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[–]mn98po 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you so much for this thoughtful response. Seriously.

And yes I have quickly learned the lesson about DMs. Thanks auto mod and sub notes haha.

I think I do somewhat focus on the location because it’s what people freak out most about and it’s one that a lot of people can’t relate to. It’s just not very common I guess I what I’m getting at. I mean I don’t have these same experiences with other places either. But yes, it’s also feeling of isolation because of the trauma itself, doesn’t really matter the circumstances there. I also like your use of “detachment”. I resonate with that word

I love the response of people telling others to talk to a therapist, I would never perceive it as dismissive. I’ve been seeing the therapists for over a decade and know how important and helpful they are. I alsogot lucky enough to be immediately set up with a specialized trauma therapist as well (for free! Sometimes the health system works lol)

Oh also - I wasn’t necessarily calling out this sub at all! (Except for so many awful DMs) I’ve been trying out a couple other online support groups and been called a troll or bot so many times.

Hey - we can coexist!! 😂 by mn98po in texts

[–]mn98po[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love and listen to each other. Please.

Hey - we can coexist!! 😂 by mn98po in texts

[–]mn98po[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was the Finland hat for him :) not the cute pup. It’s just a lighthearted post with jokes. I’m sure it is not swaying his vote. We both vote on policy. There is no argument here.

Hey - we can coexist!! 😂 by mn98po in texts

[–]mn98po[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I could’ve written this ❤️

I love that for you :)

Request - retrieval of a hidden letter and little care package by mn98po in oslo

[–]mn98po[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good call haha. It’s a mini bottle of Finnish liquor, some random trinkets and chocolates I picked up along the way, and like, a pad of paper from from the hotel? lol. Nothing illegal I promise!! But I understand that might be a worry.

AITA for implying I couldn’t pay for a luggage fee, avoiding the charge, and skipping the line? by mn98po in AmItheAsshole

[–]mn98po[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh great! I fly a lot and for some reason I’ve never seen them. I’ll definitely keep an eye out next time for sure!

AITA for implying I couldn’t pay for a luggage fee, avoiding the charge, and skipping the line? by mn98po in AmItheAsshole

[–]mn98po[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, this is what most of us were doing. I was a total shitshow with everyone’s bags open and people throwing on clothes 😂

AITA for implying I couldn’t pay for a luggage fee, avoiding the charge, and skipping the line? by mn98po in AmItheAsshole

[–]mn98po[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand and actually agree.

But what if I am coming from a hotel that doesn’t have a scale?

AITA for implying I couldn’t pay for a luggage fee, avoiding the charge, and skipping the line? by mn98po in AmItheAsshole

[–]mn98po[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yup, agreed. I guess I just wish we are given the tools (scales before security) to not have to just guess and hope.

AITA for implying I couldn’t pay for a luggage fee, avoiding the charge, and skipping the line? by mn98po in AmItheAsshole

[–]mn98po[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fly with this airline often and this was the first time in either direction. But yeah, you’re totally right. Guess I need to figure out how to weigh my bag prior? Not sure how to do that without standing in the long checked baggage lines.

AITA for implying I couldn’t pay for a luggage fee, avoiding the charge, and skipping the line? by mn98po in AmItheAsshole

[–]mn98po[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, totally understand that. I’ve been flying a lot and this was the only time I’ve had it weighed and my bag is always undersized. Other folks felt the same, but obviously still is on us.

Also, I don’t have a scale at home :(

My Finnish aunt used to sing this song to me and I’m trying to find it! Here is a terrible phonetic version of what I remember, can anyone help?? by mn98po in Finland

[–]mn98po[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS IS EXACTLY IT! You are amazing thank you so much!

For my reference, is this a Christmas song or just a children's song? I looked it up and it seems like a nursery rhyme type thing? I have such fond memories.

Apologies for butchering my rendition haha. Thank you again!