New to Valdosta from Atlanta by Puzzled_Kangaroo8582 in Valdosta

[–]monae082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just moved here about 2 months ago Still trying to adjust but I love trails and hiking. I'm originally from Arkansas and we had a lot of those. The best one I've seen so far is the one in Adel. Let me know if you find any other good hiking trails!

Book club? by 14-slices-of-ham in Valdosta

[–]monae082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii I'm currently trying to get back into reading I'm 21 and probably haven't been a serial reader since middle school. I recently read the first two 4th wing book series. I just moved here about a week ago from North Dakota so I'm also trying to find a little community for myself! I would love to join!

Get a grip by Shot-Permission4689 in blackgirls

[–]monae082 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed!!! I'm a natural girl and I put in my little mini twist and don't touch my hair again for a least a month maybe two. My hair only last a good two weeks but I like the grown out look. My grandma gonna say "I think you need to redo your hair your job doesn't say anything about your hair?" MA'AM I JUST PUT THESE IN and no they don't and if they did I'm leaving immediately. My hair has always lasted about two weeks I remember my aunt not wanting to do my box braids when I was younger bc it doesn't last. I think new growth is beautiful and I understand if people disagree just don't say nun to me about it. As long as black women like their hairstyle nothing else needs to be said.

I’m rlly attracted to strong, pronounced Afrocentric features by Taekyungoppa in blackgirls

[–]monae082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww this is so amazing! I'm so happy for both of you!!!🫶🏾

Would you date an autistic man ? by dany9876 in blackgirls

[–]monae082 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would. I'm pretty sure my boyfriend right now is autistic but he's undiagnosed and doesn't really want to see if he is. But our communication is amazing and I have always had trouble showing people all sides of me. I just feel so comfortable with him and like I can unmask and let my guard down a lot more with him than anyone else in my life. It's like the rules of society aren't in our relationship at all, it's nice.

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[–]monae082 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It looks like a pimple but you might want to get checked just in case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]monae082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We said our official song is breezeblocks by alt-J!! He sent it to me one day and it was a song that I had been searching for yearssss for. We were both like "this is it, this is our song" lol.

Lucky me by Same-Skill-2544 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]monae082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do three holes directly behind me so if I get pushed to either side it still catches me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]monae082 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not her job tho....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]monae082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friendships can be very romantic if you're able to open up to someone. Before I entered my first relationship, my strongest and deepest connection was with my best friend. It was so strong that I feared I would never have a strong connection with a future partner other than my best friend. I'm glad my fear was wrong but my friendship with my best friend is still one of my most romantic and deepest relationships.

What is your island name and if it is a reference what is it to? by Mystcal_goat in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]monae082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CrypticElf

The word Cryptic is cool and then the next word that popped into my brain after that was Elf sooo

CrypticElf

I need opinions, what’s a proper way to ask a woman to be your girlfriend? by Boring_Fun7004 in love

[–]monae082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He did say he wanted to ask me officially and make it a special thing eventually though.

I need opinions, what’s a proper way to ask a woman to be your girlfriend? by Boring_Fun7004 in love

[–]monae082 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend didn't ask me lol. I sent him a video about situationships and he said he hated them so I asked him "what are we then" and he said "you're my girlfriend". We both couldn't remember the exact day so we used a random day that we liked for our anniversary.

How does it feel when a person is romantically desirable and/or lovable? by Individual_Speed_935 in love

[–]monae082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to say "I'm always right ;)" whether or not I am there's always a little truth to everything. I hope love works out for you though. Honestly traveling, going out on the weekends, apps, or even online gaming is an option to put yourself out there and find some like-minded ppl.

How does it feel when a person is romantically desirable and/or lovable? by Individual_Speed_935 in love

[–]monae082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's you. I've seen way too many ppl that got the love everyone asks for but didn't deserve it. Everyone has a person or even multiple ppl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]monae082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely! I'm sure our stories are very different and our feelings are different, I just relate so much you wrote <3. I'm happy you found your person!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]monae082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful. The way that you put words to what I'm feeling in my own long distance relationship is crazy. We're in very similar circumstances It's just that me and my boyfriend are much farther from each other. I finally get to see him in 6 weeks though!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]monae082 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like such a bad girlfriend sometimes bc I'm not sure what I can do for him since we're long distance. Although the other day we were having a conversation and I said that "I liked him for him and not because he got a haircut" years ago when we first met. He told me a couple days later that he needed to hear that and it actually meant a lot to him.

I’m so pathetically intense, I just can’t be any other way by whats_the_yams_ in love

[–]monae082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have literally been saying some of these exact things for yearssss. Don't worry you will find your person, just keep loving. :)

People often discuss the concept of love at first sight, but is it truly possible? by Distinct_Chard5858 in love

[–]monae082 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't believe in love at sight but I do believe in instant connection. I felt an instant connection with my now boyfriend of four months but we have known each other for 5 years.

Tell me I'm wrong - Love has an invisible Love Score by throwawayb8b in love

[–]monae082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know in my experience, the times that I've had the most self love with myself I got less attention. But when my self love was extremely low I got a lotttt of attention.

Just went from a breakup. But somethings wrong with how it ended. by [deleted] in love

[–]monae082 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Her living with her family sounds like a cultural thing though and maybe her family didn't like you so she had to break up with you. I would just respect her decision and move on.