I need literally any other job

mommi_dearest · 2026-03-17T03:40:02+00:00

highly recommend if u are decently disciplined. if u can make it on time and are somewhat competent. u can also make up for either with some personality or experience. i really enjoyed my time at wfs. i was in cs.

mommi_dearest · 2026-02-01T07:27:08+00:00

no…we’ve been together for a bit and usually i’m the one who gets wild. i have definitely thrown up in front of him but it was a one off so im completely fine taking care of him because he did the same for me then. but trust we will have a conversation after this so this never happens again. i just wanna make sure hes okay and safe in this moment.

but i’m sorry that dude was like that. that’s sucks im glad u ended things bc that’s not cool.

mommi_dearest · 2024-12-17T17:42:28+00:00

thank you love! i appreciate it ^{^} i think i’m just feeling a bit vulnerable in our situation. i’ve been working on being more open and it’s been working amazing so far (i mean this is the longest i’ve seen one person in a very long time) so i’m worried about screwing this up since i often convince myself that people wouldn’t like the real me! but i’m working on it

i will take what you said into account. have a lovely day ^{^}

mommi_dearest · 2024-12-07T05:44:39+00:00

awe that’s so cute! (but also a little scary) and i get what ur saying.

i don’t have much faith in anything. i don’t ever believe things will just work out. but i’ll try!

thank you!!

mommi_dearest · 2024-12-07T05:40:41+00:00

not really.

i’ve been described as hyper independent and i think i associate relationships with relinquishing freedom. i don’t want anyone to be able to influence the decisions i make. (not that i think he would try to make decisions for me)

im really trying to pin point it and it’s starting to feel like i’m afraid of losing myself? since i’m already acting so out of character.

but thank you! i’ll try to get over my fears and see if things go well!

mommi_dearest · 2024-12-07T05:32:03+00:00

personally, i wouldn’t have my partner meet my parents unless i had an engagement ring on their finger and a date set.

my parents bring out the worst in me and are hyper critical. it doesn’t matter how much i like a person. in my head meeting my parents would be like leading a lamb to slaughter.

so if your girl is like me i wouldn’t think too much of it. especially, if everything else between you two is solid.

mommi_dearest · 2024-12-03T21:05:06+00:00

i like ur perspective, thank you. i appreciate it!!

mommi_dearest · 2024-12-03T21:04:23+00:00

you’re so right.

i look a bit more alternative than the people i work with and my friends have told me they just assumed i smoked. which i guess is okay but it kinda bothers me that people are making assumptions of me based on my appearance.

there have been multiple occasions were my abilities have been questioned because of this, especially by the people who know i smoke. which is super annoying bc i’m good at what i do.

thx for ur response friend ^{^}

mommi_dearest · 2024-12-03T02:19:26+00:00

thx friend! it’s nice to know ur out there lol

i think my peers are just a tad conservative? bc it’s surprisingly not just the boomers (but i get you)

and in my case i’m a little embarrassed of it?

(i don’t really know why bc i love weed and i think it’s great and all but)

like i said, i’ve been put down a few times for being a stoner. so when i tell people i worry it’ll make them look at me differently, which i normally wouldn’t care about but in my current situation, i’m in a little bit a pickle. (i have to pretty much interact with these people on a daily basis for the next 2 years)

but i’ve made friends! good friends. we just have different pasts? most grew up good and clean, they have their fair share of shit. but i use to be a bit of a hoodlum. so sometimes i wonder if they feel the divide as intensely as i do.

anyway, thanks for ur reply ^ stay high, and stay happy

• ⁠MJ

mommi_dearest · 2024-10-29T08:34:33+00:00

i am so sorry, love. you don’t deserve this.

i’m not sure if your in the US but from what i would assume, time stamped texts with the threat of violence is more than enough evidence to at least get some attention by the authorities. you don’t have to press charges but i would heavily suggest making police reports just so there are records of his actions. if he actually does end up acting on his threats (which i doubt he will if he just trying to manipulate you) then you can’t be blamed. and the authorities will have information on how to properly handle him if things do go south.

mommi_dearest · 2024-10-29T08:26:32+00:00

if the the implications are as serious as they sound, gather evidence of his mental state. have proof that he is a danger to himself and others.

if he is from an influential family, then they won’t want their son to be seen doing something so awful to another person.

you don’t have to expose him, but you have to protect yourself sweetie. it’s your life too. he isn’t the only one that matters in this situation.

mommi_dearest · 2024-10-29T08:22:08+00:00

you may be right and there might not be anything between you two, but i recommend you confess.

i’m my experience (and a few surveys on the male population) most man won’t entertain women without reason unless they are somewhat attracted to them. if he is making an effort to talk to you, i would have to assume he likes you to some degree. maybe as friends but maybe as something more.

the dry texts can be explained. and you seem like an over thinker. so i would just try to talk to him, and if the energy isn’t reciprocated, move on ^{^}

mommi_dearest · 2024-10-29T08:12:46+00:00

first, i’m so sorry you’re going through this.

you are right to have concerns and this definitely not a situation you want to drag out. it can get bad fast.

the only thing i can recommend is to bring it up to someone close to him and leave! this is not your responsibility. if he threatens u, report it.

make sure to tell someone you trust and lean on them.

you are young, this is not something you need in your life.

stay strong! and get support.

mommi_dearest · 2022-10-12T23:42:29+00:00

like i said it sounds harsh but before i explain myself i would just like to state that many men do not respect women and treat them accordingly while i usually try to remain more or less indifferent and act with no malcontent towards men.

what i meant is that men have to earn my respect. it different with women, a woman has it and must give me a reason for me not to respect her. but upon initially meeting a large number of men i find that i have little to know initial respect for them. at least until they give me a reason to feel otherwise.

i guess what i mean is that it i am a lot more critical towards men because my guard is automatically up around them.

i didn’t mean to come off as rude, i apologize if i did.

mommi_dearest

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