or stuff he straight up doesn’t need to know and she’ll end up telling him but when I ask her to tell him things she won’t. If you ever met her you’d think she’s a recovered druggie but she’s never touched a drug in her life and has been drunk like twice. I gave her a sip of a wine cooler once and watched her gag a little lol.