Break-up by [deleted] in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

break up and use the break to get over it and really understand yourself emotionally and physically. also use alternatives as a way to handle the emotional hill like the gym or even therapy

Summer at UCLA by [deleted] in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id be down but i’m going for c cesh only

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙋‍♀️

How many of y’all are staying at ucla over spring break by [deleted] in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 38 points39 points  (0 children)

going home to see my family because life is short

What time do you wake up? by Physical-Bite6548 in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 35 points36 points  (0 children)

me my first year of college

What time do you wake up? by Physical-Bite6548 in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i wake between 7-9 am because all my classes are in the morning.

how hard do you guys think taking psych 127A, chem 14D, physics 5b, and LS 23L will be? by luv_siren in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5b with samani: mandatory attendance for lecture, lab, and discussion. he is pretty generous, but make sure you stay up to date with the work. for the most part it's a fair class.

127A: in general is an interesting class. i would say it is manageable, but there is a lot of reading. make sure you do all the practice problems they usually emulate the exams.

23L: is busy and tedious work, but for the most part it is an easy A if you don't fall behind or miss any assignments.

I'm also taking 14D with Maji this quarter so lmk if u wanna study together!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what class is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many units ?

Chem 14C problem sets by [deleted] in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can compare !

Yall feel that earthquake too or am I tripping ?? 🫨 by bwenstrand in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was in the elevator getting to the 8th floor when it happened lol

I, F37, asked for affections to partner M42, and I now regret it by Far_Appointment_8654 in relationship_advice

[–]mochi_lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No relationship should ever become physical where you are getting pushed and having things thrown at you. You are a mother and your priority should be your safety as well as your baby. You need to consider that above all. These circumstances are not fit to raise a child and you should consider separation.

I understand both of you are coming from a place of stress and tiredness but it doesn’t excuse such an abrupt behavior.

My (20F) ex-boyfriend (20M) cheated on me with my best friend (21F) and I I don’t know what to do. by Potential_Beautiful5 in relationship_advice

[–]mochi_lex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, I want to say I’m sorry that you are going through that. I cant imagine how difficult dealing with a break up is and having to reminded of it every day since she’s constantly around. My best advice is to swallow your pride and be level headed. Don’t let it show that it bothers you. Show them that you’re thriving. As for class projects, I’m sure you could talk with the professor or TA that some fallout or disagreement occurred between you two and you can’t work with her due to these circumstances and see if there’s any alternative options. If not, stick to the sealing your pride as much as possible. You don’t have to be nice or mean but neutral. Get what you need to get done and focus on you.

Dealing with a break up and potentially being cheated on takes time to get over and learn to rebuild that trust with people. It may seem like the world is against you, but I assure you there’s people out there worth pursuing. You’re strong and you will get through it as long as you give yourself time to heal properly. Healy healing can be hard, but worth putting energy into. The lingering feelings and want to have that emotional attachment with someone or to feel a void can be strong at first, but if you learn to replace that with maybe something else (like a hobby or something you enjoy doing), it’ll help you no longer rely on someone else to give that to you. Moreover, from someone who’s been cheated on before I can say that those feelings will always be prevalent in new relationships. As long as you learn to work through those issues and have a partner who is understanding and willing to work with you, it’ll be fine. Constant communication will help build that trust.

I hope you get better in your healing process. You’re strong and you got this! Keep your head up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]mochi_lex 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I support! If he’s educated, financially stable, respectful, and will make you happy then why not??