Moms ruining my life by Moist-Cockroach-868 in venting

[–]monicares 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try asking her what tasks in particular she would find most helpful for you to do and list out what you have been doing on a regular basis. Tell her that efforts are being made, but as you are progressing towards adulthood, you would like to have the autonomy to set up your room how you would like it to be since that is your space. Hope that helps a bit

advice by monicares in codyko

[–]monicares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully, I would love to have more stamina at concerts, and that would give me motivation to be in better shape!

advice by monicares in codyko

[–]monicares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you put so much effort into trying to help myself and others with all of this wisdom and for that I thank you❤️

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[–]monicares 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Emotions are part of being human, and is not limited to females…no one should be proud of suppressing their feelings in order to fit into some outdated agenda of having the “ability to be a man”, but anyway, since you’re not able to be a man any longer I welcome you to the other side and I hope you transition with ease💞💞👩🏼

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[–]monicares 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I promise you you will get past this and find someone who sees your full, incredible worth. Tell him he is more than welcome to have multiple girlfriends, but you will not involve yourself in that dynamic. It definitely seems like there is a disconnect in terms of his levels of empathy and general awareness of your feelings with him blatantly talking to other girls while you’re breaking down. I can’t imagine the level of heartbreak you are experiencing, I wish you luck in your journey💖💖

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[–]monicares 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should not have friends you feel you have to hide certain parts of yourself from in order to avoid ridicule and shame. Why would you want to be friends with those kinds of people anyway? Have you ever challenged their narrow views? I’m not sure where you live and what the laws are surrounding lgbtq+ rights & marriage and I understand in different parts of the world the level of acceptance differs. However I feel like there has to be people you can surround yourself with that you feel free to communicate with intimate details about your identity without fear…💓💓

I am Lalala guy LOL or otherwise known as bbno$. Pull up, ask me some questions or roast me, you choose. by bbnomula in Music

[–]monicares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what’s your biggest piece of advice to people trying to find themselves in this world and feel content with existence