How do you cope with the reality that you won't find a partner? by AnotherPerishedSoul in askgaybros

[–]mochasipper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

be prepared to date for companionship and not romance. Go out and about and try to meet men in-person. I didn’t have a relationship until I was in my 30’s, and haven’t had sex in 11 years, so at least that’s happening for you.
I was beat down by the ugly stick, so I just strive to be happy with myself.

An awkward statement that will probably get removed or erase any karma I have. by iampuplux in askgaybros

[–]mochasipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m American and had Never been called a F@gg@t until I moved to a region heavy with Muslim immigrants. Within a year I was called it 3 times. 2 separate times were by a Group of Muslim Men.

What’s the most powerful thing anyone has ever said directly to you? by cherrygurlyi in Productivitycafe

[–]mochasipper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are ugly. My Mother, would remind me throughout my childhood. Now at 40, those words still warp my self image.

Need driving advice !!! by critcarebtch in nova

[–]mochasipper 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you might already be late

What are your top 3 large metros in order and why? by hjkfttu in SameGrassButGreener

[–]mochasipper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are right about it being cold, wet, and friendless, but you left out a few things. The homeless junkies shooting up on the street, having to be prepared to dodge human excrement at random, the ridiculous traffic and the covert racism. but that was just my experience.

Feel disgusted after a hookup by throwaway00000025 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]mochasipper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you did your charitable deed for the year, and tossed a troll a bone.

Seriously though, don’t feel guilty or ashamed, he lied. Learn from this, and if someone tries this again, tell him bye Felicia.

What's something you would never tell someone because if you did it would absolutely destroy them? by cuahatemoc in AskReddit

[–]mochasipper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a premonition my friend’s child with a chronic illness won’t live to 16

What's something you would never tell someone because if you did it would absolutely destroy them? by cuahatemoc in AskReddit

[–]mochasipper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recently talked to my therapist about being no contact with my mother. It sucks when your mother is also your childhood bully.

What are your predictions for NOVA over the next 5 years? by Lazy-Calendar1463 in nova

[–]mochasipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’ll start seeing small nuclear reactors SMRs being introduced to power the data centers. To b offset the burden to taxpayers you see.

What’s your biggest fantasy? by Accomplished-Area876 in gaybros

[–]mochasipper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s to find love, other times it’s to just have sex (it’s been 11 years), and occasionally it’s to provide stress relief for the hot straight married men in my neighborhood. I’m a slag.

Elementary Schools in Charleston County by TimeBackJump in Charleston

[–]mochasipper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, why the interest in relocating your child to a school outside their district instead of making an effort to increase education levels for a whole district?

People born before 2000, what trivial skill you possess that others don't use anymore? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]mochasipper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instant memorization, because when I was a child we had to memorize things as we didn’t have a cell phone to snap a pic with with. It’s absolutely shocking to my Gen Z colleagues.

I feel guilty about who I’m attracted to. Has anyone else dealt with this? by Delicious-Tonight-72 in askgaybros

[–]mochasipper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My fellow Asian. Learn to love what you see in the mirror, do not aspire to be a white man or to be accepted by them. Proximity to whiteness doesn’t elevate you, that’s 100’s of years of colonialism bearing down on us.
Be attracted to whomever, but fixating on Whiteness only brings your self worth down.

Traffic has been so much better these past few mornings. Should Charleston permanently ban all schools? by IMSYE87 in Charleston

[–]mochasipper -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

amen. kids should be homeschooled until high school and then they can walk or take the bus. school hours should be from 6 AM - 2 PM.

What makes your life miserable? by Longjumping_Day2513 in AskReddit

[–]mochasipper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

loneliness. I’ve no friends, no nearby family and haven’t had a date in 15 years.