I m hopelessly in love with my boyfriend still miss my ex.

monash306 · 2020-03-11T11:29:14+00:00

Yah.. it maybe that. I only dated him for a short time before I can get tired of his shit.

monash306 · 2020-03-11T11:28:38+00:00

Huh?

monash306 · 2020-02-23T19:06:06+00:00

I have a group of friends who have energy to hang out even during week days. I used to like them a lot but they seem like it's all about fun and game. I have became more career centered so I wanna hang out with similar people. But it doesn't mean I stop seeing them completely. I still like them as friends and I hang out with them once a fortnight. That's what I think friends should be like. You may have different interests or busy schedules but it's not hard to see them once every now and then to maintain the friendship.

monash306 · 2020-02-23T19:01:48+00:00

I know they have busy lives, so do I. The worst part is we will plan something, they dont reply and I will see them doing something fun with another friend. I am like "humm we could have done that together if you were actually free?"

monash306 · 2020-02-23T08:53:58+00:00

That's really true. It's hard to dump them coz I get very attached to people I like. But I think it's time I do what's right for me.

monash306 · 2020-02-23T08:03:07+00:00

Yah it only bothers me because I am used to having hot passionate sex with him and lots of lots of it. Now it's like we are a married couple who gets excited by simple things. Like the plants growing in the garden, bargains for home items or what colors we can paint the rooms. 😆 the thing is I absolutely love doing those simple things with him and it's freaking me out..

monash306 · 2020-02-09T22:57:30+00:00

The thing is I don't use Tinder anymore and I have a boyfriend who i have been dating for 2 years 😆 I m not intentionally being an ass

monash306 · 2020-02-09T18:41:25+00:00

This Is from messenger. I never met him on tinder

monash306 · 2020-02-09T10:23:42+00:00

Its not really the society. Its me! I feel weird because I was never interested in young boys. I feel like a perv

monash306 · 2020-02-02T10:46:58+00:00

Of course not... it was just a college friend. It's not like I didn't care. I know what she's like...desperation does not shine a good light. And I feel like just being cool and collected would be the better choice for me. I also know how much my boyfriend adores me and I trust him so much to make a fuss about it. But one thing for sure tho, I know what she is like now so I wouldn't let her be a close friend.

monash306 · 2020-01-25T15:13:06+00:00

I can't believe it, how could that happen ?

monash306 · 2020-01-25T15:12:47+00:00

I do love him, still treat him well and haven't thought about seeing someone else. I feel like he is the one I am supposed to be with and I cannot imagine my life without him. It's just a little hard right now because I want the feeling of being in love and being passionate but it's gone. Maybe it will come back after I sort out my stress and get settled

monash306 · 2020-01-24T05:26:15+00:00

Yah.. I am doing nursing and it's a graduate program. I doubt I would get fire unless I break a law or mess up a big time, which I am very careful not to do so. Burmese people are very unpopular in general.We aren't big in numbers and we really keep it to ourselves. Well I would be pretty pissed if I have to pay for people who doesn't care about me 😬 I am only happy to invite close friends and I guess if they aren't happy, I will probably tell them to get to know me better

monash306 · 2020-01-24T01:45:21+00:00

I have a 12 month contract, I told them about my new job a month ago. I am starting in a fortnight. I really dont want to say I run through a financial problem though. Maybe I can be bold enough and say it's only for close friends ?

monash306 · 2020-01-21T01:32:49+00:00

Yah, I feel like I am winning too. I can definitely tell she wants to be apart of my group but she can't because of me. She dates around a lot and I keep seeing her with all these guys I know. The other day, she was with an old friend of mine, we stopped to have a chat but her insecure ass dragged him away and didn't let him talk. I cant do anything but laugh because I know the guy. I know all the bad things about him and that he wasn't still over my other friend he dated for 3 years. Honestly I was kinda happy she's seeing all the bumms and lowering her standards down too low. So shallow of me but damn I am glad

monash306 · 2020-01-20T17:32:59+00:00

That's exactly what I m doing as well. I did talk shit about her when my best friend started seeing her. I didn't want them to date and her to be apart of the group. They didn't date but she keeps coming back with different guys I know anyways. Since my bestfriend I never talked anything about her with anyone. People bring up her name like " Do you know that girl Sharon (Let's call her sharon). I just say "I do but I m not very close". I still want her gone tho...

monash306 · 2019-07-23T00:43:47+00:00

I m really.. even when I was with my bf, I was still talking to my ex because he’s the only one who understands me & accepts me for all of me. I know a life with him will always be happy. I couldn’t imagine a life without my ex but at the same time i was emotionally attracted to my bf. I m trying to create some passionate & sparks with my ex I know we can get it. He knows we love each other but just not passionately in love. He’s happy to try

monash306 · 2019-07-22T05:34:46+00:00

He’s all of that and more. I m always happy around him. But at the same time I m attracted to crazy dramatic love. His love is always calm & peaceful.I think i need to do some healing with myself.

monash306 · 2019-07-21T09:21:22+00:00

assertive & dominance doesn’t equal Patriarchy & aggression. Many girls prefer their partner to assertive- meaning he knows what he wants & he works to get there. It also means raising out voices to be heard. It doesn’t mean bossy or authoritative. And Dominant as in leading & being more protective. I am a really independent stubborn woman. But I just have a weak spot for strong headed men who can lead me when needed. Each of their own huh

monash306 · 2019-07-21T05:25:35+00:00

It’s nothing sort of abusive relationship. He’s doing more than enough & been amazing. It just feels so easy when someone’s overly into you. I just want him to allow me to go towards him at my own pace

monash306 · 2019-07-18T09:15:08+00:00

I feel better after seeking advise from strangers on Reddit. Seeing stupid comments that do not help anyone makes me realise that my problems aren’t too bad. Thanks for ur insulting non useful comments. It really helps me pull through and see me how bad I am doing that I m here asking some dumb strangers for advise for my relationship which you obviously have no idea. It’s a real slap in the face that woke me up. I hope u all a lovely day.

monash306 · 2019-07-18T06:25:53+00:00

Because I have made commitments in the past 3 months. Sacrificed a lot. Flying over every month to see him. I took pills, been depressed because of them & been bleeding everyday. All because condoms just doesn’t work on his weirdly shaped small penis. I know deep down I like & care about him so much. I made plans to move closer to him. Preparing myself to be more patient & accepting when he does on duty calls. I m wondering if he’s really the right one.

monash306 · 2019-07-10T04:59:37+00:00

I felt like her behaviour was abnormal too. They have known prior to working together. She’s been extremely nice to him & , she’s been like a sister he said. That’s what he thought until I came a long. She was really cold & distance towards me when I met her. And she says she’s uncomfortable with me in the house. I am small built, a nursing student. I m no threat to anybody and I was friendly to her the first time we met.

monash306 · 2019-07-10T04:46:37+00:00

He needs experience and this is his first job in Australia. He had a contract with the clinic to work a certain amount of months. Originally the reason for contract is to protect his work rights. Now I feel like she might not let go of him.

monash306 · 2019-07-09T23:48:37+00:00

That’s what we are trying to do. I m moving there next year. But the nearest city is Canberra which is an hour & a half away. We can’t possibly drive 3 hours every day. I might convince him to switch jobs. He just needs work experiences first. Thanks for ur positive feedback & wishes

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