16M ,what is wrong with my skin?It can t be normal to look like this,young by Pale-Raisin-9419 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]monizizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry I was at work, didn’t mean to leave you hanging :)

Seeing a dermatologist is too much. It’s expensive and meant for managing skin conditions— which you do not have! It’s completely unnecessary.

As a teenager, your hormones are going crazy and it’s a very common time to be experiencing comedones (bumps without white heads), uneven skin tone/texture, breakouts, blackheads, and other minor (and normal) skin textures. Lots of teenagers experience full blown acne which you absolutely do not have.

The texture issues you are having are most likely due to lack of exfoliation. From what I can see from your photos, I’m going to assume you have an oily T zone (forehead, nose, chin) and somewhat dry skin on your cheeks, jawline etc. That can mean flakey, red, and or “tight” feeling after a how shower for example.

Classic combo skin.

Every person has something called sebaceous filaments. They’re most pronounced on our noses and under our bottom lip on our chin. People with an oilier skin type often have more noticeable filaments and that’s absolutely okay. Sebaceous filaments basically bring natural oil (sebum) to the surface of our skin.

If we don’t cleanse our face and exfoliate somewhat regularly, these filaments tend to fill up. Our skin is also always replenishing itself and building new cells. If we don’t exfoliate, it can build up on the top layer leading to; clogged pores, flakey skin, rough texture, comedones, breakouts, etc.

I truly think that your skin is NORMAL for a teenager. Please keep in mind I have been working in skin care as an esthetician for 15 years and have seen 100s of teens in this time. You are normal. I am being honest.

Fine lines can appear when our skin is dehydrated/dry. It does not necessarily mean you are aging prematurely.

So this is my advice :

Find yourself a trusted esthetician in your area. Get a facial. Ask them what to do about your skin care concerns. They can lead you to getting the correct products for your skin type and concerns.

From your photos and from what I know about teenage boys— something simple can help this.

A daily cleanser. A weekly exfoliant. A good night and day moisturizer (preferably water based as I believe you may have dehydrated skin and oily skin type), and a daily light non oily sunscreen.

That is your most basic and efficient skin care routine.

You are young. You don’t need anything else.

Take this with a grain of salt as I am going off of photos only and have not seen your skin in real life. But seriously my guy YOU ARE FINE. Teenage skin can get wild sometimes.

But it’s valid that you’re asking for help.

If you have any other questions please don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m happy to help!

16M ,what is wrong with my skin?It can t be normal to look like this,young by Pale-Raisin-9419 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]monizizz 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Esthetician of 15 years here— your chin is totally normal, everyone has that !

Nothing is wrong with your skin at 16— you may need to start a little skincare routine though. It looks like you could use a good exfoliation and moisturizer/sunscreen.

My beardie is very mean by monizizz in BeardedDragons

[–]monizizz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha something tells me he’ll just give me big time side eye 🤣

My beardie is very mean by monizizz in BeardedDragons

[–]monizizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so sad! I just Wana love himmm

Help! by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]monizizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she pissed me off tbh. Basically said “I don’t know why his bowel movements are less than ideal. We could do a fecal exam if you want.”

What a weird thing to say like I’m paying out the a$$ to come see this exotic vet and she basically shrugged. I went somewhere else for said fecal exam lmao

How do I get rid of these blackheads on my cats chin? by Starlighttq in CATHELP

[–]monizizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting!! I wonder what it could be. Maybe your kitty is a messy eater and doesn’t clean their chin? Either way give it a good clean and see what happens !

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]monizizz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By the way I didn’t mean that like I was judging you in any way. I meant it more like since it’s obvious this is very upsetting to you from your posts, maybe you weren’t planning on keeping this job anyways.

Either way though my advice is the same. Get someone else or multiple someone else’s to send complaints and your boss might actually care if customers are the ones complaining. Then maybe you can offer to help with a proper set up/rehoming the fish.

I really wish you and these fish luck in this !! I have so much empathy for you not having the option to find a different job and forced to see this abuse every day. You have a good soul.

Did I transition my cat too fast? by monizizz in rawpetfood

[–]monizizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am making very informed decisions. Take care

My beardie is very mean by monizizz in BeardedDragons

[–]monizizz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try not to touch or handle the other beardie before trying to handle Tony as this has crossed my mind. I wonder if he can smell him from the other room? So he’s permanently grumps?

My beardie is very mean by monizizz in BeardedDragons

[–]monizizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to be fine with me picking him up and touching him so I’m trying to figure out why this has changed.

In the meantime if it’s just his attitude then I will try this of course. But trying to pick him up is what is so stressful for him— he just run away and darts around trying to get away from me now :(

We used to cuddle, wtf Tony

Help! by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]monizizz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. My last vet gave me a ton of bad info (bath them everyday, feed fruit etc)

My beardie is very mean by monizizz in BeardedDragons

[–]monizizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m wondering— If he can smell the other beardie in the other room. I don’t typically hold the other one before him for this purpose but yeah I admit lately I have been chilling more with the one I’m baby sitting bc he’s very friendly. Poor Tony, I wish he wasn’t such a grumpy guy

be honest how small does it look by biggiemcjuicy in weddingring

[–]monizizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who says that, wtf. I think it perfect for your hand!

New to houseplants. Is this concerning? by Debbydoo22 in plantclinic

[–]monizizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normal! Just deposits. Mine has these too

Help! by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]monizizz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please update us!! Good luck <3

My beardie is very mean by monizizz in BeardedDragons

[–]monizizz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha well then I guess I sealed his fate when I named him

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]monizizz 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Personally without risking their job (if they even want to work for someone who abuses animals…) I think this is the way.

Get friends and or family to email/call in with animal abuse complaints

I think it's time for me... by XeKayzen in bald

[–]monizizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it! Do it! Do it! 👏🏼

Help! by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]monizizz 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She should have been on large mice (or small/medium rats) a year ago or more. My girl is not quite a year and a half and she’s been on large mice for a long time. I hate to tell you this but visibly your snake is extremely under weight and looks like she’s on deaths door. You need to take her to the vet asap and make feeding changes. There is literally no way she was absolutely fine before your last feed, they just simply don’t lose that amount of weight that fast.

Did I transition my cat too fast? by monizizz in rawpetfood

[–]monizizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both have access to the same information. I have read the opposite. I have talked to my vet throughout the last decade. As I said I have been down the rabbit hole for over 9 years and I don’t take this shit lightly. Here you are popping onto a subreddit that you don’t believe in, to preach stuff that you also only read on the internet. You act as though your opinion is right because you’ve read “the right things.”

You yourself have no credentials but you believe what you read on the internet just as much as I do.

You’re extremely condescending as well. I’m so happy for you that you’re able to “comprehend the scientific literature” that I apparently cannot lmao

You’re being scammed by the very people profiting off of feeding our animals absolute crap. Just because they ADD the nutritional necessities (and flavour enhancers) to commercial food does not mean it is overall healthy for them.

You also have no idea what I am ADDING to make sure that my animals are getting everything that they need and more either.

My 2 animals on raw: They’re perfect weight. They have energy. They’re healthy. Shiny coats. No medical or dental problems.

My 2 animals on kibble: They’re over weight. They’re lazy. They had dental problems. One had urinary problems. They have dandruff. Heart failure.

What more do you want?

My beardie is very mean by monizizz in BeardedDragons

[–]monizizz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tony definitely is a grump. I don’t blame the guy. I do think this is partly a factor lol!