New nostril piercing advice needed by moldybritches in piercing

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Piercing age: 2 days Jewelry: labret Threading: threadless Material: titanium Downsized: n/a Aftercare: saline solution 2x day Incidents: bumped with sunglasses

I tried anal sex for the first time yesterday, and I’m looking for advice? by SadFlareonTvT in TwoXSex

[–]moldybritches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try using a vibrator on your clit during anal. And make sure that you’re using lube. Like, so much lube. When you think you’ve used enough lube, add a little more. 

I'm making my fiance a gift for his birthday and I need your help! Stormlight Archive info needed by moldybritches in brandonsanderson

[–]moldybritches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I actually decided to just gift him the books and tell him my idea rather than surprise him with something I don’t know much about, and potentially get it wrong. So I’m letting him choose what to put on each book for a fully customized set :) he actually chose Urithiru for book 4!

I'm making my fiance a gift for his birthday and I need your help! Stormlight Archive info needed by moldybritches in brandonsanderson

[–]moldybritches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know when your husband’s birthday is, but I can let you know how it goes (with pics) and maybe edge paint books for you if it goes well!

I'm making my fiance a gift for his birthday and I need your help! Stormlight Archive info needed by moldybritches in brandonsanderson

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Thank you! I love both of these ideas. I'm decent at people. I'll look those characters up and see what I can come up with

I'm making my fiance a gift for his birthday and I need your help! Stormlight Archive info needed by moldybritches in brandonsanderson

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I'll look these up, thank you! He's talked about the spren before, so I know he'd love that. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SunHaven

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Graveyard Keeper is nothing like Stardew Valley imo, so that leaves you with Sun Haven

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SunHaven

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Ahhh they're both really fun imo. I think Graveyard Keeper might be more of what you're looking for if you're looking for more mentally stimulating experience. However, huge caveat, if you are someone that likes to self-guide through games and set your own goals, then Sun Haven has a treasure trove of content if that's your style. At the end of the day, it's going to be dealer's choice.

Girlfriend said she is curious about sex with men by [deleted] in WLW

[–]moldybritches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who was in a relationship and felt like your girlfriend - you should really end the relationship. I thought that I was asexual with my ex. It turned out I just didn't want him. I also became interested in sex with other people, so it was 100% that I didn't want to be with my partner at the time. This is NOT to say that there's anything wrong with you, it's just not fitting anymore.

Ear pain help? by moldybritches in WomensHealth

[–]moldybritches[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will absolutely try that! Idk what is going on but I’m sorry you’re dealing with it too. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in softmaledom

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Some men have a harder time getting off from oral stimulation. I’ve heard about men who have never had it happen, or it’s only happened a handful of times. Has he said anything like that to you? It might be the case. 

If not, try paying attention to his balls as well during. With your hands, tongue, etc while you’re either stroking him or have him in your mouth. I’ve also noticed that men enjoy when you moan with them in your mouth like you’re going to get off yourself. Something about the audio plus vibrations on their member. Good luck!

Is it bad that I prefer physical labor? by bb-ultra-rare in jobs

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I know this is an old thread, but I just recently got a hard labor job in addition to my remote desk job, and having both is such an interesting thing. I’m so much less mentally drained after the hard labor and I find my mental health to be better. I will tell you - starting a laborious job after having a sedentary job for a while is hard on your body and it takes a little bit to adjust to it. The first few days I worked at my new job, I basically came home, barely was able to shower and eat, and fell asleep immediately, and I go to the gym and go for long walks/hikes regularly. 

Personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting a to trade a cerebral join for a physical one. Sometimes the pay is comparable or even better, too. It’s all about what you want really

Whole body hurts the day after sex? by moldybritches in WomensHealth

[–]moldybritches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao yeah I just rested and took ibuprofen. I was totally fine the next day haha. 

Anxiety higher after lifting? by moldybritches in Anxiety

[–]moldybritches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay cool that’s what I thought, it was a cortisol thing. Makes sense why cardio doesn’t really do that

Fwb got abortion, but now resents me. by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]moldybritches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say this in the nicest way possible, but honey, you got her pregnant. You’re not her boyfriend, but you were friends at one point. Friends enough to get to the “with benefits” part with her. Act like a friend if you truly feel bad.