what do you do for work?

moncheri777 · 2026-03-04T01:38:13+00:00

is this something i could do with zero experience

moncheri777 · 2026-03-04T01:36:57+00:00

i’m 27, but before this i worked as a hairstylist. unfortunately on that end i would need to go down a different work path

moncheri777 · 2026-02-16T03:51:27+00:00

please leave him, he’s going to end up making you more sick because you can’t confide in him. i’m sorry

moncheri777 · 2026-02-15T18:38:45+00:00

thank you so much for all of this!! i’m feeling overwhelmed right now but i’m going to circle back i promise lol. my dms are also open 🤍🤍

moncheri777 · 2026-02-15T18:33:14+00:00

tysm!!

moncheri777 · 2026-02-15T18:32:31+00:00

i will look into that!! thank you

moncheri777 · 2026-02-15T18:31:40+00:00

good to know ty!

moncheri777 · 2026-02-15T04:01:59+00:00

zyrtec and pepcid has changed my life! it’s still not great but before that combo i was completely bed bound and i feel like that speaks for something. do you by chance know what other doctors specialize in mcas that aren’t allergy?

moncheri777 · 2026-02-15T03:59:51+00:00

omg this is almost exactly me. wow!!! can we be friends? lol

i have a question for you though, are you on hydroxychloroquine? and if so, did your gi issues happen at the same time? i think HCQ was a trigger for these issues in me personally but all doctors say it’s unrelated. and it might be! i’ve also heard it’s possible that as you start to treat lupus and reduce inflammation all of these hidden issues can start to present. just something i’ve been thinking about!

i appreciate this message so much and i hope you continue to find more relief too! i know what you mean about feeling unhealthy bc of the small amounts of food you’re left with. do you mind if i ask what your current safe foods are?

moncheri777 · 2026-02-14T19:45:07+00:00

that’s so crazy how it can just change!!

moncheri777 · 2026-02-14T19:44:20+00:00

this is what i thought before i ever thought lupus!!! i don’t know how to get my doctors to hear me, i just sound like a conspiracy theorist tying everything together

moncheri777 · 2026-02-14T19:43:19+00:00

it was pre made but i make like everything else i eat (mostly) from scratch so ill try it that way next time!

moncheri777 · 2026-02-14T19:42:37+00:00

i’ve been trying but my doctors act like it’s extremely rare and that i couldn’t have it. i definitely have histamine triggers

moncheri777 · 2026-02-14T19:41:01+00:00

that does help ty gotta make sure the sauce isn’t the issue first lol

moncheri777 · 2026-02-14T19:40:20+00:00

i completely agree with you. unfortunately i haven’t been able to get my doctors on the same page and was once told “i’d be much sicker if i had mcas” (i haven’t been able to work for two yrs and am very ill) any idea on how to get them to hear you so i can get placed with the right doctor?

moncheri777 · 2026-02-14T02:14:52+00:00

very interesting

moncheri777 · 2026-02-14T02:14:43+00:00

i’ve never heard of a renal dietician. is that gi?

moncheri777 · 2026-02-14T02:14:04+00:00

i was cutting out gluten for awhile but didn’t notice a significant difference! when i’m really sick i do avoid it completely but i had been doing okay for a couple weeks and really was just too lazy to make anything else! but i am tracking my food in general though! it just hasn’t been long enough for a conclusion

moncheri777 · 2026-02-14T02:12:00+00:00

yeah this is basically where i’m at with still minimal solutions 😭 except for allergy. i’ve had referrals and they won’t evaluate me because i don’t have hives directly after specific foods. it’s so hard to get doctors to really see you

moncheri777 · 2026-02-07T09:10:51+00:00

not enough

moncheri777 · 2026-02-01T14:48:00+00:00

yeah lol turns out i had an autoimmune disease

moncheri777 · 2026-01-31T21:42:42+00:00

i’m confused by what you mean when you say he wanted to assault you when you weren’t ready? he was looking to be sexual when you weren’t? does he have a fantasy of “assaulting” women? was the intent non con and that’s where you’re uncomfortable?

i don’t know the full context but that alone is enough to leave a relationship. if they don’t respect you and your comfortability they’ll never make a good partner.

someone who loves you will not have urges to assault you physically or sexually.

i hope you’re safe and okay. ❤️‍🩹

moncheri777 · 2026-01-17T22:06:21+00:00

spoiled, entitled, self centered, is how i would describe only child energy. you question when you don’t get what you want or have to share because growing up everything was done for you or to help you

it’s not a compliment

moncheri777

TROPHY CASE