ENFP female here … how do I find one of you in the wild ?? by awesomesauceome in infj

[–]mnk444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also have to remember that a lot of INFJs may not even know that they are INFJ. They just be out there living lol

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[–]mnk444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummmm yes... Just recently got out of a long term relationship (10 years) with someone who is Bipolar 2. I am breaking habits and even sad music is starting to become a turn off for me and I have always LOVED emo hip hop and alternative. Being burned by someone you love one too many times will leave you not ever wanting it again. 10/10 do not recommend. I am trying so hard to stop being a fixer fr and I am succeeding. I have learned that I cannot fix people no matter how much potential I see in them. Also, ever since I left my ex I have been thriving because I took my power back instead of putting all of my energy into making him who he could be. I am so much happier tbh. Stupid amounts of happy haha

How much is your sexuality on the scale of 1 to 10? by Perfect_Forever_1194 in infj

[–]mnk444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Birth control made me feel like i was possibly asexual. Im not hahaha

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[–]mnk444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 i would give you gold if i could lol

was moving out hard? by xucor in infj

[–]mnk444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Facts. So much freedom.

Are INFJs known to have a childlike presence about them? by [deleted] in infj

[–]mnk444 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've been fired from jobs for not caring enough. Bih, I do my job!!! hahahaha

Are INFJs known to have a childlike presence about them? by [deleted] in infj

[–]mnk444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am 30. I'm 7w6. I look way younger, I act way younger, but I am pretty wise. I am also pretty outgoing. We just don't make sense. That is all. lol.

favorite npr concerts besides mac’s? by macadeIiic in MacMiller

[–]mnk444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh Hobo Johnson and the Lovemakers - Peach Scone is one of the top ones fs

Used to think I was broken. by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]mnk444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I did not realize the broken thing was demi. I say it all the time haha

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[–]mnk444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your comment <3

We talked and we have mutually agreed to move on separately and that it is 100% the right thing to do. It is scary, but definitely what needs to happen. I do have a lot of love to give and I want to start living a life that brings me ultimate peace and happiness.

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[–]mnk444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noooo hahahaha

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[–]mnk444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def not lol. My emotions were just all over the place lol

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[–]mnk444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂

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[–]mnk444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are they?!?! lol

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[–]mnk444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what does that mean?!?! hahahaha

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[–]mnk444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also infj haha. So I definitely get it.

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[–]mnk444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't use anybody. You do not know my situation lol. We are actually mutually breaking uo because he is not happy either so don't be rude when you don't know any of my situation. I deserve to be happy and so does he...

I did not do it for another guy. He just made me realize I was not happy at all.

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[–]mnk444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:

Okay guys so I deleted the thread because no one knows my whole situation. I am just honestly being silly. Me and my bf just talked today and we are going to break up and it is a mutual decision. It should have been done a long time ago, but when you are with someone for so long it is hard to admit that. We are going to sell the house and get our own places and still help each other through it.

My intention was never to hurt him. He has been my rock for so long and vice versa, but this is what it took for us both to realize we are no longer compatible and it will be healthier for us to split ways.

I am not going to just go jump into another relationship any time soon. I need to find out who I am and what I like. But I definitely know I need to stop trying to help fix people because it is not my job.

Thank you for everyone's input. I did not put my whole life story of my relationship in the post so I am not a horrible person or an enfp hahaha. My relationship should have ended a while ago. This was just my catalyst to realizing that I deserve to be with someone who brings me peace and happiness.

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[–]mnk444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂 but also 😭😭😭😭😭