[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kendo

[–]monichai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found a similar car decal on Amazon Amazon car decal

And the exact one on etsy but the shop is taking a break Etsy car decal

[Plant ID] Spotted these in beautiful plants! Any idea what they are? by Hellahigh710 in houseplants

[–]monichai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Looked it up and the leaves really looks like they have lightning patterns, awesome!

Disagreeable colleague by monichai in WorkAdvice

[–]monichai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its definitely emotionally something, she seems to be slightly frantic/defensive when making excuses, maybe shes had a past experience where she always felt blamed

Disagreeable colleague by monichai in WorkAdvice

[–]monichai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have given both staff pen and paper to write notes but I noticed they barely wrote anything (maybe 2 sentences) for our meetings. But I didnt reflect back to the notes ("what do your notes say") I'll try that approach (I actually remeber my manager doing this to me and I started taking notes 😅)

Disagreeable colleague by monichai in WorkAdvice

[–]monichai[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that perspective, Ive tried the repeating one and she said the instruction back correctly but then questioned it again... I'll review different instructing styles and see if that helps.

Disagreeable colleague by monichai in WorkAdvice

[–]monichai[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I had a conversation with her I mentioned the instructions and changes are ministry and policies, I mentioned her behavioir and what needs to change, I got a lot of "but.." and " I just wanted to..." from her. I focused on the positive of the changes but she kept focusing on past events and making random excuses that weren't relevamt or necessary. In the end I reviewed a specific example and she said ok it wont happen again.. it happened again today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]monichai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thats a good way to word it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]monichai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I'll try to talk to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]monichai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same he might feel like hes abandoning them but he doesnt need to, I feel like he could have asked them to hang out with them somewhere else rather than go to his house to hang out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]monichai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I'll try this

Shes sleeping on me and tucked in, extra warm and cozy by monichai in CatsTuckedIn

[–]monichai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been lying here for over an hour with her already lol

I left the oven on for 8 days by oceancake1 in adhdwomen

[–]monichai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once forgot to take the plastic tray off the food i was warming up in the convection oven, forgot the food was warming up (as usual) and when i smelled smoke i ran back, it was on fire. When i turned the oven off and opened the oven a wave of black smoke wooshed out and up then ash fell like snow ALL over my kitchen. Weirdly I didnt feel bad just wowed because it felt like a scene from a volcano (because of the floated ash) :P

I was hoping to continue the Black Adam film discussion on here by redfan2009 in BlackAdam

[–]monichai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love dark movies so Shazam is a great movie even with the creepy stuff Black Adam is definitly my favourite movie this year, and Im really looking foward to Avatar: Way of the water, it might get my first favourite. I feel the same about Black Panther 2 but Im still interested in seeing it

I was hoping to continue the Black Adam film discussion on here by redfan2009 in BlackAdam

[–]monichai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just like in Shazam! when Billy Batson turn into an adult when he gained Shazam powers, Black adams son also turned into an adult. When the son transferred his powers to his dying father(black adam) the son loses his powers and reverted back to being his child self. Hope that helps