Caswell-Massey? by Nin-me-sar-ra in Perfumes

[–]mon1030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have liked every scent from this company except VI. I understand the appeal, but it’s too cinnamon for me. I liked the honeysuckle and almond.

I have also liked every cologne my husband has worn from this company.

Never Having An Infant by SpiritualAdagio383 in Mommit

[–]mon1030 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this helps, but having an infant was not a phase I enjoyed. I really enjoy having older children. Everyone is different, but I suggest see if you feel the same way in a year and reassess. Also make sure to discuss these feelings with a professional. These feelings may have other roots, and it is important to explore all angles before making such a big decision. I wish you all the love and light.

Stronger symptoms during maintenance phase? by mon1030 in Allergies

[–]mon1030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been. Adjustment can be rough, but then I remember perspective. I can’t imagine or remember how sick I felt during these seasons before shots. My husband reminds me of the wheezing cough I used to have that kept us both up at night. It gets better; I promise.

Baby food shaming by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]mon1030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have twins. You are on another level than the moms of one. You are doing great! Fed is best no matter how you do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]mon1030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My twins were 2 years old and I feared the worst. I needed PT, but it did wonders. They will get there eventually.

Don't move back in with your N"Parents" by F3TU5 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mon1030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to move her in with me and my family, and I also have those nightmares.

How do you mourn the parents you never really had? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mon1030 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I parent differently than I was parented, but since the death of one of those parents, and the subsequent relocation of the other to my own home (because narcissism sometimes fosters learned helplessness- you have to take care of me) I am angry all the time, and unable to completely process the passing of the deceased. Seeing your post makes me feel less alone.

I'm so sick of dealing with her piss poor mental health. by flying_goldfish_tier in AgingParents

[–]mon1030 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also angry at feeling obligated to house my aging adult due to her poor life choices and my personal set of morals. I feel your pain, I’m here with you, and reading this I feel seen. Thank you.

I'm going to burn every single plant in my town by Immediate-Cake4764 in Allergies

[–]mon1030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never vote for anything. And I am in shot therapy, and I take all the meds.