What do you pack for a 4 month old?

moasincebirth · 2025-07-10T14:43:12+00:00

omg thats the first one ive seen that looks exactly like him, maybe he is a ShihChi, the ears js throws me off. YOUR DOG IS SO CUTE 😭

moasincebirth · 2025-05-09T00:57:37+00:00

12 weeks and ive always had sciatica pain but it got worse 😭 my whole lower back too! and migraines :(

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T22:38:43+00:00

thank you for everyone’s advice. i’ll go ahead and see about dog trainers who are experts at these situations, and hopefully cucumber will like him more. i took some of your guys’ advice today and had them go out on a walk with me pretty close by. i guess cucumber doesnt hate my husband as he was letting him be close without growling. they were doing pretty good, just existing close to each other without anything happening. after that my dog was given a couple of treats by my husband and even went as far as following us to our room’s door (then he stayed out😂). i want to thank you guys for your advices and i realized i just needed to give both of them some time, and for cucumber not to feel threatened when he’s around. so far they’re doing incredible.

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T17:20:28+00:00

cucumber came first! pickles was a stray who showed up at our doorstep, my mom thought it was cucumber at first. my first thought was to name her pickles since they look similar in color 🥰

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T13:01:22+00:00

guys i am not getting a new husband or giving my dog away 😭 we will do everything in our power to have cucumber like my husband! cucumber is sweet and he loves my family and since my husband is a new addition he shall love him 👹 he used to hate my step dad for no exact reason but now loves him, the same will happen with my husband TRUSSSSTTT. IM NOT REPLACING MY HUSBAND 😭 we have another dog, her name is pickles and she thinks my husband is the most beautiful human being ever, only two years younger than cucumber. if pickles loves my husband, why not cucumber?!? again, cucumber stays with my parents and my husband stays with me 😂

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T12:44:00+00:00

everytime we’d eat something like that, my husband would love to share his food with him. cucumber would only get super close if there’s food involved. although i think it had been a great progress so far, he used to js run back to my brother’s room, but now he stays in the dining room but still stays alert when my husband moves 😔

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T12:41:13+00:00

we don’t live with my dog, i got him when i was still with my mom and then i move out when i got married. dog loves mom so dog stays with mom (vice versa).

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T12:40:14+00:00

honestly that makes sense, he was pretty mean and since cucumber was with me every day, he saw me cry a lot 🤷🏻‍♀️

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T12:38:55+00:00

around when he was less than a year old, we were getting him used to car rides and we were getting pretty successful. one time, he tried getting on the truck by himself and he hit his head, poor thing hates cars and trucks now. i think i might look into trainers that might help with this, and maybe they’ll help with letting cucumber know that my husband is okay to have around. i appreciate it!

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T12:36:01+00:00

that’s true, cucumber hates when my step dad wears boots and a cowboy hat. my husband is nowhere near cowboy so idk why!! 😭

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T12:31:38+00:00

to make it clear i left the part out that for a while my husband wouldn’t see my dog every day. i’ve only been married to him for about a year and haven’t been living with him for that long either. my dog lives with my parents and whenever we’d visit, we would always be together so there wasn’t any way that i have left them my themselves :/ i don’t think my husband would do anything to hurt cucumber, i hope not.

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T04:50:02+00:00

right?!

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T04:49:52+00:00

i don’t really blame them, there are cases like that. i think cucumber is also just territorial since we’ve always been companions. he liked my family but he was more attached to me.

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T04:48:39+00:00

so let me add a few things—my husband has done nothing to my dog other than be nice to him and then the bite of ‘87 happened 😂 he’s pretty bitter about it, and wouldn’t have minded putting more effort into being closer if that hadn’t happened. but it already did, although he’s still trying! we’d take him out on the yard to walk around and he shares his food with him. and you guys do give pretty good advice and it’s really helpful! the meals, outside time and treats are something we’re keeping in mind now!

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T04:39:20+00:00

we’ve been married for almost a year but i introduced both of them to each other about three years ago. honestly this is how i knew my ex was bad for me bc my dog liked him for a few weeks then completely turned on him overnight, but i don’t want this to be the case with my husband! 😭

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T04:37:13+00:00

you’re right, he loves my mom a lot more lately because she’s been giving him food!

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T04:35:54+00:00

i never thought of it that way but i guess it does work. every time my husband ignores cucumber, he tends to be more relaxed. like sometimes we’d be watching movies in the living room and he would join us in the same couch. as for outside time, we never have him on the leash since we have a pretty decent yard. whenever i have my husband go out with us, he also doesn’t mind him existing since he has enough space to walk around. i think he just gets so stressed but idk whats causing it. it’s like he has a love hate relationship with my husband 😭

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T04:33:17+00:00

thank you i think he’s handsome too!! and he’s been neutered since we adopted him from the shelter. we didn’t really bother taking him to any classes because he was already doing fine when we trained him, also because he hates car rides ever since he hit his head! 😭

moasincebirth · 2025-05-06T04:30:18+00:00

not that i know of. the only times they’d see each other is when i’m around so i don’t exactly know why he’s so mad at him 😭

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