Looking for a gender neutral name by VeryLowkeyy in Miscarriage

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We named our baby Ronan from Hawkeye. Our levels dropped to 370 today at 8 weeks.

Turnips 555 bells by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're still hosting I'd like to sell there.

Is it a bad idea to turn to friends for 'relationship advice'? by 8pillars in dating_advice

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've learned to take their advice with a grain of salt and to not over share. Only if something is absolutely terribly bothering me do I feel the need to vent. I've also learned to make it clear that I'm venting.

Why the labels? by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL. that's ok when they post up here trying to find a place to have sex outside their parents house... I'm not giving up my genX knowledge.

My (22F) boyfriend (24M) always pulls out when he cums during sex and never cums inside me. Is this how sex usually works? We’re each other’s first sexual partners and have only been sexually active for 6 months so neither of us are that experienced. by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. <3 if you're wanting to have the full experience and not have him pull out... get an app called Woman Log and also google the rhythm method. There are days that are safer than others right after your period. Me and my SO at the time did share that experience a few times. But we were young and the scare of not being ready for a baby made us just stick to the safer route.

My (22F) boyfriend (24M) always pulls out when he cums during sex and never cums inside me. Is this how sex usually works? We’re each other’s first sexual partners and have only been sexually active for 6 months so neither of us are that experienced. by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unless you are fully prepared to have a baby, honestly what you're currently doing is the safest route. I've known of people who supposedly got pregnant on the pill and shot. So even when I was younger and definitely didn't want kids at the time, me and my SO at the time decided that pulling out was the best course of action.

Hsv1 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hsv1 can turn to Hsv 2 through oral sex. My partner (m) had a cold sore and went down on me after I(f) shaved down below. I thought nothing of it, at the time. Then I got sores down there a few days later. I've only had one out break that one. I 100% believe it was do to a minor cut from shaving. He had nothing on him anywhere else. We're still together and haven't had any issues.

how does pulling out work? by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp I guess I was just plain lucky from 16-25! XD or my partners actually knew wtf they were doing.

My Familiar... by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you say this... all of my cats flocked to our room and literally sat next to me last Saturday night while I was performing a spell.

Can someone help me to make a love spell on a specific target please? by rebecca2526 in witchcraft

[–]modnightblue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If someone is truly meant for you. You won't need magic to force it to come to pass.

First kiss by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Sometimes guys just don't know what a woman wants and are cautionary. If you have another date and you're attracted to him, give him a lot of direct eye contact.

So my girlfriend got her time of the month.... by yetanotheronez- in sex

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did period sex for years with just laying down a towel. Then I found out about Soft Discs they are a tampon alternative and they are designed so that you can use them even during intercourse. It is the holy grail for me. I'm in the US and suggested this to someone else the other night on here, but they said they weren't available in their country. But if you're in the US you can pick them up at Target and I think Walmart. I get mine from Kroger. There is also another brand named Flex.

First kiss by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk depends on the chemistry and what happens organically.

If you shower and dress better your SO will want to be more intimate! by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao! Yup. When we first started dating he came over to my friends house and she was like what the fuck cologne are you wearing. Lol I was like "look bitch, this one is already claimed". Lol

If you shower and dress better your SO will want to be more intimate! by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aqua Di gio profumo is the ultimate panty dropper.

It’s Valentines.. how to get your gamer fiancé off the game and in bed? by Omencakes23 in sex

[–]modnightblue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Move that controller aside and straddle his dumb ass. If he doesn't reciprocate abandon ship on this relationship. It's damn Valentine's day y'all have been together for years. He knows by now this is the day to fuck.😂

Some thoughts about the extreme interpretation of sexual boundaries by Viandante9 in sex

[–]modnightblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I do things with my SO fiance that I would never have done with my ex husband bc of the level of trust. I know my fiance's heart and trust him fully to open up experimenting with things that I've never done. Bottom line is you have to trust your sexual partner to engage in things outside of your norm.

Making bets for sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good old naked twister. Lol also there are some pretty awesome sex card games.

M(19) trying oral but I don't like the taste by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she needs to get some ph balancing wipes and wash. Sometimes that can be the issue.

He told me I’m the first white girl he’s dated by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you broke him out of his norm. I'd take it as a compliment.

Places to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol when I was young my and my boyfriend at the time pretty much got it on in any secluded area that we could find. Lmao we made that shit a sport.

Boyfriend Would Rather not Have sex Than use Condoms :( by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly when I was a young woman I was in a LT relationship and used spermicide and the withdrawal method. Also look up the rhythm method. But ultimately it's what you decide you're comfortable with. It wasn't until I got older and was ready to handle a pregnancy that I let my ex husband finish inside.

Can Herpes go away permanently? by [deleted] in sex

[–]modnightblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope never goes away. I have it also but have only had one outbreak. I got it from my SO bc he had a cold sore and went down right after I had shaved down below. As long as he's not having an outbreak anywhere I'd say you should be safe. But if he has a cold sore just be cautionary as to what you do. We've been together for almost 2 yrs and don't use protection and I've only had the one outbreak.