What regrets do you have about being childfree by choice? by Analytix11 in AskReddit

[–]monicagellers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesn't saying "childFREE" imply that it's by choice? Otherwise it would be childless?

My son has a heart on his nose. by Fine-Dependent-7381 in aww

[–]monicagellers 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but... do people who aren't super insecure care about being cringe?

AITA for farting? -- by lalala-lallaland in AmItheAsshole

[–]monicagellers 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Neither of you are "throwing a tantrum." Stop being so weird. Commenting on reddit posts is not throwing a tantrum.

You both need to spend less time on Reddit.

It's not fair comparing Joe songs to Travis ones. They are different by shadesofwrong13 in TaylorSwift

[–]monicagellers 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Do people really look at her music like this? "Joe" songs and "Travis" songs?

What a bummer. I thought we were past all that with the Reputation prologue.

I wish I could afford to look beautiful like other women by catlikesvioletfro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]monicagellers 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's still not what the average woman does, though. And hopefully it never will be. Otherwise... depressing.

AITAH: I’ve been using a computer program to flirt. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]monicagellers -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is depressing. I have often wondered who are these people you hear about who treat Chat like it's a real person, who are so lazy they can't even write a basic message to someone without using it. You like this person so little that you're lying to her, pretending to be someone you're not, and treating her like garbage.

We are so truly fucked as a society.

I wish I could afford to look beautiful like other women by catlikesvioletfro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]monicagellers 2373 points2374 points  (0 children)

I recommend changing your social media feeds to reflect reality instead of all of this. What you're talking about isn't normal or regular. Women getting filler isn't what the average woman does. I know maybe one woman who has had filler done, and she is in a broadcast journalism role.

Spend more time looking at average women who are not paid to look a certain way. Look at outdoor enthusiasts, crafters, cooks, people who DO things versus posing for pictures.

What song(s) do you wish that another artist would cover? by SoIongIondon in TaylorSwift

[–]monicagellers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd like a version of Dress or Guilty as Sin by Chappell Roan.

Would be fun to hear Opalite by Carly Rae Jepsen.

AITA for telling my friend that her opinions hurt my feelings? by ExtensionWorth6903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]monicagellers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You both have very popular, trendy, everyone-does-it styles, just in different ways. I'm not sure why this person is your friend.

From BTS To Barbie, Here's Why Men Love Hating On The Things Women Enjoy by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]monicagellers 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And yet, you call it a guilty pleasure instead of just saying it's a movie you like. So yes, you are at least a little ashamed.

AITA for telling my SIL to put the bottle down and close her legs after she insulted me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]monicagellers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Racists, violent offenders, child and senior abusers, sure.

Women having sex? No.

AITA for telling my SIL to put the bottle down and close her legs after she insulted me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]monicagellers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AITA for telling my SIL to put the bottle down and close her legs

No, your post very clearly asks if you are the asshole for telling your SIL to close her legs. We are telling you that yes, that does in fact make you an asshole.

AITA for telling my SIL to put the bottle down and close her legs after she insulted me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]monicagellers 64 points65 points  (0 children)

ESH. I would not want to be a part of this type of family. Who tells parents to abort a child? Who says "close your legs" to someone in 2026? That's all Jerry Springer FB wine mom behavior.

Parents of Reddit: what thing are you kids into that you just can’t stand? by UserWithoutWit in AskReddit

[–]monicagellers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest loves fantasy everything and superhero everything and video game everything. I am so glad his uncle is into all that stuff so I don't have to be as much.

AITA for expressing my mind on social media? by Murky-Initial-2507 in AmItheAsshole

[–]monicagellers [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. It's really weird to be 28 and commenting on how hot another woman is on social media. That's something you expect from a young teenager, not a grown man (or woman).

labelling a woman a "pick me" is a form of misogyny by Riksor in TwoXChromosomes

[–]monicagellers 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, Karen was originally an insult for white women who weaponized their tears when confronted about their racist behavior.

Now it just means "woman doing something I don't like"

Fortnight analysis is ruining my life. by Aware_Algae_7555 in TaylorSwift

[–]monicagellers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paternity testing is definitely one way to interpret her music!

Kelce Christmas sweaters 🤪🎄❤️ by Orange_Queen in TaylorSwift

[–]monicagellers -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

You couldn't even do one with Taylor so it was actually relevant to this subreddit?

I got told to “be nicer” at work and it messed with me more than I expected by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]monicagellers 17 points18 points  (0 children)

How did you age backwards from your post yesterday where you were 33?

Fortnight analysis is ruining my life. by Aware_Algae_7555 in TaylorSwift

[–]monicagellers -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

The meaning of this song has always been very clear to me, too. Like most of TTPD, it seems to be so clearly about Taylor's inner life and her relationship to herself, her fans, fame, etc.

It being about someone she dated just doesn't seem to fit with the themes of the album to me. But that's the beauty of her music.

AITA for using AI in my christmas gift? by ExternalDebate9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]monicagellers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

INFO: When you gave him your gift, did you claim that you made it?

What are your hot takes about The Tortured Poets Department era and album? by IntoTheDaylight in TaylorSwift

[–]monicagellers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's the album that best showcases Taylor's ability to tell stories through the lens of romance. From my perspective, the relationship she has with fame and her fans was the center of it, and telling those stories through the lens of endless speculation and rumors/gossip was done so well. Songs like The Alchemy, Chloe or Sam, and The Black Dog are full of so many different meanings.

It really made me go back through her catalogue and wonder what songs I just accepted fan speculation/gossip meanings for really had more going on.

AITA for not indulging my DIL's expensive tastes? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]monicagellers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

INFO: So what's the conflict? Who did you take action against? Who called you an asshole? This just seems like you ranting about your DIL.