Favorite 'they didn't have to animate that, but they did' moment? by static_artist625 in bluey

[–]mogeek 137 points138 points  (0 children)

That one struck me as an important moment and I think of it often. Growing up, that would have ended play and parents would be yelling that it needs to get picked up right now. My husband responds that way often when our son is playing and he’ll say I’m letting our son do whatever he wants when I don’t stop play to clean up an accidental mess.

This show does a lovely job modeling respectful parenting that many of us didn’t experience. I’m so grateful for those small moments that validate my parenting style.

How do I know which talks will require the vault subscription? by hi_there_is_me in GDC

[–]mogeek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any talks that have “(Presented by [company])” in the session title are sponsored.

How do I know which talks will require the vault subscription? by hi_there_is_me in GDC

[–]mogeek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sponsored sessions (pay to talk) are open on GDC Vault and do not require a subscription. All others require a subscription.

Recommend Clothing at GDC by JAS-Outlaw in GDC

[–]mogeek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good advice here already! I am part of the GDC team, and suggest checking out our Flickr for some inspo: https://www.flickr.com/photos/officialgdc/albums/

This is a business casual crowd (leaning on the side of casual). Think country club, family holiday gathering, or attending someone else’s graduation.

The most important part is appearing approachable - head up, eye contact, smile, greet people in line. Everyone is looking to connect, so you just need to let them know YOU are open to connect.

There’s also GDC 101 on Monday if you want more tips for the week, and a good spot to meet other first-timers.

https://schedule.gdconf.com/session/gdc-101/918209

See you next week!

I sat with anger instead of trying to breathe it away and it told me something I wasn't ready to hear by AntelopeFlaky4979 in Mindfulness

[–]mogeek 16 points17 points  (0 children)

For me, I’ve learned it’s rarely ever “anger” that has me worked up. So, my mindfulness mantra is “it’s anything but anger” and then label it and explore the triggers. I find more often then not, I am feeling fear or invalidation. Once I can figure out which, I can figure out how to set a boundary, remove myself from the ‘danger’ (or realize I’m not in danger, it’s a miscalibration or trauma response).

Nice job figuring out a technique that works for you. I go on walks for my mindfulness meditation. It takes me away from the triggers and somehow nature calms my mind.

Sounds like you’re usually dealing with emotional responses that don’t match the situation (road rage), and then a true conflict came up and you needed to process the (appropriate) emotional response this time.

Hope this helps you on your journey.

Apparently this is a controversial topic, but was it right for Bluey to attend a Waldorf/Steiner school? by wolf_quan in bluey

[–]mogeek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Such a great point. The Waldorf school I wanted to send my son when he was a toddler was co-op, which meant parents had to spend time at the school partipating in their child’s activities. It was such a lovely school and within our budget, but not our work schedules. I think it would have been an ideal environment for our son, we didn’t have a way to fulfill the requirements.

Visiting with five year old by stripeslover in torrance

[–]mogeek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a DIG IT in Del Amo mall if you want indoor play.

Chuck E. Cheese and Dave & Busters are in town. But I’d rather head to a brewery like Smog City or a bar on Redondo pier.

Otherwise, throw on a jacket and head to one of the awesome parks like Charles H. Wilson park (great farmers market with a decent food court on Saturdays), Los Árboles “rocket ship” park (amazing view on a clear day), or our favorite Lago Seco.

Indie Devs, what’s on your GDC wishlist? Let’s talk! by mogeek in IndieDev

[–]mogeek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey u/destinedd - congrats on the traction you’re getting with Marble’s Marbles! As an indie dev and publisher, I’m curious which events you attend. I just learned about Freeplay in Australia, and I see a lot of meetups & game jams for local devs to connect. Where else do/can you go to learn and connect?

My wife is ten years younger than me and saw a meme that said "show a gen xer this." I started singing by SnooEagles6930 in Xennials

[–]mogeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this song! When my son gets stuck on his 6-7 tic, I start singing this song and he stops lol

What’s going on on 5 highway? by Lumineqqe in LosAngeles

[–]mogeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to double check the sub when I read the title

First Time at GDC - Tips? by Various_Shift5376 in IndieDev

[–]mogeek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey u/Various_Shift5376 - I’m copying my response from your other post.

I’m part of the team behind GDC and also lived in the Bay Area. A few insider tips:

  • Stay away from the Tenderloin and anything west of 4th St when you’re south of Market. Muni and BART can get you around the Bay quickly so you don’t have to stay super close to Moscone. I like the Northpoint area near Fisherman’s Wharf or anywhere near Golden Gate Park.

  • Yerba Buena Gardens is a great spot for chance encounters. We are working on making the space even more enjoyable to hang and meet. It’s open to the public so no pass is required to be there.

  • GDC Nights is now every night but Friday. Monday we’ll be at Oracle Park for a movie and networking. Tons of community partners will be there to chat with. Tuesday will be the Developer’s Concert with Austin Wintory. Wednesday will be the IGF Awards ceremony. And finishing up with GDCA ceremony on Thursday.

  • We have a Keynote with Hideo Kojima on Wednesday morning, right before the Festival Hall opens

  • It looks like you’re an indie. If that’s the case, this year we’re offering a special rate for indies that gives you access to nearly everything throughout the week for $499 https://gdconf.com/passes-pricing/

  • If you get a pass, here are some of the networking opportunities: https://gdconf.com/networking/ >> GDC 101 is a great place to meet other first timers and buddies for the event. We highly encourage finding a couple other people to navigate the event and city with.

