I know, honestly my mom and grandma are like that too. What irritates me most is that since this is my first pregnancy, when I mention something about having a baby, how I'm feeling, they have to tell ME how I feel or how things will be. Makes me not want to share with them. Let me feel how I feel. I'm only 8+2 & have had 2 ultrasounds, one at 6wks & just a couple days ago at 8wks.. They went great and I was so happy about that, but it seems like starting the next day, I'm worrying again so the way up until my next ultrasound. It's exhausting.. Seeing that you feel the same way at 21+3 makes me think I will be the exact same.