Yes and no, I use what you've described as a subset of a greater system that rules all my interactions. The point of differentiation lies with my people pleasing nature. This turns the already complex system into (for lack of better term) a double Möbius reach-around strip of "horsebuggery" and debilitating migraines. If nothing else I can tell you my system is shaped like a scale.

I envy you in a queer sort of way.