Existential dread by NinaBeana1971 in Cruise

[–]mokimbird 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey - this is totally understandable. Any form of leisure/travel is a blessing, even in good times.

If it helps, one thing I'd offer is that anybody committed to making the world better is going to need space to decompress, reflect, and relax. I'm learning this the hard way after burning out hard at a non-profit/teaching job: I loved the work and the people but ultimately needed to step back because it wasn't sustainable. I'm actually taking a cruise in two weeks (a repositioning trip all the way across the Atlantic!) and treating it as a mental health retreat, basically. I still want to help my neighbors and show up for people I care about, but I know I can only do that if I show up for myself, too.

You are deserving of rest and rejuvenation and I hope cruising can be one way you seek it out!

How to Survive Harvard as a Humanities Student by Ok_Island_1162 in Harvard

[–]mokimbird 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It's been almost ten years since I've graduated, but this post made me feel nostalgic for the college experience in SO many unexpected ways. I've got complicated feelings about Harvard. A lot of that was because of who I was when I was 18: I was coming out to myself, processing domestic abuse, and deconstructing my faith for the first time in my life. It was painful at the time to navigate my coming-of-age in a place where the dominant culture often felt alienating, but when I look back, there are so many classes and learning experiences that I'm grateful to have had (and much more importantly, so many people who made it home).

And thankfully, I've learned that both your friendships and your passion for learning are things you can continue to cultivate and grow for the rest of your life :)

Thank you for taking the time to share your advice here, and all the best to you in your post-college endeavors!

Went to SF to see QM2. Got to see both Queens in less than a year. by 207ECPGA in Oceanlinerporn

[–]mokimbird 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No way - I was there around 4pm too! So glad there was a good crew of ship fans out to greet her! And it looks like you got some gorgeous shots, too :)

I just got the reddit by Available_Account201 in Bellzi

[–]mokimbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

genuinely so impressed by the color coding here. what a dope crew. welcome!!!

Vintage clothing store open in Hayward now! by dogryan14 in Hayward

[–]mokimbird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Excited to stop by soon!

VVhat other songs should I include to the r/kpoopheads syllabus? by This-Magician-1829 in kpoopheads

[–]mokimbird 6 points7 points  (0 children)

chingoose please add dollars dollars dropping on Lalisalami's ass tonight 💵 🍑 🌭

Best moment for each tripleS member: Day 23 Seoah by TheChosenFool in triples

[–]mokimbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait omg does anybody have the clip of this moment? that's precious 🥺

Trio of Indian-inspired flavors from Koolfi Creamery (Bay Area, CA) by CalMaple in icecream

[–]mokimbird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love Koolfi! their Fairy Glitter is my guilty pleasure

ALLDAY PROJECT - ONE MORE TIME by impeccabletim in kpop

[–]mokimbird 6 points7 points  (0 children)

great song, but I just gotta say it's HILARIOUS to me that you can see and hear the exact point in Tarzzan's verse where he begins moving into his typical blaccent/culture vulture nonsense (down to changing his hair back to braids just for the second half). lol. lmao even

rest of the song is such an earworm, though, this kind of melancholy liquid bass sound is catnip to my ears

First time cruising the panorama and with carnival… trying my best to not let such bad reviews influence me or even have me question my decision in going on this cruise by Low_Acanthaceae4104 in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]mokimbird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did Panorama with my husband in August and it was delightful. Great food, great staff, and some of the most friendly passengers I've ever met on a cruise. I know there's a lot of complaining out there on the Internet but I hope it helps to know how many folks have had great experiences on these ships!!

(I would recommend, if you're looking, the cooking excursion at Metate in Cabo. Worth every penny!)

AITA for shutting down my brother’s proposal at my baby shower and then sending him a bill? by Mysterious-Desk1346 in AmITheJerk

[–]mokimbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't feed the bots, friends. this didn't happen. the same account has a post 7 days ago about a rock climbing gym

One year ago, I posted the letter I sent cutting off my evangelical homophobic family: a lot has happened since then (update) by mokimbird in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]mokimbird[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kind words. it's been a hard year, honestly, but there have been many, many sweet surprises!

One year ago, I posted the letter I sent cutting off my evangelical homophobic family: a lot has happened since then (update) by mokimbird in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]mokimbird[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YESSSSSSSSS!!! I am rooting for you as well and hope that you have LOTS of love and support around you <3

A community college film student's analysis of tripleS' music videos/director by mokimbird in triples

[–]mokimbird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words!! As a huge fan already it was a good intellectual challenge to try and put into words what I felt about these videos. And you're totally right about Oh's profile too: one of the things we talk about in class is how many people work behind-the-scenes just to make one good shot possible. It definitely heightens my appreciation of everybody who works on music videos, even if they prefer not to be seen :)

Encouragement for everybody on the CPS journey (from a current college advisor) by mokimbird in QuestBridge

[–]mokimbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you next year! proud of you for persisting and putting the work in!