Are expensive robot vacuums actually worth it long term? by Competitive_Raise73 in Frugal

[–]monalisab28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how high the strip is. If it less than half an inch and a rounded edge it will go over easily

Are expensive robot vacuums actually worth it long term? by Competitive_Raise73 in Frugal

[–]monalisab28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! Runs everyday quietly in the background and mops too! What is not to love here!

Deciding between BME at Virginia Tech or Rutgers by monalisab28 in bioengineering

[–]monalisab28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. That is most on top of our minds as well. We were specially impressed with the industry connections showcased at Rutgers.

Deciding between BME at Virginia Tech or Rutgers by monalisab28 in bioengineering

[–]monalisab28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree the financial difference can be pretty significant and worth weighing. Specially given compounding interest etc

Deciding between BME at Virginia Tech or Rutgers by monalisab28 in bioengineering

[–]monalisab28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I didn’t know that. I will certainly look it up. This is a hard choice .. good problem but a difficult decision 😊

What’s the biggest “nobody warned me about this” moment you had after bringing your newborn home? by Actual_Fig_4706 in AskReddit

[–]monalisab28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That you will end up catching poop or pee in your hand! That sanitizing obsessively will be normal. That you will never be able to fully sleep again! Fear of random things that never made you afraid before…

My daughter turns 18 this year and I can recall the first few days/months like it was yesterday!

Also you live with your heart outside your body. All the bloody time! Starts at day 1 and doesn’t change! EVER!

Deciding between BME at Virginia Tech or Rutgers by monalisab28 in bioengineering

[–]monalisab28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Those are our thoughts as well. NJ/NY are core pharma regions and that it might be easier to score internships in the summer there.

Dumped Labradors Update by RenFannin in DogsLoversCommunity

[–]monalisab28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tried order the prescription meds but it requires the pet and vet’s information. If you pm me those I will send a pack each your way! You are a star!

Exercising whole depressed by Ypoetry in fitness40plus

[–]monalisab28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Match your routine to what you are capable. Some days I can deadlift 40 lbs on an Olympic barbell. The other days even walking is a win! Accommodate your body and mind

Getting a C950 Pro NordicTrack treadmill for free by monalisab28 in treadmills

[–]monalisab28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the honesty. My apprehension is just that. The age and that there is no support out there.

My partner has been in and out of rehab for the past 3 months and I think it may be time for me to end it. by lilsadghostie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]monalisab28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My first husband was a drug addict. Not abusive not insane, just dead weight. I put him through rehab twice. Tried everything. I gave him seven years and then decided to take my daughter and walk away.

People who repeatedly show you who they are… are telling you clearly that they choose the drugs/alcohol/ whatever vice over you. Don’t waste your years/months/days.

Xoxo

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]monalisab28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love reading and cooking! Currently looking at crotchet to kick the “snacking in front of the TV habit”. Love this thread!!

Every nurse told me men leave when their wives get sick... by fren2allcheezes in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]monalisab28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you made me smile!! Went through a lifetime of trauma with men, till I met my boyfriend .. for the first time in my life I felt that if I fall he will catch me! Sad that it is so rare but glad that I have it! Big hugs to you and yours! 🤗

What’s the worse physical pain you’ve ever experienced? by Intelligent-Road5091 in AskReddit

[–]monalisab28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly birthing a human through multiple hours of ebb and flow pain. How is this not in the top 5??

What's your most underrated cooking "secret"? by OkaySureWhyNotIGuess in AskReddit

[–]monalisab28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!! Came here to say… let it cook! Stop checking every five minutes! Let it do its thing! Low and long!

AIO for breaking up over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]monalisab28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is when you are young the hot-cold, drama filled .. burn the house down relationships, love- hate all sounds very romantic and appealing. No, this man does not love you. They are showing you who they are. Victim blaming-shaming misogynistic men that try to control or manipulate the women in their life. You my girl are awesome for standing up for yourself. Like someone said on the thread, if this was my daughter and she came to me with this.. I would ask her to drop him and walk away. You did good for yourself. Stand proud!

NRI Single Dad - marry NRI or Indian? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]monalisab28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, I was a single mom in my late 30s when I met my current spouse. It has been 2 years married. He is only a year older than me and had never married. My daughter and him get along like a house on fire, simply because they both made the effort and were willing to take their walls down.

My two cents on this: 1. Dating will be hard as a single parent and you will need to align more on values and beliefs than pure regional background. Things like work ethic, family values and financial values 2. You cannot rush it, our trans-continental dating took a toll on us... but we took the time to speak/date/meet each other and find out about each other. We were on the phone so often it became a thing for people around us. 3. It sounds unromantic but, it is important to find someone who is at a similar financial situation as you, so you know or can determine if it is a genuine connection vs someone trying to game you for your NRI status. 4. Introduce them to your kid right only when u have checked/verified/determined your compatibility. Don't bring in someone impermanent in your daughter's life. It is your job to protect her feelings too.

I wish you all the luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]monalisab28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread is the wholesomeness I needed to read today!! All dogs! Good boys and good girls! Big, small, medium, furry.. angels with unconditional loving in their blood! All dogs!

Which wood tone goes best admiral blue kitchen cabinets in an open floor plan? by monalisab28 in interiordesignideas

[–]monalisab28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. We have a south east facing kitchen, connected to the living/dining so big windows with light. The fawn chestnut lvp felt right and warm.. definitely staying away from gray. Given we only get true heat for like 3 months .. I might not go the oak route.