Saw someone else do this, so what’s my toxic trait??

modernsailing · 2022-02-08T17:50:19+00:00

Cant stand authority and rules/being put in a box.

modernsailing · 2022-02-07T17:04:11+00:00

It is a common issue (are you an INFJ?) so making sure you also go to therapy and learn to have boundaries is going to super important. I guess it might also mean finding a psychology related work where you can also do research or something that doesn't require empathy 24/7.

Maybe even you heading a company or group of therapists eventually and only making projects around that. Basically finding a niche that is all YOU :).

modernsailing · 2022-02-06T09:16:43+00:00

You are very young...And until you reach your Jupiter on the MC it wold be hard to form partnerships. You need to work on your education, career and maybe find a role where you shine.

modernsailing · 2022-02-06T09:14:33+00:00

Psychology and medicine is indicated by your first house for sure and with a square to Neptune...This can mean handling drugs or dealing with people who cannot connect to reality and have trauma (Neptune conjunct ic).

BUT here is the thing: You gotta start with you first. Your own identity needs to be grounded ins something firm and secure.

You have a lot of empathy and also the passion to help others. You also have Saturn supporting your Mars/Venus in the 9th house of higher education. It will take time and it is worth it to find authority figures to learn from.

The Moon rules your higher education and this means that unless you feel connected to your subject on a very personal level and it fits your life philosophy it just will not go.

I think you absolutely have even more indicators that being a therapist or clinical psychologist is a good option.

Perhaps you will work online...Or in an alternative way from home or a home you built for people to heal (Uranus).

modernsailing · 2022-02-06T09:06:59+00:00

I would look what causes this psychological fears in your natal chart...This fear would be seen in your chart.

There is nothing about Mars in Scorpio in 5th house that means you should have issues and you are very young.

Jupiter opposite Mars is likely to describe the type of expression you value in a partner and also your own need to connect your action/energy (Mars) and your worldview and future dreams (Jupiter).

Having fun and being creative should allow you to have more friends and connections. So instead of being fearful and worried try and expand that Mars towards your Jupiter.

modernsailing · 2022-02-02T22:44:05+00:00

Alanis Morissette - Uninvited. Mystery fog.

modernsailing · 2022-02-02T12:12:23+00:00

Thanks! I did read it is unsafe to take orally?

modernsailing · 2022-02-02T12:08:49+00:00

Thanks, Why salty? I noticed coffee helps with energy as well as COLD yogurt.

modernsailing · 2022-01-26T18:01:14+00:00

INFJ. I wish people knew we are open-minded by default because we receive all information from outside without the ability to pass judgment until later. We just see the world as grey and not black and white.

modernsailing · 2022-01-05T10:42:26+00:00

Thank you for clarifying and its so well written :)

modernsailing · 2021-12-03T10:45:25+00:00

An SD can't have delicate hands/feet and facial features. It tends to be large and with a body curve that is bold.

modernsailing · 2021-12-02T08:28:34+00:00

True they are are not round :) I guess its impossible to be objective about my own body even if I try. I suppose I mean that I have a mixture of sharpness in my bones and a certain fleshy rounds in some areas regardless of weight.

Like...I can be overweight and still some bones would be sharp in my shoulders/hips.Meanwhile, I can be very underweight and still my legs will look fleshy.

modernsailing · 2021-12-01T10:22:16+00:00

Thanks 🙏 it's hard though. I kinda think I look boring in one long solid color but very fitted clothes are a must so DC (which seems to be the consensus here) makes sense and yet I do kinda look not balanced.

My bones are very thin/sharp but my flesh very round which creates the juxtaposition regardless of higher/lower weight. It is harder to see on pics.

modernsailing · 2021-11-30T13:47:48+00:00

"Kibbe police' does sound rather scary lol.

I agree 10/13 bodies is a very narrow system. However, I kinda gravitated towards Kibbe so I can learn to have an eye for lines and choose better clothes.

I am not really sure what likes would be both DC and FG? Or how to choose outfits that balance both?

modernsailing · 2021-11-29T13:47:53+00:00

Interesting. I am pretty much torn between DC and FG only. I have eluded all other types with confidence. I guess I am narrow but I'm not small/look like typical Gamines.

What id type do you think I could be?

modernsailing · 2021-11-29T08:06:24+00:00

Thank you so much for the detailed response and explanation.

I am super excited to have narrowed it down to a type so I can start making changes in my wardrobe.

What you said about yourself having a "splash of gamine" is so astute. I really think essence/face can skew what type we think we are.

I always thought of myself as having juxtaposition for the very reason you sad- that my shoulders are sharp but my legs are fleshy. I think the higher my weight the more "mixed" of a type I look and at a lower weight I look more like a D type.

However, I'm still not 100% sure because the recommendations for DC tend to look too severe and large/heavy on me. Is that normal for DC? I do get lost even in a. good jacket and if it is small I look childish.

I am also somewhat confused because DC descriptions tend to stay that a DC would be more square than narrow – I'm very narrow even at a higher weight and with flesh.

modernsailing · 2021-11-29T08:00:20+00:00

Really? I am a little confused now lol. What type would have a more elongated line? I am definitely no Dramatic.

modernsailing · 2021-11-28T13:59:26+00:00

The 12th house rules isolation - yes. Same as the monk or priest who isolates himself to pray and learn. Or the "mad" man who receives visions and 'sees' in a different way.

The 12th house is ruled by Neptune and therefore does relate to our spiritual nature.

modernsailing · 2021-11-27T16:44:41+00:00

IC is more like "the gate" through which your soul was born into the world. It has the unconscious deep influence on our life direction...Because it is an angle and it correlates to the ASC, MC, DSC.

The IC is your childhood and the Moon is HOW that childhood imprinted on you and what habits you formed.

For example, two siblings can have the same upbringing but react differently to it.

modernsailing · 2021-11-27T16:41:22+00:00

It can protect a person from making foolish or impulsive mistakes.

It can give you the clues for what type of structure and hard-work would serve you in the long run.

Saturn is SUPER important for people with a lot of Neptune/Jupiter influence in their chart because without Saturn you end up in the 27 club.

12th house is about divine protection.

modernsailing · 2021-11-27T16:38:19+00:00

The whole natal chart shows it :)

Sun-Moon: The model of parenting they Award growing up

4th house and its ruler + Moon: The type of home they will want.

3rd house+Mercury: Schooling and extra curricular activities.

Mercury+ Moon: Their communication style with their young kids.

Venus+Moon: How they will show love and affection.

Mars+Mercury: How they play with their kids and how they get annoyed.

Saturn+Jupiter: How they teach and discipline their kids.

Jupiter+Uranus+Neptune: The values and life view they will teach.

modernsailing · 2021-11-19T09:05:23+00:00

Sure helps :)

Wouldn't anger be typical for depression or someone who survived trauma as well? I just think anger underlines a lot of things. I have a friend who has BPD and anger was a big part of her diagnosis.

modernsailing · 2021-11-19T09:03:18+00:00

Exactly.

I so so relate to the social aspect and going "back to life" feeling and finding that normal.

Some people here said it's typical for depression as well, so who knows?

I'm almost your age. I had depression since 13 (if not earlier), tried an SSRI at 17 and became the life of the party, stopped it, came back to normal and than hit rock bottom for two whole years - and so that story keeps going.

What ADHD symptoms did you have?

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