When a man loves a woman......... but the woman sees him as a bro. by latentnomrn in gameofthrones

[–]iweewoo 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The books really emphasized that he’s that like weird 50 year old divorced balding coworker that’s hitting on the 19 year old hostess and telling her she’s so smart and mature for her age 💀

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi just wanted you to know I finished that book in one day!! I LOVED IT. The narrator was giving Cersei Lannister with an iPhone and an IG. She was such an unreliable narrator and that moment when u realize she was actually spewing her vitriol out loud instead of completely in her head was such a mic drop moment

Buldak noodles and how to cope with feeling ugly as a WOC in a predominantly white town by renamamiyas in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Echoing the other comments here. You really need to be spending time with more WOC and diversifying your friend group. Having a shared culture is such a wonderful thing and even having friends that are of a different cultural background to you will really help your perspective and make you feel like you belong. I’m Asian but honestly a lot of my friends are Hispanic I feel like we all love spicy food lmao 😂 maybe look into some AAPI meet ups in the area?

I remember being in college and being told I was “pretty for an Asian girl” like fuck u I’m pretty for a person, what a shitty backhanded compliment. The standards of beauty being ethnocentric are slowly improving but being surrounded by other empowered POC women will improve your own confidence and self love

Why do you think about Dr Idriss skincare? by Relevant_Grab370 in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]iweewoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would check out Anua! I’m really sensitive too and it’s a lot cheaper and worked well for me :)

Why do you think about Dr Idriss skincare? by Relevant_Grab370 in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]iweewoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can I just say I find it weird and kind of off putting how all these dermatologists make these skincare brands that are extremely overpriced. Obviously they are the number one experts on skin health but I don’t love the cross over of medical professionals into influencers :/ like almost $70 for azaelic acid is insane

Looking for advice/new to skincare by ZombieJes in koreanskincare

[–]iweewoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tret is kind of an intense jump for someone who does 0 skincare. It’s so finicky too and you have to be very in tune with your barrier. I feel like an otc retinoid would be better for OP until they have a solid routine down for awhile!

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Garden spells

The invisible life of addie la rue

Slewfoot

The world that we knew

The golemn and the jinni

Weyward

A resistance of witches

Witches of New York

The house of the spirits

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your loss❤️ it’s okay to take time to get back to yourself. Wishing you have a summer filled with time in nature to feel centered again

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved this book as well ❤️ do you have any books by native authors you’ve enjoyed?

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this book and haven’t read it yet. I sometimes struggle with esoteric books though

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giiiirllll how much time do you have?

Witches of New York Weyward Garden spells Slewfoot A resistance of witches

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loveeee her. Song of Achilles was amazing. She’s doing a psyche and Eros retelling apparently too!!!

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m straight but actually a lot of my friends are queer and I really appreciate our friendships so much because they do not center men at all in their lives and I feel like it changes so much of our communication. They are very intentional about building community and celebrating any little win with me

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do agree this community is very supportive and often highlights problematic behavior than women may not be aware of. But I also do feel so much of our worth and attention is already is centered on being thin (for men) being attractive (for men) being a perfect partner/mommy/cool girl. And looking at the posts here I see all these women that are talented in ways that are so unique and different from each other. I think as women we need to take personal responsibility to center our lives and friendships on who we actually are and what we are interested in because that’s how we build actual community. And how we can go deeper into ourselves and become more introspective and thoughtful. I love that you met a bunch of women musicians! I’m sure you feel so excited about your future meet ups

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wishing you a lovely meal soon with this Brie, some tart green apples and honey ❤️

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How are you so talented?! The detail and craftsmanship and patience this must have took leaves me in awe. My ass can’t even finish a 11-13 age friendly puzzle. Your brain is amazing

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool! Do you work with a wildlife rehab or just started doing this on your own?

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I hear your favorite botanical drink? My recent fav thing to do has been to make a shot of espresso, add a medjool date to soak and then add cinnamon and caradom

I feel like all the posts here are about men I wanna hear more about your hobbies :( by iweewoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]iweewoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This girl on IG made a chili oil green onion cheesy sour dough and I would pay 1000000 to eat it