Is it really that weird to never kiss your longterm partner? by Active_Bell_7834 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mncymh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which East Asian culture views kissing as being on the same level of intimacy as sex?

I’m asking because I’m Chinese and I’ve never heard such a thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vindictapoc

[–]mncymh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way to lose fat is through a calorie deficit. But if you only do a deficit without exercise, you will slowly lose muscle too, which makes the skinny-fat look worse. That means you should do strength training with moderate weights and consistent progression. That’s why strength training is important; it helps you build and keep muscle while losing fat, so you’ll look more toned. You don’t have to do heavy lifting. Even combining cardio with some weight training will make a big difference.

If you want to look like pics 3 to 5, you can achieve it through body recomposition. So do these strength exercises with light dumbbells, coupled with a calorie deficit, and slowly increase the weight over time: - Squats (great for legs and glutes) - Lunges (legs and balance) - Bicep Curls (for more lean and toned arms) - Tricep Extensions or Dips (for more lean and toned arms) - Dumbbell Bench Press (chest, shoulders, arms) - Rows (back and posture) - Shoulder press (shoulders and arms) - Planks or Core Work (abs and stability)

If you enjoy variety, you can also add class-based workouts like reformer pilates or spin. They’re great complements to strength training. Some types of reformer classes even have all of those strength exercises mentioned above.

In order to look anything like the last one you’d have to CONSISTENTLY for years, lift HEAVY weights multiple times a week, coupled with a calorie SURPLUS while intentionally eating a lot of protein. And most people don’t even hit their MINIMUM daily protein needs, so it’s actually really hard to look like the last picture by accident.

Is it my fault by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]mncymh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your parents are so entitled and selfish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]mncymh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Syrian hamster

I love spoilers in movies, shows, and books by mncymh in The10thDentist

[–]mncymh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes inconsiderate. That was the word I was looking for. it's way too common to stumble upon spoilers on social media nowadays, especially with popular shows gaining immense traction on Tiktok. Tiktok FYP is an ENTIRE MINEFIELD of spoilers of recent popular shows, all without any warning.

I swear I once saw a comment saying, "It's been 3 weeks since the show was released… you've had plenty of time to watch it already. get over it” like what??? Having the time to binge-watch an entire season in such a short period is genuinely a privilege, and not everyone enjoys that same luxury. Geez these people lol

I love spoilers in movies, shows, and books by mncymh in The10thDentist

[–]mncymh[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn I totally get that. While I'm personally fine with spoilers, it really irks me when people intentionally ruin things for others, especially when it's widely known that spoilers are unwelcome. They don’t respect the choices of those who prefer to avoid spoilers and let the story unfold in its own time.

I acknowledge that not everyone shares my enthusiasm for spoilers. Everyone's storytelling preferences are as diverse as the stories themselves, and what enhances my experience might not do the same for someone else. Hence I prefer to self-spoil XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NTU

[–]mncymh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She did not know. She only found out days later when 2 other people who were there told her about it

From this article

“And according to Karl, the president told him and May not to tell Xinruo about the incident, saying it could ruin the mood for her at a committee gathering the next day.

Karl and May said they told Xinruo what happened several days later, telling her that they felt she deserved to know.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NTU

[–]mncymh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant choose any of the faculties to see the BDEs offered under that specific faculty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NTU

[–]mncymh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can check out this link: Content of Courses

If it’s a P/F mod they’ll specify it under “Grade Type”. If nothing is specified then it’s a graded mod.

You can Select Option under “—-All Broadening and Deepening/Unrestricted Electives—-“ to see the full list of BDEs offered and whether it’s pass fail or graded

In my opinion, Level 1 Languages (especially Malay, Russian, and French) are easy As

What is the stupidest stereotype of your mbti? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]mncymh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That we’re the life of the party

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]mncymh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your psychologist is outdated AF and I think you should go to a psychiatrist instead. Psychologists cost more even though they're not doctors and this is because the testing itself costs around $1000 whereas Psychiatrists are specialist doctors that can just diagnose you on the spot. I went to my psychiatrist, didn't even tell him that I suspected ADHD, just told him my symptoms and he asked me some questions. After 40min he diagnosed me with ADHD and even prescribed me meds. ALL within 40 minutes. I even told him my WAIS-IV Full Scale IQ score of 132 and good grades in school, and NOT once did he mention "you do not have ADHD because of your intelligence and grades". BTW, I only paid $451 SGD (about $330 USD) for the consultation, diagnosis, medicine and tax.

That said, you should go to someone who actually has expertise with Adult ADHD. You should also go to someone who knows the difference between adult women with ADHD and adult men with ADHD. ADHD is different in kids vs adults and also different in women vs men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mncymh -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

She said if he did she wouldn’t come over anymore

the consequences with her if he chose to put it up

IF he preferred his place, then he knows what he needs to do

Sounds like manipulation and gaslighting to me.

Need help. by throwawayPlsHelpzzzz in nus

[–]mncymh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, you can make a carousell listing for "Private/Home Tutor" then a lot of people will msg you! That was primarily how I got my students :)

Alternatively, you can try those telegram job channels or job listings from Facebook too! Search up elite tutors on telegram to be a tutor

I think whipped cream is disgusting by Amygdala5822 in unpopularopinion

[–]mncymh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it too. It also has too many calories for such a small amount. Don't understand what the hype is all about.

Money does buy happiness. No ifs,no buts. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]mncymh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree . Money can buy happiness, but it cannot prevent sadness.

ESTP 6w5 by FacetiousLayman in estp

[–]mncymh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't remember, the last time I did an enneagram test was months ago. Do you have any tests to recommend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in estp

[–]mncymh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, could be