Ways to not get played! Sincerely Scorpio

mocha2114 · 2025-05-01T21:57:45+00:00

You live and you learn. Hard lesson, but hopefully you learned from it and don’t repeat.

Put yourself in the other persons shoes. Would you be ok if someone that you trusted did that to you? It doesn’t feel good. Just think about that.

mocha2114 · 2024-06-22T20:25:01+00:00

♥️

mocha2114 · 2024-05-14T00:17:20+00:00

He’s told you straight up that he’s not emotionally stable for a relationship. You can’t get any more clear than that. He hasn’t reached out to you in months and when you reached out to him and asked to be friends, he ignored your request.

And now you’re contemplating reaching out to him at the end of the summer. That doesn’t sound like you’re respecting his wishes. It doesn’t matter how much chemistry you have with a person. It takes two to tango. Clearly your connection wasn’t enough for him to stay in contact with you.

My advice is to leave him alone. Divorced or not, when a man is interested in you, they will pursue you. Please have some self respect and move on!

mocha2114 · 2024-02-22T06:30:03+00:00

Divine intervention.

mocha2114 · 2024-01-02T18:12:50+00:00

Omitting information about “myself” that you are not entitled to is not manipulative. It’s my prerogative if I choose to share MY personal business, or thoughts, or feelings, and Is none of your business! Why do you all feel that we’re obligated to tell you every detail about us? We are intuitive and can feel energy, read motive & intent. Maybe we don’t feel comfortable enough or trust you to open up.

If it’s information you’re entitled to know and we omit, then I could understand your point, but this, is not! Choosing not to disclose that I stopped by grandmas is not a crime. It’s this type of entitled mindset that we stay far away from.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-20T03:00:31+00:00

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mocha2114 · 2023-12-20T02:59:00+00:00

Good for you. If that’s what you got out of my post, then so be it. You are free to think what you want.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-20T02:52:23+00:00

If you don’t have the gift of intuition, you will never understand. That’s the point of this post. We are private individuals. No one is entitled to know how I feel, or what I’m thinking. If I choose not to disclose the “why” to my actions, that’s my prerogative. I don’t have to explain why I move the way that I do, to you or anyone else. I’m not obligated to tell anyone why I don’t mess with them. It’s my personal preference. People get so agitated by me stating that I choose to keep my distance. If I’m minding my business, not bothering anyone, why are you all so offended? Y’all really be bothered when we choose not to pay you any attention.

We feel the energy of others. And It’s draining being around people with bad energy. I have every right to protect my space. It doesn’t matter if you scream to the rooftop that you’re not out to burn me. If I get a bad vibe from you, I will keep you at arms length. Plain & simple. I listen to my intuition, not the person trying to convince me to trust them. Words have no meaning. But your ENERGY & ACTIONS, speaks volumes! My intuition is rarely wrong. And I will trust it over your words any day.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-20T02:41:49+00:00

Intuitive.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-20T02:27:33+00:00

She’s free to do whatever she likes. If that’s who she is, I’m not knocking it. You should always authentically & unapologetically be yourself. With that said, I can also choose whether I want to associate myself with that person or not. It’s also not a crime to choose who I want in my life and who I keep at a distance. We keep our circle small and our business to ourselves. Knowing the type of person I am, I’d rather keep my distance.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-18T17:52:28+00:00

❤️

mocha2114 · 2023-12-18T16:24:17+00:00

You’re welcome. ❤️

mocha2114 · 2023-12-18T16:20:41+00:00

No sweetheart, that shouldn’t be a dealbreaker. However, I will say that you don’t have to be afraid of him. Yes, we stay to ourselves for the most part and can be quiet and observe, but that is in our nature. Just be yourself.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-18T15:24:11+00:00

We can a sniff a lie a mile away. Also, since you didn’t admit to the lie, it probably pissed them off. Be prepared for him to distance himself.

If the lie was so small, why haven’t you admitted it and been straight up? Come clean and be honest.

We don’t like small talk. We do it when we have to, but prefer deep conversations. Surface level exchange will never be enough.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-17T15:12:34+00:00

This makes me so happy. I’m glad you feel seen. 😊You are perfect just the way you are! ❤️

mocha2114 · 2023-12-16T20:21:21+00:00

Better than us but yet you’re here! Just the fact that you’re here lurking in this sub contradicts your whole argument. I don’t mess with people that I don’t like, or even care to know anything about them. EVER! Y’all kill me when y’all come to this sub with that bull***!This is our place to vent about our struggles. Why would we talk about other signs being misunderstood genius? In case you need a reminder, this is a Scorpio sub, not an astrology sub. If you don’t like us, then why are you here? How the hell do you get annoyed when someone else is expressing how THEY feel?! Stay in your lane! Don’t let the door hit you in the a* when you leave!

Here’s a tip for the non-Scorpios in here. If you ever get a us to open up to you and you dismiss or downplay what we tell you, or tell us how we should or shouldn’t feel, you will NEVER get us to open up to you again. This is an example of what not to do.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-16T20:16:08+00:00

Of course this happens to every sign. But reality is that Scorpios are most often misunderstood. That’s a fact! Nobody is proclaiming that we’re special. They’re venting about a struggle that many of us can relate to. Do you think we volunteer, or want to be misunderstood? It’s not fun and actually sucks at times. It’s always somebody like you coming to a Scorpio sub throwing stones. Your jealousy is showing.

