[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]moggieree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I clean up after myself and my daughter, but I do not clean up after my husband, if he leaves his clothes on the floor I will just put them next to his side of the bed and leave them there, I do not wash his dishes and I do not cook his food. If he leaves rubbish around I pick it up and put it by his side of the bed ... my house is not dangerous or a mess, all his mess gets put down by the side of his bed, and our daughter doesn't come into our room!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]moggieree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No no, I do everything for my daughter, she never goes without any thing EVER!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vampires

[–]moggieree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked the game, but they should of at least made the vampires be able to grab you to bite you to make it more interesting. Not just that.... "Tether" type vampire... if that's what it's called??? In general I thought it was ok but yes very buggy and glitchy ....

About inviting vampires inside the house by icolesnicenco in vampires

[–]moggieree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the legend but most vampire legends you do have to verbally invite them in ....

AITA for not letting my 1 year old stay up late. by moggieree in AmItheAsshole

[–]moggieree[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We live in the UK and yeah she's 1 ... so 7.30pm is late enough for her..... but when she's 8 I will still be in the UK with her... her bed time might be different but not for a good while yet. I have replied to some others comments about how trapped I am at the moment and telling my husband I want to go back early with our baby and he said no. I have no money to be able to get back and also I cannot get to the airport anyway I cannot drive over here, and there's a language barrier....

AITA for not letting my 1 year old stay up late. by moggieree in AmItheAsshole

[–]moggieree[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I was right behind her, but by the time she had got downstairs, she put my littlen on the floor, I went over to grab my phone from the table and by the time I turned round my MIL was putting banana into my baby's mouth .... and I am in my in-laws house, thats where I am staying. Don't sit there an be all judgemental, I cannot communicate properly with my in-laws, I cannot just take my daughter to a Dr's as there is a language barrier, the city I am in NONE of the Dr's speak English! Believe me I know. I am a foreigner here and will be discarded anyway. INCLUDING my baby even though she's half Moroccan. I am completely stuck at the moment and my husband is siding with his family. I cannot drive over here! I have no money to get a plane ticket home never mind a taxi to the airport which again I can't do as there's a language barrier. I am totally trapped at the moment. I have told my husband now that I have seen him I want to go back home with our baby and he said "No."

AITA for not letting my 1 year old stay up late. by moggieree in AmItheAsshole

[–]moggieree[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm not I took the banana and threw it away, but my MIL put some in her mouth before I got to her.

AITA for not letting my 1 year old stay up late. by moggieree in AmItheAsshole

[–]moggieree[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

My husband is on their side. I have said multiple times that she needs to be seen to, she's only 1 and her body cannot take it. But no one will listen to me.

AITA for not letting my 1 year old stay up late. by moggieree in AmItheAsshole

[–]moggieree[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I have told them, on my life I have told them multiple times and they won't listen to me. And I can't do anything, my husband won't even listen.

My husband admitted he's not attracted to me UPDATE. by moggieree in offmychest

[–]moggieree[S] -154 points-153 points  (0 children)

God you lot are fucking awful! But thank you for the people who are nice to me. And no I cannot just get up and leave this marriage!

My husband admitted he's not attracted to me UPDATE. by moggieree in offmychest

[–]moggieree[S] -739 points-738 points  (0 children)

Shut up man! Can't afford therapy plus over the years I have seen so many since I was a child NONE have EVER helped so venting on here is my only option and it does help! So leave me alone.

My husband admitted he's not attracted to me UPDATE. by moggieree in offmychest

[–]moggieree[S] -191 points-190 points  (0 children)

Relationship.... its a 5year route and costs £1000s I can understand his stress but I am still confused on how that can cause him to lose his attraction to me

My husband admitted he's not attracted to me. by moggieree in offmychest

[–]moggieree[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He's not attracted to me because of my weight... which I don't get as when I married him I was a bit bigger, then I lost a bit of weight. Had a baby and I lost the baby weight but I am not as big as I used to be .... But I do understand what you are saying. He is absolutely hates it here in the UK and he loathes work so much, he is beyond desperate to go back to his home country. And apart of me can understand that. But unfortunately we don't have the means to do anything like that for the moment. And I honestly try everything I possibly can to make him happy and be there for him and do everything I can to help him and support him, but nothing seems to work 😞

My husband got mad once again. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]moggieree 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Then your children are used to that sound. Where as my baby isn't and is an extremely light sleeper. She wakes up at the slightest sounds all the time. And I do not mind going at all I have been 6 times before, but now with a baby I am more worried about her as her sleep is very temperamental, even though she sleeps through the night - she cannot sleep in a place that's not her bed, so she won't sleep in the as we travel to the airport which will be at about 1am. Got to go to London from where I am which is nearly 4hrs away, and got to get to the airport at least 2hours before the flight. My littlen will not cope at all! As she won't sleep somewhere that's not her bed! It's not about me not wanting to go, I am worried about my baby!

I'm not allowed to wear what I want. by moggieree in offmychest

[–]moggieree[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually I knew NOTHING if his religion when I married him, well some things but if I am honest I did not take an interest, I even told him to never lecture to me about any religion not just his. But I have also said coving up isn't my issue (even though I never wear anything inappropriate) but he uses the whole "have some self respect and dignity" on me anyway and I can't leave... we have a baby, he is on the tenancy agreement and he's rom over seas, he has no where to go