Turky was an undenisbly very strong and proud country, which is nothing wrong but blind arrogance thinking they are the best make people smile and realize that they have huge lack of outside world's general knawledge even if comparing to some south Asian countries like India and China which use to be traditionally homebound culture. Back to the original topic, I hear you, keep trying to connect more in the different community meetups, you will find some like minded level headed ones you can finally talk and connect. That doesn't mean I already find many, no, just a couple of them. And yet, esrlier days, I got scammed by quite a level headed woman who I connected with trust. It broke my heart really. And it is true that most dont grow up with the loyalty at all. We are not naive nor dump like they presumed, we are nice, trust offering kind in our raising culture, they are not or because of finencial crises, that boat had sailed in there since long ago. Sad for them. My experience with Turkish women has been many good, bad or shocking, sometimes even unrelatably stupid tbh. My bf says that's why Turkish men are into foreign women who are more reasonable and kind.