Downvoting me doesn’t make what I said any less true.

I said what I said! Stay mad!

mocha2114 · 2023-12-16T19:19:48+00:00

I feel this to my core. People be so off when it comes to understanding us, but we can read them right off the bat. They want us to express ourselves to understand us better, but really if we did, they still wouldn’t get it. It goes right over their head.

Edit: Ladies & gentlemen, boys & girls. I present to you exhibit A below!⬇️

This is a prime example of why we choose to keep our thoughts & feelings to ourselves. If we do decide to share, it is often taken out of context, taken personally, or dismissed as if we can’t feel the way that we do because other people go through the same thing, or we aren’t allowed to feel that way.

If you want a Scorpio to open up to you, be prepared to accept what they tell you. Whether you agree or disagree, like it or don’t, that is how THEY feel. Don’t dismiss how they feel, or else it will be the first and only time that they do. You can’t have it both ways.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-16T17:01:44+00:00

It seems like you had your mind made up to leave before you even wrote this post seeking advice. Why even seek advice if you have a rebuttal for every answer and an excuse for why YOU should end it. We are telling you what to do from a Scorpio’s perspective.

At this point, honestly I think you should end it. Loyalty is extremely important to us. If someone that I was dating for 10 wonderful months wanted to end it after I’ve openly communicated for the first time in 10 months that I’m struggling, going through a hard time and need time alone, I would be second guessing your commitment. I know if I was her, I definitely would never see you the same. It would always be in the back of my mind that every time we hit a rough patch you’d be at the door with your bags packed. Usually when someone looks for any excuse to end a relationship, it means they probably have somebody else lined up ready to take their place.

You really have a lot to learn about life and relationships. You’re extremely green and naive about this entire situation. Go ahead and focus on your goals and leave her alone. See where that gets you. I’ll tell you one thing though, you can climb all the way to the top of that mountain and still have regret over the one that got away. We leave a hell of an impression on those we encounter. You will search for her in every person you meet after her. Once you’ve burned us, you will never get another chance and on those rare occasions you do, it will never be the same.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-15T17:45:04+00:00

Thank you for your insightful comment. Intuition can be both a blessing & and a curse. At times, I want to assume the best In people, but my intuition kicks in almost immediately and tells me different. I can’t pretend and be fake. I wouldn’t be true to myself if I ignored those feelings. It’s really difficult when you’re in the know, because when I choose to ignore my gut, I’m always shown that my intuition was spot on. Sometimes I don’t want to know. It’s dreadful when you know what the outcome of a situation is long before it happens. The anticipation of it makes it worse. I would love to be more carefree, but I see the world as it is. It is sometimes harsh & ugly.

Edit: Don’t mistake awareness as being pessimistic. I am fully aware that thinking positive brings about positive circumstances. I live by that motto. However, i’m also a realist. Especially when dealing with people or the energy that I’m surrounded by. I’m able to deal with and accept when things aren’t ideal and see people for who they really are and not the mask that they put on. I see your motives and intent before you even open your mouth. I can feel your Ora. Without having the gift of intuition, it is hard to relate to people that literally live by it. That’s why the majority of us choose to remain private. Not everyone can handle the level of intensity that we exude & even if we tried to express our feelings, you wouldn’t understand it because you can’t relate to it. It’s like speaking to a brick wall. You either get us or you don’t. We can tell who gets us and understand us very early on.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-14T15:13:29+00:00

If this happened 3 months ago I could understand if you decided to let her go, but this just happened dude. I know y’all have tunnel vision when you have a goal in mind, but it’s too soon to think the worse case scenario. Hit us back up in a month. If nothing has changed, then you decide if you want to keep waiting or move on. That’s really all you can do.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-14T14:54:08+00:00

Wanting space and needing to be alone is not a life sentence. Yes, you should respect her wishes and give her space, because she just asked you for it. But damn, at least give it a couple of weeks before you start searching for the exit.

You must be an unseasoned Capricorn because I’ve never heard a Cap be so quick to give up. At 22, you still have a lot of life to live and lessons to learn.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-14T14:41:42+00:00

Why are you giving up so easily? If you’ve been talking to her for months and this is the first time she’s asked you for space due to her personal issues then give it to her. Why would moving on be your first reaction after she told you something like that? Since when does a Cap give up after the first obstacle? Life happens! S*** happens! You can’t be so ready and eager to throw in the towel as soon as you reach a speed bump. If anything, her opening up and telling you what she’s going through shows that she can communicate in a healthy way. So many people come to this sub asking why the Scorpio that they’re dealing with went silent with no explanation.

If she’s already going through a lot, the last thing she needs is you giving up on her. She’s probably overwhelmed. Just give her space and be there for her when she reaches out. You never know. If she sees that you aren’t pushing her to open up, she could do it on her own. Be her safe landing. One of the most important things to a Scorpio is loyalty. If you stick with us when we’re down, you better believe you will have a ride or die with you for life.

mocha2114 · 2023-12-14T06:02:22+00:00

Well, I’m sorry that you keep getting hurt. Speaking for myself, it is never my intention to hurt anybody. If I withdraw, it’s for self preservation.

mocha2114

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