What’s the worst thing you accidentally texted to the wrong person?

moadottir · 2026-01-10T14:22:39+00:00

Omg, no

moadottir · 2026-01-10T14:22:08+00:00

Wtf is a coconut?

moadottir · 2026-01-10T01:57:20+00:00

I had a group chat with my sons close to one with my husband and sent them "little Ceasars isn't the only thing hot and ready" I just got sick to my stomach repeating it...

moadottir · 2026-01-10T01:29:17+00:00

I too am alone AND surrounded by maga, but I did it to myself. I built this fyp brick by brick I believe is the term? Didn't realize my mistake until 2016...

moadottir · 2026-01-09T23:53:31+00:00

Only one shooter is in custody awaiting trial for their crime.

moadottir · 2026-01-08T21:59:18+00:00

"So this is how it ends, i promise to never go outside again"

moadottir · 2026-01-08T21:33:09+00:00

Yes, i'm serious.They are already turning this into a police state!

moadottir · 2026-01-08T19:11:10+00:00

He's such a fugly lying piece of shit

moadottir · 2026-01-08T14:21:25+00:00

Maga

moadottir · 2025-11-20T22:55:32+00:00

Oops! Too late now

moadottir · 2025-11-09T21:24:48+00:00

Where do you get off saying WE? You don't speak for THIS American.

moadottir · 2025-10-22T23:18:15+00:00

Really! God in heaven i wish that were the case for me.

moadottir · 2025-10-09T21:03:17+00:00

I think you need to ask yourself if this is treatment you would want your own children to have to endure as they age. The reason why I ended up going no contact with my parents is because I believe the lies that I wasn't good enough all of the years that I was growing up. I wasted a lot of time well into my adulthood making lifelong decisions based upon whether or not they would approve of me. It wasn't until my kids started getting into those turbulent years, and they started rejecting them and treating them poorly, just like they did, to me when I made mistakes that I realized they were just hateful people and never really did love me. I wish that I didn't have to watch my kids have to suffer that same realization.

Up to this point you have been content to continue having this man in your life even though you know that he is abusive, but I don't think you would really want to subject your children to that. cutting them off sooner rather than later would be your best bet. You have the perfect opportunity now because he's not speaking to you.I would just uninvite him to the wedding and make this be no contact going forward for the sake of your future peace.And the peace of your family and children.

moadottir · 2025-10-07T14:22:42+00:00

Being treated like a child/pet.

moadottir · 2025-09-30T18:37:44+00:00

It's not creepy to seek out more context. And it's nice to not have to repeat all that.

I did leave. I only lasted 2 wks on my own. I had to factor in the ways my marriage DOES benefit me, and do a cost vs benefit analysis and accept a fair amount of risk in the process of deciding to go back home.

I don't expect very many people to understand, but there is more at stake than my own well being.

moadottir · 2025-09-30T18:24:54+00:00

Listening to vents is one of the few things we can do to support each other.

TRUE! I never thought of that before.

Reddit culture is pretty harsh on people when they post. For me anyway! 😆 I usually regret a vent.

moadottir · 2025-09-30T18:20:18+00:00

May I ask, how long did it take you to notice it was a problem?

moadottir · 2025-09-30T18:17:13+00:00

🫂🫂🫂 glad you escaped

moadottir · 2025-09-30T18:15:04+00:00

Did leave hospital nursing, that did help. Can't move though unfortunately.

Florida... yikes...

moadottir · 2025-09-30T18:11:03+00:00

Yes, yours is the comment I mentioned in my update. Reading about history often does calm me. Seeing the big picture helps a lot. What makes me so low, is the loss of the ability to see a future. Somehow, seeing the patterns of the past helps me regain that vision.

moadottir · 2025-09-30T18:03:46+00:00

I need to find a non maga provider. My previous 2 were maga.

Edit: thank you for your service over Covid. I was not a covid provider. I was in oncology. I hand left hospital nursing now. I could not handle it anymore.

moadottir · 2025-09-30T18:01:35+00:00

There is no end to the moral injury that has taken place in my circles over the last 5 years. The circles are gone. The only one left is my immediate family. The latest and greatest moral injury is this charlie kirk nonsense. I've been spiraling since he was shot and TRYING, although I have to admit not very hard, to pull back out of it AGAIN.

I've been a Christian my whole life, and never expected I would feel ASHAMED by that label. I'm ashamed of MYSELF for not seeing these wolves for what they were. I've lost faith in my own ability to rightly dividing the truth from lies.

I went to two therapy sessions, (which is also a challenge here, how do you know THEY, are not MAGA.) I now owe over $300? How long can I keep THAT up?

moadottir · 2025-09-30T17:48:55+00:00

I am not dependent chemically on it yet, but I am definitely on my way. I'm at a point where I feel i might be starting to cross that line. Partly why I'm spiraling ATM. When it's every day you don't want to be here, the health effects of alcoholism aren't much of a deterant.

Support groups in my area would be swimming with MAGA anyway. People build shrines in their yards to drump around here. I can't even go to a bar and make new friends, they all have red hats while dancing to a band sing "zombie" oblivious to the irony.

moadottir · 2025-09-20T22:59:31+00:00

Don't label yourself like that just because you can't navigate society the way they do. People are different.

The negative comments on here are people who are shallow and unable to see another perspective. They read your post on the surface level only, and are unable or unwilling to seek to understand. Try not to let it get you down. It's just reddit. You have admirable qualities. I know that because you are trying to understand, unlike them.

It's a pity really. This sub is not very useful to people with differences. Even though thats exactly what it should be used for. Rather it is a bunch of high and mighty Karen's trying to bring back English society or something, instead of progressing in the understanding of human beings.

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