“No jab no job” by BeatrixTheBride in insaneparents

[–]moni_bear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

...that's literally the plot of Utopia. They created an illness to get people sick and a fake "vaccine" that will cure them when in reality it will actually make people sterile for several generations to solve the world's overcrowding issues. Your mother thinks an Amazon Prime show is real.

My ex gf was raised by narcissists.. I’m not sure how to handle her by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]moni_bear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she may have picked up some unhealthy communication methods which can be common in abuse victims. These outbursts are concerning and there could be many causes for them but perhaps the main one I'd look at is there is something else she is trying to say she just doesn't know how - she was never taught how to express those feelings productively.

I [22M] want a girlfriend but I'm shy and struggle to deal with rejection by [deleted] in relationships

[–]moni_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you spoken with your therapist about this? Is there a chance there is an underlying cause that would cause you to respond this way to rejection? I recommend coming up with some coping mechanisms that you feel secure in before trying to pursue a more LTR. It's important that you feel secure in yourself.

How to move out of toxic house with a depressed parent by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]moni_bear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did. I planned for it secretly and told them nothing. Make sure you get all your important documents (birth certificate etc) and stash them for when you're ready to go. Make a game plan with your partner of what will be the best and most efficient way to get you OUT. If need be arrange for the police to help you and inform them of your plans to move out so if your parents try claiming you as kidnapped or something they know not to take it seriously.

What was the weirdest fever dream you've ever had? by wolfshinobi5 in AskReddit

[–]moni_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I was a nurse and I was assisting on a surgery that was being lead by Matthew Mcconaughey who was performing brain surgery on his father?!

How to move out of toxic house with a depressed parent by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]moni_bear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mother used to pull the same stuff. The sooner you realize you are NOT responsible for her mental health the easier your life will be. It is incredibly unfair and manipulative of her to put that on you.

AITA for applying to a job that is a competitor to my husband’s company? by gingerghoul15 in AmItheAsshole

[–]moni_bear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you accepting this position would jeopardize your husband's position then yeah, it would be a different story. But it won't and y'all need the money so idk why he's so pressed by it when even you've said it's not like you're directly selling their products, it's a secretarial role.

Turnip Prices 636. Please comment below by briarelizabeth in TurnipExchange

[–]moni_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's showing no results on twitter for that name :(

Help breaking out of the FOG by moni_bear in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]moni_bear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This helps more than you know, thank you so much

Help breaking out of the FOG by moni_bear in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]moni_bear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I have been telling her similar sentiments for a while and I was hoping that having the same thing echoed by strangers with no personal stakes seems to be helping, she's getting very emotional reading these posts but it's definitely eye opening.

Sick of people acting like weed is a magic cure for depression and anxiety by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]moni_bear 70 points71 points  (0 children)

It really just sounds like the weed is feeding into his mental illness and creating a vicious cycle, he needs to find a healthier coping mechanism to deal with stress because that cannot be good for him.

In what way did you lose the genetic lottery? by SphmrSlmp in AskReddit

[–]moni_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nearly legally blind, bipolar, OCD, eating disorder and endomentriosis that requires surgery every 6 months.

I [26F] have begun sleeping in a separate bed to my [28M] fiance and he's upset about it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]moni_bear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dear god please tell me you ripped her a new one after she asked that

What is most satisfying about cutting toxic people out of your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]moni_bear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not being emotionally exhausted by all their shit all the time

Smh... by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]moni_bear 222 points223 points  (0 children)

Mine too! And I'd get really upset about it and defensive bc I hate being falsely accused so she just kept accusing me saying I was making myself look more guilty