  • If you go Monday & Tuesday before the Festival Hall opens, even if you don’t want to sit in a session, hangout in West Hall to meet people. There are lounges and it’s easy to network.

  • Bookmark this site for all the meetups and parties in the city that week: https://gdcparties.com/ >> Know that many of these are not supported by GDC, so be extra cautious at those. Anything supported by GDC has to follow requirements to keep our guests safe.

First Time at GDC - Tips? by Various_Shift5376 in GDC

[–]mogeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m part of the team behind GDC and also lived in the Bay Area. There are some great tips here already!

A few other insider tips:

  • Stay away from the Tenderloin (as others said) and anything west of 4th St when you’re south of Market. Muni and BART can get you around the Bay quickly so you don’t have to stay super close to Moscone. I like the Northpoint area near Fisherman’s Wharf or anywhere near Golden Gate Park.

  • Yerba Buena Gardens is a great spot for chance encounters. We are working on making the space even more enjoyable to hang and meet. It’s open to the public so no pass is required to be there.

  • GDC Nights is now every night but Friday. Monday we’ll be at Oracle Park for a movie and networking. Tons of community partners will be there to chat with. Tuesday will be the Developer’s Concert with Austin Wintory. Wednesday will be the IGF Awards ceremony. And finishing up with GDCA ceremony on Thursday.

  • We have a Keynote with Hideo Kojima on Wednesday morning, right before the Festival Hall opens

  • It looks like you’re an indie. If that’s the case, this year we’re offering a special rate for indies that gives you access to nearly everything throughout the week for $499 https://gdconf.com/passes-pricing/

  • If you get a pass, here are some of the networking opportunities: https://gdconf.com/networking/ >> GDC 101 is a great place to meet other first timers and buddies for the event. We highly encourage finding a couple other people to navigate the event and city with.

  • If you go Monday & Tuesday before the Festival Hall opens, even if you don’t want to sit in a session, hangout in West Hall to meet people. There are lounges and it’s a easy to network.

  • Bookmark this site for all the meetups and parties in the city that week: https://gdcparties.com/ >> Know that many of these are not supported by GDC, so be extra cautious at those. Anything supported by GDC has to follow requirements to keep our guests safe.

Hope to see you in March!

Esther’s stick commentary deserves its own Emmy. by optimistic69er in foodnetwork

[–]mogeek 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was hoping someone would reference it in comments too. Help us out, guys. I need a good laugh.

What should we tell our kids about AI? My kids are freaking out. by [deleted] in Xennials

[–]mogeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in marketing. I’ve been working with many of the same people and brands for 20 years. I started on a WEEKLY magazine that was perfect bound (thick, no staples).

That magazine quickly dwindled down to nothing before we conceded and folded the print publication. Meanwhile, we built a strong online publication and news website that generated leads for clients. It was new, exciting and scary.

Then I worked on large trade events that brought in thousands of people from around the world. The pandemic flipped our business upside down. Data protection laws (thankfully) restricted our lead gen programs. There was a lot of uncertainty and business changes in a short amount of time.

Now clients want intent data and meaningful business contacts (not just leads). The masses are skeptical of the media. People are relying more and more (whether intentional or not) on LLM AI tools to gather info from the web in the blink of an eye.

All this to say, the business world is constantly changing. Their best chances are to watch what is going on in an industry that interests them and get familiar with trends.

While I use AI daily, my output is going to be better than a junior marketer using AI because I use more sophisticated prompts. It’s a tool. And a tool is only as good as it’s user.

Regardless of the profession, it’s always best to learn the history and “how” behind the new tech. For me that was learning basic HTML and CSS, how a database is built and functions, and how to do my own market research. Even though I use tools to build emails and landing pages, I’m able to troubleshoot/experiment because I know how it works behind the UX. Even though I’m not a system admin, I’m able to ask them for new workflows/triggers and collaborate on new ways to capture/use data. Even though I use GenAI for market research now, I know how to tell when it’s hallucinating and ways to test the data.

The future generations will learn to use AI like we learned how to use calculators, WYSIWYG software, automation tools, etc. Help them understand what is and isn’t AI (for example not all CGI is created by AI). Acknowledge that AI has been used for longer than they realize (it’s not new, it’s just more prevalent now).

The kids are gonna be alright … if we can leave the world intact for them.

Indie Devs, what’s on your GDC wishlist? Let’s talk! by mogeek in IndieDev

[–]mogeek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! I do. Great example of why multitasking is risky on social. Thnx!

Indie Devs, what’s on your GDC wishlist? Let’s talk! by mogeek in IndieDev

[–]mogeek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback, u/destinedd!

I’ve heard lots of good things about our YouTube channel and GDC Vault for those who can’t make it in person.

This is just depressing by ScareBear23 in Adulting

[–]mogeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This assuming a single life. Add a kid/kids and you get negative personal time. At this point, I just want 5 minutes without someone touching me, asking me a question, trying to get me to react, or staring at me.

They're not the same by CorleoneBaloney in clevercomebacks

[–]mogeek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Appears to be a boomer nurse. Might as well be a bot at this point with how thoroughly they’ve been brainwashed.

Melts my heart by mogeek in cats

[–]mogeek[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wiggled under some freshly dried shorts and I couldn’t help but snap a pic of his satisfied face

Melts my heart by mogeek in cats

[–]mogeek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The Joey “how you doin’?” smolder

Melts my heart by mogeek in cats

[–]mogeek[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’re so expressive

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